They feel more comfortable
I do too and that's why I visit and stay in Cascadas Mon or Tues evenings however the rooms I know about previous deaths I do not want to stay in.
Now just have to figure out how to avoid $30 wine bottle scam but someone posted in here that drinks price list in the back next to soap girl bar. Much easier to steer a chica away form $30 wine bottle if can show meteor drinks prices posted.
Zero Sum Gain for HK if the Monger All the Wiser
So true Red Baron! Is easy to get suckered into it and usually for me no matter where I go it is almost always my 1st attempt to pull a 'date' not so much cause I'm in a hurry but off guard especially if I just arrived into a place and had been traveling.
Happened to me in Costa Rica last trip when I first arrived to my hotel (Castillo), dropped my bags then off to walk to a nearby restaurant open later (Sportsmen's) when a fat tummied working Ho inside Castillo shanghaied me following me saying things to make me feel guilty for trying to brush her off. So Ok you can come with me to dinner at Sportsmen's and she not real expensive to give drinks or food to but back in the room changed the contract from 2 hours for $125 to only 1, $125 for 2nd hour. No way San Jose, paid her to leave after the 1st hour. Has been like that in HK for me also. 2 of the last 5 gals there I had to send packing cause they wanted $ up front. No way Tijuana! But when you get the good outweighs the bad.
Not sure I understand the whole wine issue. Just say NO.
If you don't want wine just say "beer only". They aren't forcing you to get wine.
1) You aren't looking good by buying expensive drinks. It just makes you look like a sucker and a target. The "wine" is more than likely some kind of piss water.
2) If the girl shows attitude over this, imagine how she will be in the room. Let her go. This is actually a good way to ward off the sharks. In fact, any time I see a girl sitting there with one of those wine glasses, that is a strike against her in my book.
3) If you find it difficult to say no when the girl / waiter try to pull this scam on you, I would suggest you search for a backbone.
I too don't understand the wine issue
Any chica who orders wine, I say no. If she pouts, she's sent packing. Any mesero who brings wine anyway I refuse to accept it or if he places it on the table I hand it right back. If this simple approach is too much for a monger, then he needs to grow a pair pure and simple.