What to write? Maybe try to find the right balance.
[QUOTE=Tjohoo; 1453467]The discussion is about if we should spread information about STD-problems or not, and if specific women should be named.
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Because everything we write in here are "forever" and our judgements can have effect years after we write them.[/QUOTE]For the record: I apprechiate any warning about STDs at whatever place and with whatever person. As long as the warning is on time and still valid! Posting a warning months after being cured is not only pointless, it's counterproductive. And if a valid warning was posted, then it should be deleted again after the problem got solved. (And as long as it doesn't get solved, the warning should remain!) As I wrote in the Arabella etc thread: Even criminals get their records expunged after some time, so why should a woman or club be stigmatized on a forum forever?
[QUOTE]A few years ago I met a young cute girl in Samya, she did not give me the best of rides. I don't think my review was very positive. A half year later I went with her again (I don't know why) and I had one of the best experiences ever, and after that many many great sessions (until she quit last year). I still regret my bad review a little bit,[/QUOTE]I can relate to that, something like this happened to me too and my first report about that woman doesn't reflect at all how good she was at later parties. I did however post the good reports as well and even stated that she must have had a very bad day when I first met her. So all reports I wrote about her are on the forum now and everybody can read all of them.
The problem with STD-reports is that they only appear if something did happen or is suspected to have happened. But no one writes about STDs NOT being spread (which would be silly) and so far I have never read any report about a suspected STD being cured. (Except for that one guy who had his STD warning actually deleted after the disease was cured.)
With other issues, there are good and bad reports on the forum. One guy's "shabby place" might be anotherone's heaven. But with STDs, there are only bad reports around of course, as are with frauds. But unlike fraudulent behaviour, an STD is usually cured at some point. After which the club / women should no longer be stigmatized and the formerly valid warning should be deleted. There is after all no other subject matter on a sexforum that is more damaging for a provider than a reported STD, even after it's cured.
Be sure what you write about
[QUOTE=Dreams;1454039]First becasue I think most people on this board have caught Stds, at least once if not more often, and don't report it. For some reasons, a few decide to report. That means that the info about where STDs are to be caught is just fraught on a forum like this one.[/QUOTE]Yep. I had already mentoned before that I had had gonorrhea before, but I never mentioned any of my suspicions as to where I might have gotten it. Mainly because I don't know where I got it and I certainly didn't get it from fucking. By now I don't even believe anymore that the clap is even transmitted sexually, at least not initially. Why else was I the only one infected of those guys from the suspected party (whom I asked personally) and why did I have my first gonorrhea years before I had my first bareback fuck?
[QUOTE=Jimmy Boy 99;1453791]You will know if you are cured. How would you know the problem is solved at the club and thus delete the post? Are you going to call the club and ask if they tested the girls and they are now all not infected? Are they going to answer you with anything other than no one there has ever been infected?[/QUOTE]Yes, I would call. As I did when I suspected a place to be the source of the infection. They then send everybody to the doctor for nothing, because it turned out that everybody was clean. So I didn't get it there and it's a good thing that I didn't voice my false suspicion here on forum. They still looked at me a bit alienated the next two times I showed up there though. Because I had send them to the doctor and might even have paniced them for nothing.
As to if they would answer me with anything other than no: Yes, they would! Because if they don't and get caught, they will become subject to criminal prosecution and the club will be closed. No one will risk that.
Backtracking during the incubation time
[QUOTE=Jimmy Boy 99;1454268]Apparently you are not aware that you can get gonorrhea from a BBBJ, not just bareback sex.[/QUOTE]I'm not that much into BJs and checked in with both places I had been to during the possible incubation time. Everybody else was healthy.
[QUOTE]As for calling the club, it would depend on how specific you could be and how big the club is.[/QUOTE]Yes, that's a problem. Sorry, I just forgot that this is the FKK-Clubs thread; I've never been to a place as big a Oase.
[QUOTE=Breadman;1454225]Symptoms show up "within 1 to 14 days" so are we to assume you didn't fuck at all two weeks prior to your symptoms showing up?[/QUOTE]I checked with both places I've been to and the women I've been with and even with two of the other four guys who participated in a creampie gangbang and came up empty. I had been the only one who was infected. Neither of the two guys contracted it, even though they fucked her AFTER I had shot my load into her.
And no, I didn't fuck all that much in those weeks, which made it easy to backtrack the women. Everybody else was healthy.
There must be other ways to get infected.
[QUOTE=Breadman;1454572]You had unprotected sex and insist it wasn't from any of that contact.[/QUOTE]No, it wasn't. In all they were 8 women and none of them stopped partying for one day, except for 5 of them from the same place spending a morning at the doctor's for nothing. So how can I have gotten it from anyone of them, when they didn't have it and the other 3 didn't give it to their husbands and any of the other guys they were with? And to mention my first encounter 17 years ago again, where I had gotten it from rubberfucking. I'd say it's about time to wake up and look for the real ways of transmitting this disease, because it's not sexually transmitted initially. Kinda like a stomach bug isn't transmitted by food.
And yes, if someone already has yellowish drippings and finds someone to have sex with who doesn't notice that, THEN of course I think it will be transmitted sexually TOO. This of course all pertains to gonorrhea only, and I have written quite enough on this matter by now.