Virgin post in ISG. Lying with love.
as an introduction of myself i would first of all say i am not an native english speaker as i am from norway (english is second language). i can not compete with you aussies, brits and americans / canadians when it comes to language and grammar. but i hope you understand my writing.
i have for some months been reading this forum with great interests and to be honest it does not put itself out from a hole lot of other forums (30% useful info and 70% arguing / critizising other members). but i have for sure from the 30% got a handful of good and useful information about mongoring issues. i don't think we are a dying race yet.
i consider myself fairly lucky and i lead an easy life with an occupation which brings me around the globe. after beeing introduced to thailand in early 2008 i am trying to frequent it as often as possible and from 2010 i have been into this country +-40 times. i am done travelling this country and when i am in thailand i stay in bangkok. i like the vibes of this big city and most of all i like the girls (yeah i know we don't have big cities in my country so you have a point).
i have in my early days into los made every mistake a mongorer can make. i have paid to much, i have paid to little, i have been to drunk, i have been robbed and so on. i have even ended up in my hotelroom with a lb. and when i got angry some nasty situation arose. i just mention some securityguards, police and a nife in the lb hands and me using all my man to man combat skills thaught from my military training to come out alive, hehe. wow those guys / girls can get mad but luckely not fight (atleast not this one). grand president in soi 11 still welcomes me by the way but the lb i never saw again. wonder what happened to him / her?
i soon stated that bar, gg- and mp girls was not my cup of tea. i am more into the freelance / dating online scene (dia and tagged) and as i am into clubbing in disco or nightclubs this suites me just perfect. i would say i have done my fair share of freelance ladies in bkk and mainly i hang out in the places mentioned here in isg earlier except from cm2 which does not cope to my liking (maby because we have enough east europeans in my country). i have met good girls, bad girls and girls in the middle. what is common to all of them is that they lie. every one of them.
on the other hand the online girls, i have to say, have surprised me. having read that tons of people have beeing scammed and hazzled. the online girls have turned out to be all good (i have not investigated them so hard because i have not paid them anything but they seem very good) and i use online girls to cover my need for normal relation between male / female. the problem is, and i am sure some of you guys have the same problem as me, they start to get to many and you have to start lying, don't you agree?
i tried my lying project just before christmas and told one girl i was arriving the 19. 12. 12. of course i was arriving the 18'th and went to spasso (with a friend of mine) for some freelance excitement. while sitting down enjoying the usual bottle of vodka, i suddenly noticed from the other side of the bar 2 girls looking at me in funny way. i did feel like there was sth familiar with one of them but after a few minutes it slipped my mind. i saw one made some phonecalls and after 1 hour or so my 19. 12 date shows up. wow what a commotion. i soon realised it was her friend staring at me in the begging. she did see me on one of our first meetings because she joined my date in q-bar (my choice) but i was at the end a bit drunk and did not quite remember her face (they are so hard to devide when they come in groups, hehe. but the make up sex was great i have never been so raped before from a woman.
my next fuck up was in january. i did my usual "arrive to early without telling routine" and this time i had this special tagged girl who i have met on several occations as my date target. i arrived early in the morning and after some sleep i grabbed a few beers from the minibar and started to look in dia. soon one "office" girl makes contact wondering the usual things. since i am not much of a smalltalker (maby a longwriter) i dived into asking her if she would like to meet up after her work. and she told me yes. she worked as a massuse in kempinski hotel so she suggested i meet her in siam paragorn. we went to kabuki restaurant for some kobe beef and it was nice. stunning lady. very beautiful girl (ca 170cm, nice handfuls, and hips with beautiful handles). i asked her if she would join me in my grand president (i usualy stay there) room. she said yes and off we went. from nana bts it is just short walk to president but who do i meet in soi 11? yes, my tagged girl of tomorrow. wow what a commotion. but what surprises me in bangkok is that they in some way forgive you. in norway i would most likely have been ditched by both girls. i know this may not be the truth if you are married to a thaigirl (i guess there is a reason thaidoctors are experts in putting your dick back on) and i read they can be pretty violent with both scissors and knifes if they caught you cheating on them. i saw some nasty pictures ones from a friend of mine working in the police where that described had happened. omg.
and not to speak of my regular gf in norway. she is the one i lie to the most. but so far i have not beeing caught. she is by the way norwegian / philly and i hope they are much calmer if they find out.
i have 3 ground rules as a mongorer: i never pay as in sponsoring a girl, i smile and i treat them nicely (escept from lying that is of course. but just a few know i am lying).
any fellow mongorers out there doing a fair share of lying as your usual bangkok / los routine? just wondering.