Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

I had good luck with CB, but didn't like the fact that I couldn't get / send contact info immediately. You have to exchange messages at least once before YOU can give your contact info. Ridiculous IMHO. I used them two years ago, so I don't know if they still have this policy. CB is okay, but might be better for the wife hunting type of guy.

You might also consider where you will be. I eventually picked CB because they had a lot of women from Mindanao, which was my destination at the time.

DIA has the big disadvantage in that they have only one pic. DIA may be free, but your holiday is not. You can spend a lot of time on cam checking them out (advised, but time consuming), or waste time meeting women who are as ugly as sin.

For newer members, I would receommend the pay sites.

One of the toughest things for me was keeping track of all the women and their pictures and their contact info.

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[QUOTE=Blizz]Hey Guys,

After having used Date in asia and feedback here on ISG, I want to give a paid dating site a try.

Right now i am considering:

- filipinaheart.com
- cherryblossoms.com

So your advice on which one might be best will be appreciated.

I do have a free profile on both. FH looks more professional, while the girls on CB seems nicer. The costs would be comparable, so what are your experiences so far. Or on any other dating site.

Thanks![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Blizz]Hey Guys, After having used Date in asia and feedback here on ISG, I want to give a paid dating site a try.

Right now i am considering: - filipinaheart.com - cherryblossoms.com

So your advice on which one might be best will be appreciated.[/QUOTE]'Strike rate' on both is erratic & comparable. I say hit _all_ the dating sites at once. Its amazing how you see the same faces turn up .. hint hint.. ;)
It can be fun getting girls from dating sites but can quickly become time consuming & more like work than fun. Most girls are using a shotgun approach. Most girls have a different handle "screen name" on each site (cutejoy26 on CB, wowmari75 on DIA etc ), an unrelated email address (hothelen90@yahoo.com.ph), a different yahoo IM handle (snowwhite217@yahoo.com), a borrowed cell phone number and about 37 internet boyfriends all chatting simultaneously.. not much chance of anything meaningful happening here :D

AV

[quote=blizz]hey guys,

after having used date in asia and feedback here on isg, i want to give a paid dating site a try.

thanks![/quote]

unless you're taking a very long vacation in the phils, just hit the malls, clubs and other filipina gathering places. smile a lot (i mean a lot fellas!), make as much eye contact as you can with every girl who will look your way, strike up conversations with every girl you come into contact with (even if you're not interested) to hone your hunting skills, and don't be afraid to ask the girls for their cell numbers...do all of this even if this is not your normal mode of operation in your home country, or even if this kind of interaction with the ladies makes you uncomfortable. the more you do it, the more natural and comfortable you will become. do it because it is guaranteed to get you laid a handful of times during your stay. as you get better at it, you can single out the women who most interest you and concentrate on them. finally, move around a lot. stay in one place too long and you'll discover just how small the philippines is, and how very large and intricate the grapevine can become. it's very fun and challenging to branch out. i try to visit a new city or island each time i'm there, but alas, the old haunts do call me back from time to time.

i have used the dating sites before with luck, and i have some chat-mates whom i chat with, and i have been given cell numbers from girls i have met online since my last trip to the phils. i might even meet them in january if it's convenient for me to do so, but essentially i don't like planning my trips around meeting a bunch of "hit or miss" women. the effort consumes too much time. there are an enormous amount of women every where you go just waiting to strike-up a conversation with you. whatever your method, you shouldn't have any problems meeting available women in the phils.

always on the quest

yella man

[QUOTE=Yella Man]Unless you're taking a very long vacation in the Phils, just hit the malls, clubs and other Filipina gathering places. Smile a lot (I mean a lot fellas!), make as much eye contact as you can with every girl who will look your way, strike up conversations with every girl you come into contact with - Yella Man[/QUOTE]Sums it up perfectly YM!
It becomes strangely 'other worldly' at times. The ease of picking out a real honey and a short time later being in bed with her has to be experienced to be believed.

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[QUOTE=Amavida]Sums it up perfectly YM!

It becomes strangely 'other worldly' at times. The ease of picking out a real honey and a short time later being in bed with her has to be experienced to be believed.

AV[/QUOTE]But its not only in Phils.. Ive had this in Bangkok too. Confirmed a trip to BKK, and told a new never met before "chat friend". She was waiting in my hotel when my taxi arrived. Completed the registration card, got room keys and looked at my watch. it was 19.10.

By 19.20 we were both naked.

As for FF post below, brings back memories of arriving in Bkk without a reservation. My old standby, Nana hotel was fully booked, and while walking down the road from Nana a gal asked me where I was going. She was cute as a button and recommended a place and helped me check in and fkd me one way, two ways, sideways, and then left. I was coming in from Hawaii so had a fair bit of jet lag.....she was just what the doctor ordered.

But, I have digressed! She wasn't a chat friend.

Has anyone met this one?

DIA: darah, 28, Philippines

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[QUOTE=FreebieFan]But its not only in Phils.. Ive had this in Bangkok too. .[/QUOTE]

Has anyone ever met this girl from DIA: Anne Roslalda

Any info would be appreciated.

Is there any sort of code on dateinasia that might indicate that they are p4p?

A girl said something about "working with my friend bar", just wondering if that might be code.

[quote=cwomd]is there any sort of code on dateinasia that might indicate that they are p4p?

a girl said something about "working with my friend bar", just wondering if that might be code.[/quote]

in chiefthinker´s inquiry for anne roslalda there is some kind of code ;)

"my character is perhaps capricious and selfish.

i am 22 and looking to meet real men and couples for good times. i am into hardcore sex. i am looking for serious inquiries only. i want [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord134][CodeWord134][/url] play, [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord128][CodeWord128][/url] and forcable sex. make me fuck . i will do it all. use me as your personal cum ****. i do not have a mind to have the relation with a man who doesn't show face. filipino must not do me contact either."

of course she might be doing it for free although last sentence contradicts that.

[QUOTE=Cwomd]Is there any sort of code on dateinasia that might indicate that they are p4p?

A girl said something about "working with my friend bar", just wondering if that might be code.[/QUOTE]

Second answer on more serious note... Majority of bar girls work because they are single mams. You might check "Have children" in the profiles. If there is "Yes (don't live with)" you probably have higher probability for P4P.

Anyone had any luck meeting some Filippina FL's or no pay freebie gals through the introduction website 'Tagged' ?

I have made a few contacts and have some phone numbers but I am just wondering how legitimate these women are or are just fronts for webcam agencies ?

[QUOTE=White Whale]Second answer on more serious note... Majority of bar girls work because they are single mams. You might check "Have children" in the profiles. If there is "Yes (don't live with)" you probably have higher probability for P4P.[/QUOTE]

Quite a few girls do not disclose they have kids. Only after probing you will find out the truth. Sometimes you will not know till she is naked on your bed.
Lots of P4P girls go on online website posing as regular girls. It is next to impossible to know their true nature.
My advice is if you are into F,F,F no need to worry. Any serious relationships need to be carefull.

There are at least two scammers on DIA using the Yahoo ID: julianaloveyouall and display name "Happiness Always Gladys love". These moron's MO is to pose as a Filipina and send a request to be added to your Yahoo messenger contacts. They then quickly close the account so you cannot see who it came from in order to prevent you from reporting them once you realize it's a scam. Once they start chatting with you they will reveal that they're in fact from Africa. After that it's a typical weak Nigerian scam attempt. The person making initial contact writes English very well the person who takes over mid chat spells like shit with terrible grammar.

The story is that Gladys the scammer has 40 bags of gold jewelry that her father left her when he died. She needs you to send her $400 to get a passport and visa to get it out of the country. Sound familiar? I told her I would help her once I got there and ran some tests on the gold to make sure it was good. ;) After that Gladys asked me to erase her from my contacts. Yeah right! Sure Gladys.

Do not open your cam or accept picture files from these scammers. They will try to send you picture files embedded with a Trojan. If your firewall and antivirus stops it they'll resort to their idiotic 40 bags of gold con. Do not add anyone to your Yahoo contacts until you chat with them through DIA for while and they pass preliminary screening.

[QUOTE=Osakagin]Anyone had any luck meeting some Filippina FL's or no pay freebie gals through the introduction website 'Tagged' ?

I have made a few contacts and have some phone numbers but I am just wondering how legitimate these women are or are just fronts for webcam agencies ?[/QUOTE]

I do not explicit answer to give you about "luck". The AC bar girl I met couple of years ago has invited me afterwards to Tagged and Hi5. So she is doing side job as freelancer there.

[QUOTE=Chocha Monger] Once they start chatting with you they will reveal that they're in fact from Africa. After that it's a typical weak Nigerian scam attempt. [/QUOTE]

I just noticed a nice feature with Cherry Blossoms is they show the IP address of the location where the poster is working from. IP stands for Internet Protocol and its the "address" of the server that handles the users connection. For Europe and North Africa is troublesome because one company (Ripenet i think) handles most of the traffic, so you may have the same IP for all those countries. But for the PI its one group of IP addresses. You may see pinays working in Europe and Hong Kong etc showing up with those IP addresses.

The other sites should implement that, its not hard to do.