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[QUOTE=GrownMan1;1487587]There are over 2800 pictures in the photo thread. Over half are pictures of naked chicas. How many ISG member got permission from the chicas to post their half naked to naked body on this forum or to share their encounters with them.[/QUOTE]Not many, but they should. People have gotten in trouble over videos, for example a guy who posted a video on Youtube was detained in the DR, and some guys who were shooting porn videos where hijacked by gangsters on the way to the airport. If a chica is a criminal, she may have criminal associates who could bother you, perhaps on a future visit. Why go to the bother of obtaining and posting pictures? This is not effective use of your time. By all means write about your experiences, but it is probably best not to post photos or real names.
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Besides that, isn't there a website that women use about guys they should not date or screwed them over or whatever? And there is also a website used by guys about women who scam. Can't remember the names of any right now though.
[Url]http://reportyourex.com/featured-video-archives/dont-date-him-girl/[/url]
[Url]http://www.stop-scammers.com/[/url]
As always you should practice this hobby with caution and live by buyer beware and YMMV.
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[QUOTE=Sure Thing; 1487547]On chat lines and webcam you know the money is going to the chat line and webcam. For the captains who are paying to be told what they want to hear except they believe what they hear and think it's real luv or they wouldn't be sending money to begin with.
Big difference.[/QUOTE]For Chrissake! There are tens of thousands of people who send money by automatic debit every month to ripoff charities supposedly to support poor families in third world countries, very little of which money actually reaches the intended recipients, who are never personally identified to the donors with real names, addresses, etc.
If men are sending money to women in the DR at least they know the families and are getting something in return including sex and perhaps getting to know a family, seeing children grow up, learning the language, and so on.
A chica has been using one of my computers for communications with men via Tagged, Skype, Facebook, etc. And you would be amazed how many pathetic, sad, lonely men there are whose only joy in life seems tol be hours of banal conversations or masturbation on Skype, and they never travel anywhere, perhaps because they can't afford it or have criminal records, I don't know.
At least guys who send money to women have some human contact in their lives, and most likely they can well afford the money they are sending. Of course if they are short changing their own children in the home country to send money overseas, then that is deplorable, but how does anyone know that?
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You are to timid
No body is getting in trouble for posting a bad actor. Come on Fran get pair. Bet you are scared to jay walk.
[QUOTE=Frannie;1487721]Not many, but they should. People have gotten in trouble over videos, for example a guy who posted a video on Youtube was detained in the DR, and some guys who were shooting porn videos where hijacked by gangsters on the way to the airport. If a chica is a criminal, she may have criminal associates who could bother you, perhaps on a future visit. Why go to the bother of obtaining and posting pictures? This is not effective use of your time. By all means write about your experiences, but it is probably best not to post photos or real names.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Frannie;1487731]For Chrissake! There are tens of thousands of people who send money by automatic debit every month to ripoff charities supposedly to support poor families in third world countries, very little of which money actually reaches the intended recipients, who are never personally identified to the donors with real names, addresses, etc.[/QUOTE]That's charity, there's no expectation of a relationship or sex. You're giving money someone you think needs it but you don't know what they look like, you're not attracted to them, and you have no interest in receiving anything in return. Charity and "tricking" are two different things.
[QUOTE=Frannie;1487731]If men are sending money to women in the DR at least they know the families and are getting something in return including sex and perhaps getting to know a family, seeing children grow up, learning the language, and so on.[/QUOTE]Well to be true the only thing you know is that you're sending money and she's receiving it. For all you know she could be buying new shoes or buying her real boyfriend new shoes. You can get the sex without wiring her money every month.
[QUOTE=Frannie;1487731]At least guys who send money to women have some human contact in their lives, and most likely they can well afford the money they are sending. Of course if they are short changing their own children in the home country to send money overseas, then that is deplorable, but how does anyone know that?[/QUOTE]If that's the only human contact you have then you seriously need to restructure your life. I'm not trying to be cruel but that sounds like a very unhealthy (mentally) way of living.
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[QUOTE=The Mind Bender;1487785]You can get the sex without wiring her money every month.[/QUOTE]Oh come on. Most of the guys on this board travel overseas to have sex with prostitutes to make their miserable lives bearable. It really is a question of the pot calling the kettle black when guys come on this board to attack other guys whom they perceive as being lower down the status ladder than themselves.
Yes you can get sex without wiring money every month, but people can do what the hell they want with their disposable income. I would imagine that people who send money every month feel that they have more of a connection than just getting sex.
If someone who sends money to a chica doesn't send it any more, there is no guarantee that the opportunity cost money will be spent on good works or will profit the human race in any manner. If she cheats on him or has a Dominican boyfriend, that is their business. Why should it concern third parties?
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Great Points
No doubt. Every person pays for the service they want. If sending money and having what they consider a relationship. It is their fantacy. Some people drive Bentleys othere KIAs. The value is perceived. I am talking to this girl on line who has a deformed face. Her nose was cut. Her body is a ten. Some guys would be man why you with her. Sweet personality and hot body.
[QUOTE=Frannie; 1487789]Oh come on. Most of the guys on this board travel overseas to have sex with prostitutes to make their miserable lives bearable. It really is a question of the pot calling the kettle black when guys come on this board to attack other guys whom they perceive as being lower down the status ladder than themselves.
Yes you can get sex without wiring money every month, but people can do what the hell they want with their disposable income. I would imagine that people who send money every month feel that they have more of a connection than just getting sex.
If someone who sends money to a chica doesn't send it any more, there is no guarantee that the opportunity cost money will be spent on good works or will profit the human race in any manner. If she cheats on him or has a Dominican boyfriend, that is their business. Why should it concern third parties?[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Frannie;1487789]Yes you can get sex without wiring money every month, but people can do what the hell they want with their disposable income. I would imagine that people who send money every month feel that they have more of a connection than just getting sex.[/QUOTE]Well I really wasn't trying to attack you man just trying to understand the mentality behind it.
WU payments aren't my thing but if that suits you fine so be it
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[QUOTE=The Mind Bender;1487802]Well I really wasn't trying to attack you man just trying to understand the mentality behind it.[/QUOTE]Sorry I misunderstood your spirit of enquiry.
[QUOTE]If you're paying her when you're not around what's she doing for you?
If you're paying for some kind of exclusivity how can you possibly verify that? Her word?
Sounds like all pay, all deceit and no sex to me[/QUOTE]It is just that a couple of new contributors to the board have jumped in with very strongly expressed opinions about this, and I am just trying to offer a more nuanced view of the matter.
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[QUOTE=OldKool;1487417]You talking cigarettes I think, I never had a chica who smoked in all my time in the DR.[/QUOTE]Well that makes 2 of us that has never had a chica in the DR that smoked regular cigarettes.
But as far as the left handed cigarettes go. They all seem to love it.
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Woah, Come Down
[QUOTE=Frannie; 1487840]Sorry I misunderstood your spirit of enquiry.
It is just that a couple of new contributors to the board have jumped in with very strongly expressed opinions about this, and I am just trying to offer a more nuanced view of the matter.[/QUOTE]Look Frannie,
I wasn't attacking either but I'm in the same position of trying to understand this also. Plus I was giving a warning not attacking. I hear your opinion but we will just have to agree to disagree on this one. Plus I'm not that new of a member. I've contributed some reports about several years ago about the DR. It just that when I tried to log back in I couldn't remember my password and had to make a new one.
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[QUOTE=Sure Thing; 1487867]Look Frannie,
I wasn't attacking either but I'm in the same position of trying to understand this also. Plus I was giving a warning not attacking. I hear your opinion but we will just have to agree to disagree on this one. Plus I'm not that new of a member. I've contributed some reports about several years ago about the DR. It just that when I tried to log back in I couldn't remember my password and had to make a new one.[/QUOTE]OK, this what you wrote before:
[QUOTE] These guys are who I call Grand Master Super Captain Save-a-whoe. These guys I believe should never get in to the hobby of mongering because they are such simps they believe that the GFE experience is real love. They probably read these boards too and listen to the homies but still believe that their chica or girl is one of a kind. It's been so many times I have been long stroking brides to be while their man is back home pampering them with WU money. You simps are probably reading right now and thinking not your girl because when I call she always answers. You are right she does, she'll be talking to you while sitting on top of a couple of inches.[/QUOTE]To me this comes off as vindictive, hateful, and boastful not as an attempt to understand more.
The women described are not showing much respect to the man who is supporting them, but not to you either, as she does not even turn off her phone to have sex with you, perhaps because she expects a call from her main man.
I cannot answer the question as to why so many men send money to chicas in the DR. There are men of all ages and from many different countries and at many different economic levels, and you see couples all over the place, at the supermarket, in restaurants and bars, at apartment complexes, and schools, if there are children, and so on. Some of the time the men are elsewhere, especially if they are running businesses or not yet retired, so they send money.
You say: "These guys are who I call Grand Master Super Captain Save-a-whoe"but you don't really know anything about each individual couple, how they met, what the basis for their relationship is, and so on.
Here's a little story that may open your eyes. About ten years ago I knew a guy in Puerto Plata who had a girlfriend whom he eventually married and took to England. They had at least one child, but I don't know how it all ended, as I lost touch with them. In the early days of their relationship, the woman found out that the guy had had sex with another chica. However her concern was whether he had paid or gotten a freebie, because in her mind payment for sex was just one of the unfortunate, but necessary facts of life, but a chica having sex with a man for free was an entirely different and much more serious issue-that would be cheating.
That's why it is best not to get involved between two other people-because you really can't know all the ins and outs of their relationship or what they expect from each other.
I know another couple where the girl got pregnant and the guy was sending her support for her and the baby and then came to the DR and married her and eventually took her and the baby to Holland. Last I heard they were doing OK, though no doubt she was finding it hard to adjust to her new life.
You see, every story is different, and while I am sure that the boyfriends of the women you have sex with do appreciate your sympathy, it won't make the slightest difference.
You can be sure that most of the men met these women in prostitution environments and are well aware of the scene. The men may also have their own infidelity stories. Both may be bad actors, but if there is something that also holds them together, maybe personal chemistry or affection, or whatever it is then so be it. Also take into account that many men don't take much pride on being out on the street "mongering" and looking for a new partner each day and may get more satisfaction from a one-on-one relationship with someone who hits the spot for them. Sending a regular remittance certainly builds dependency, and though she may continue to cash in on her depreciating assets in the meantime, she will probably also be in touch with him daily via phone or Skype or Facebook.
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In truth
Most girls I have dealt with would not smoke anything. Weed is viewed by them as a hard drug or more like cocaine. Most of my Haitian girls enjoyed weed but their culture is very different. I was surprised by this but it has been confirmed over long period of time. When you find a DR girl who smokes look out. Real good chance she is very hard core.
[QUOTE=The Mind Bender; 1487802]Well I really wasn't trying to attack you man just trying to understand the mentality behind it.
WU payments aren't my thing but if that suits you fine so be it[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Frannie;1487721]Not many, but they should. People have gotten in trouble over videos, for example a guy who posted a video on Youtube was detained in the DR, and some guys who were shooting porn videos where hijacked by gangsters on the way to the airport. If a chica is a criminal, she may have criminal associates who could bother you, perhaps on a future visit. Why go to the bother of obtaining and posting pictures? This is not effective use of your time. By all means write about your experiences, but it is probably best not to post photos or real names.[/QUOTE]I will agree to disagree about what is an effective use of ones time. I could say the same the about talking about eating vegetables and fruits or drinking coffee on a Sex Guide LOL. But I found it entertainingly funny!
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[QUOTE=OldKool;1487963]Most girls I have dealt with would not smoke anything. Weed is viewed by them as a hard drug or more like cocaine. Most of my Haitian girls enjoyed weed but their culture is very different. I was surprised by this but it has been confirmed over long period of time. When you find a DR girl who smokes look out. Real good chance she is very hard core.[/QUOTE]Wow OLDK I thought you would have ran into a few with your encounters. Out all the chicas I have dealt with. 40% of them hit the want to hit the jay. It's usually the younger ones. I hung out with a Dominican street hustler in Sosua who tried to sell me weed. He pointed out and introduced me to all the chicas he sold to. They seem all Dominican. There were a good bit. I didn't buy that shit but I learned some shit. If she smokes a cigarette she is more likely to hit the jay.