Bali

[QUOTE=Maui Stick Man]I come to Bali three times a year, sometimes more to surf.

Internationl Sex Guide has been good for background infromation about where to get laid.

I never registred before as I never had anything to say that some one else didn't say already, but I'm coming over in a month and maybe can hook up with some other young guys. (Under 30)

I like that Kiss my Bakung he's probably a Brazillion surfer, they talk a bit like that.

This isn't a personal attack on anybody but I agree with him about sick Mommy-fixated men. Everybody knows that guys that just gotta do it up the girl's ass are not emotionally fully developed.

Freud said that little boys who had domineering mothers who were cleanliness freaks around pissing and shitting and punished their sons if they played with their dicks, end up trying to get back at Mommy by acting out on a woman (mostly prostitiutes or girlfriends or wives they can dominate) but actually wanting to punish and humiliate their Mom.

I know about this stuff because I am doing a degree in psychological counselling and there is a lot of research going on about this subject.

The latest Kinsey report says that in 2008 10% of men and 9% of women had anal sex. Those men who "preferred" anal sex, or who did it "very frequently" or as "often as possible" was down around the 1% mark.

Which statistically makes it a deviant behavior. It was commented that this was because of "underlying psycho-pathology" rather than the quest for pure sexual pleasure. Mommy boys, like the man said.

I'm no angel, I've done the poo poo chute a couple a three of times, but I don't kid myself it's real sex.

To my shame the last time I did it I was drunk and took a girl home from down near Paddies, and I just thought, I wonder just how much I can do to this girl before she stops me? I just treated her like a piece of meat. And she just lay there and took it. Not too proud of myself.

Let's have some more down and dirty straight sex tales from Kiss My bokong, nothing sick about what he's getting up to![/QUOTE]Some guys like one thing, others like something else. Theres a bit of the deviant about all of us (otherwise for all of happily married guys we'd all be home every night watching TV with the missus on the couch.)

But no, we like chasing girls and what we do with them is up to two consenting adults.

For one joker (Bokong) to comment about the behaviour of others (or what you refer to as "mommy fixated") is an expression of your own personal opinion.

I probably find about 10% of the girls like and are happy to have anal. Does that make me fixated or just a guy who likes sex of all types with girls.

Continue with the studies, and I hope you graduate soon.

You will find that most of us here are a bit older, wiser and more experienced in life and most of us never need the psychs couch to undergo analysis. We're too busy chasing tail.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan]You will find that most of us here are a bit older, wiser and more experienced in life.[/QUOTE]I'd rather be dumb and young, pal, than old and jaded and I'll give you dollars to donuts that I get more freebies than you.

The point of what I wrote was that psychologists and sexologists are in general agreement that if pretty much all a man wants to do is fuck her up the butt, or come on her face, then the man is sick. The experts are more polite about it, they say "suffers from underlying pathology." But don't be confused about these big words, they mean sick.

It does take all sorts, no doubt about it. For myself, what goes on in the privacy of the bedroom is the business of consenting adults and if you write about it and post it on a forum like this, then I'll take a look at it.

But what makes me puke are the anally-fixated and come-on-the-face men who get an extra kick by taking photographs of their "exploits" and then post them on forums like this.

Like deviants that collect pubic hair from each of their conquests, or steal their un-laundered panties.

You know the photos I'm talking about.

The girl with the haunted eyes and come all over her face (doesn't she look like she loves it and can't wait for you to do it again?) or the body bent over with a lubed-up asshole center frame, like a dressed hog at a butchery exhibition. Pieces of meat. And, almost inevitably, the shot of the sicko's dick, as if he has to prove he's got one.

"Look at me, look at me, what a naughty boy I am, look at what I did, look at my weewee Mommy, it's a nice weewee isn't it Mommy, look Mommy, look at me."

Sheesh.

Contrast these type of photo posts, which are thankfully in the minority, with the great photos that Dars Vieder put on the Indonesian Photo Gallery last week.

Sexy, horny girls where you can see their faces, you can see that they are human beings, most of them even look like they're having fun.

Not just pieces of meat or a sad catalog of body parts to be abused and humiliated.

[QUOTE=Klit Bitzer] I've decided not to come to Bali again. even though its so close to WA. I'll go to Pattya next time. At least they don't go on about people's Mothers their.[/QUOTE]I reckon Klit Bitzer and I should exchange names. I probably do more klit bitzing than he does, and he's certainly more dazed 'n' confused than I am.

Wouldn't recommend Pattaya to you Klit, they will chew you up and spit you out. Pattaya's crash and burn territory for oldsters.

Better continue with Bali, and if you hear them talking about your dear old Mom, just ignore it.

[QUOTE=Klit Bitzer]Some of you jokers talk so much bullshit.

As if that smart-arse Kiss My Bokong and his lies isn't Enough, now we have this Maui Stick Man pretending he's a Freudian Psychiatrist.

I'll have you know that my Mother was a Saintly Woman and had never even heard of anal sex.

She must be turning in her Grave to be accused of that.

And don't go saying I stink of cigarettes, I gave up in 1958. As for smelling down there, it is the fault of the Filthy toilets in Bali that do not have Toilet Paper. The Hose that they use is a Disgusting Method and you won't get me using it.

So these blokes talk of Two Grls who don't like the old splodger shot on there boobies! The ones I know love it and I'm sure tht a lot of other right thinking men know what I mean. And they say "Go Daddy go!" when I do their bums.

These girls that Kiss My Bokong and Dazedconfused know have to say they don't like it or people will think they have Low Morals.

We are the ones with the money and "He who Pays the Piper Call the Tune" If they don't like what I want to do to them, they should get a Job in a shop.

They are just such Liars. I've decided not to come to Bali again. even though its so close to WA. I'll go to Pattya next time. At least they don't go on about people's Mothers their.[/QUOTE]I seldom laugh at any report but this one really made me laugh out loud (still giggling) hehehe

[quote]... my Mother was a Saintly Woman and had never even heard of anal sex.[/quote] hehehe. Spot on!

Before this whole thing gets out of hand. Just remember that its only a report and don't let it get to you. It's an option for you to believe it or not.
It could be BS (or not) or something in between, with some facts thrown in with an interesting story surrounding it to keep your attention, but I won't base my whole decision on going (or not going) to Bali on one or 2 reports. I recently came back from there and can't wait to go back for a repeat.

True, I never got wanked off while on a motobike -but sure to hell wish this will happen to me one day (I'll definitely post it when that lucky day happens).
And I certainly don't need Psych. conseling for wanting a little anal once in a while just to try something new. I've heard all the arguments before: like God didn't make the ass to be f**ked, its just for shitting. But by that thinking, then God didn't make the girls mouth for BJ's as it should only be for eating, and so on and so on.

In the end, it's only a report. Some can relate to it and others not.
Where you go with the info is totally up to you but in the end we should always enjoy our hobby and the "interesting info" we could find here. So try to lighten up people.--IMO

PT

[QUOTE=Phantomtiger2] But by that thinking, then God didn't make the girls mouth for BJ's as it should only be for eating,
PT[/QUOTE]


Hey PT, if the lady's munching on my weenie , isn't that like eating?--ha ha

But I do agree with you that reports should be taken with a grain of salt and either read it if it interest you or ignore it and move on. People shouldn't take reports too personally (unless it was a direct attack on an individual) and this should be resolved via personal PM between the individuals.--that my opinion.

Shark

[QUOTE=Maui Stick Man]I'd rather be dumb and young, pal, than old and jaded and I'll give you dollars to donuts that I get more freebies than you.[/QUOTE]don't be so sure that you do Oh Youthful One.

When I was young and looked good in my 20's I thought I was getting plenty. I didn't have the wisdom or experience to know that I was just doing ok. Years pass, and we learn more about ourselves, and life, and girls.

Am in my 50's and I've never had so much. And if you care to peruse the boards, you will see a high percentage of us mature gents are all managing high inventories.

This year has seen 2 freebie Filipinas in London on a business trip, standard Manila 3 in 3 nights, 2 in Bali on weekend, BKK 3 in 3 nights, Jakarta 3 in 3 nights, and on most recent trip there were 2 in 3 nights including a virgin giving up her anal cherry. I'm sure you can offer some psychoanalysis on that.

Next week there 2 more in Manila, and then will have some company, whose nationality is to be determined in Singapore, and Penang.

And these are just on the business trips that I make. Theres more in the city where I live.

These days its the youthful ones with looks, but no lolly that stands out.

You see them in clubs clutching the one beer that they can afford, wondering how and why an older, smarter, more mature wise guy gets the young gals.

Of course I haven't even started to comment on the what the girls say about the Young Bucks. " All energy but no staying power" " All cock and no talk " " No style no class" are some of the more frequent comments.

You will learn this as you mature. Enjoy the journey. You have some growing up to do Mate.

i'd bet money Bokong, Klit Bitzer and Maui Stick Man are all the same guy - look at the post counts! especially Bokong and Klit Bitzer, that HAS to be the same dude. the whole thing smells like a troll to me.

just my 2 cents. carry on with the pointless flame wars! :/

During the days when big bikes were still allowed on the streets of Bali, one night as we were coming home from dinner, my drunk GF pulled my cock out of my pants and started going at it with both hands. We were driving on jl Legian, just past Jl Oberoi, and I was having trouble driving straight. Using lots of spit and saying filthy things in my ear, just as she was getting me ready to unload all over the gas tank, a bunch of polisi appeared ahead. it was a security check. Never seen a hard on vanish faster. I was wearing a clean pair of pants, and didnt have my license with me. It cost me 100K. We laughed about it later, as we imagined the cop stopping us with my cream all over the tank !!!!!

One for the books.

:D

Hahahaha you guys are killing me, its actually getting to be fun just to open ISG in the mornings to see what other exploits or feelings have been hurt.

Lets be very, very frank about all of this... As one of the veterans in Bali I can tell you stories that would make you all never come here again and then others that would have everyone flying in tomorrow.

One thing I have seen over and over again is that girls/women in Bali don't see any of us as anything more than walking ATM's and if you think that I am wrong well good luck to you. Of course there is the exceptions but they are getting very rare and far between.

Dont fool yourself in thinking that you are here for what 7 days to 2 weeks (sometimes more) and in that time you are the only man that she will ever be with again.

Ha I say.... I regularly talk to many of the girls and they nearly all have the same story how they have a guy for the pulsa, a guy for food and accommodation, a guy for etc etc.

You younger guys as well may think they love you more than us old farts and occassionaly give a freebie but in reality when you are gone they are screwing behind your backs and probably one of us old guys... and one day they will contact you and say honey can you help me out with something... These girls are some of the best in the business and will hook you in so that you wont even see it coming.

One thing I find from girls from 23 to about 28 is they actually prefer older guys as we know how to treat them pretty well not saying that the younger ones dont treat them well, but us oldies will go to the better restaurants and happily buy some new outfits just because its fun and we appreciate a woman dressed well and not the typical Bounty bimbo.

In the end of the day... remember you are an ATM, you may scoff at this but in the long run they will hit you up for something.

I have been here for over 5 years and even these days they still surprise me. A classic example is I got a message from a freebie the other day, she married a guy who has 5 other wivesl and now is 5 months pregnant and asked me to find her a place as I owe her from before... I laughed but out of the goodness of my heart (yeah right) I did put her in contact with a good place... Her husband can pay for all I care.

I could go on and on and everyone who actually is a long-termer here will agree as they have seen it happen over and over again.

Either way keep up the stories guys, I enjoy a good laugh...

Enjoy the hunt

Prof

Just wondering. Why does that 9% of women did it through the backdoor? They had a dad who was a cleanliness freak? And what do you call them?

What about this: people are nauseated by some acts because they long to do those acts but are afraid to do that because of what happened in their youth.

[QUOTE=Menteng]Why does that 9% of women did it through the backdoor? [/QUOTE]Some people just don't get it do they? It's the 1% (male or female) who pretty much exclusively want to fuck up the butt, or be fucked up the butt, that are deviates.

And yes, women who prefer it to "conventional" sex do have problems with their fathers or the father figures in their early years. Most of them are victims of childhood sexual abuse where the "daddy" used them anally, either out of preference or because he didn't want to break the girl's hymen and risk detection by the mother or a doctor.

And DJ Monger. What a joke you think I'm posing as anyone else. Are all the people on this forum with under 5 letters the same person? And, BTW, what's a troll?

[QUOTE=FreebieFan] You have some growing up to do Mate.[/QUOTE]I guess I do. Thank you for the advice. But I hope by the time I get to be in my 50s my existence won't be as narrow and sad as yours. Just imagine, a life so full and satisfying that its a series of commercial sexual encounters with a few freebies here and there, and then, since 2006, near enough a post a day to this forum bragging about it. You da man!

[QUOTE=Maui Stick Man] And yes, women who prefer it to "conventional" sex do have problems with their fathers or the father figures in their early years. Most of them are victims of childhood sexual abuse where the "daddy" used them anally, either out of preference or because he didn't want to break the girl's hymen and risk detection by the mother or a doctor.
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As yet I think I have only run across 1 girl who asked for a butt fuck first and I am averaging about 3 to 6 girls a month for 5 years... and in all honestly I had to go the front first as its just not me straight off the bat.

As I said there is one girl and one of our monger mates from NZ can vouch for this she offers her butt first as she wants to have sex but will only give the pussy when she is sure of a commitment... Go figure... On the other hand, I have lost count of the girls who after screwing for hours will turn around and say fuck my ass.

There is one particular nurse who is going back to surabaya this weekend who is insatiable and gives a great BJ the gets really aggressive and literally throws you onto the bed and talks dirty the whole time. The last time I saw her she came to my office. No one was around so she took me into my ensuite dropped her pants and after a nice warm up in the pussy begged me to fuck her is the ass. Who was I to say no. Now however she will call me at all times of the day or night saying she is finger fucking herself and she is cumming thinking of me fucking her in the ass.

In a way I am sad to see her going, but in another way she was starting to get way too clingy.

and just a closing note... I have known many girls that will offer their butts as they think that if they give themselves completely then we will never leave them... It just has never worked that way :p

Enjoy the Hunt - and grab the occassional butt

Prof (Opps only four letters)

ProfDesigner :)

[QUOTE=Maui Stick Man]Some people just don't get it do they? It's the 1% (male or female) who pretty much exclusively want to fuck up the butt, or be fucked up the butt, that are deviates.

And yes, women who prefer it to "conventional" sex do have problems with their fathers or the father figures in their early years. Most of them are victims of childhood sexual abuse where the "daddy" used them anally, either out of preference or because he didn't want to break the girl's hymen and risk detection by the mother or a doctor.

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All bad parents and traumatic children those ancients Greeks and Romans.

BTW, it is still a common habit in some regions to do it anally during premarital sex because the girl is supposed to be a virgin when she gets married. Because when she's not a virgin any more, then some fucked up things can happen to her. Wait, wait! Better still, in that case, do not have premarital sex because otherwise it will be marked as deviant behaviour.

But I suppose neither of those ancients nor present premarital fuckers belong to the 1% group and those who are still alive can live happily ever after and keep fucking butts every now and then.