Trust is good caution is better
[QUOTE=BjWicked;2598927]So, my question to you guys: all south American experience is the same? This was my first bad experience, and it really hurts when you find someone unfair when you are being honest with them.
Thoughts?
Note: Beware of her profile.[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear your story it is a good wakeup call for a few of us. Incidentally I scored with my first Colombian but that was abroad while travelling for summer. And the experience was quite good save that she was darker than her pics, which was not of an issue for me and I had a good time.
Incidentally I have recently received from a friend this quote: "Hard life lesson: Life will not treat you better because you are a good person" and I think that there is some wisdom to it. I do understand that showing trust and good will can in some cases result in better service. However, in this particular situation, she had no incentive to give you good service once the money was in her hands. Her incentive was to leave ASAP and move on to the next kill. We are as much preys as hunters in this game, we tend to forget it but that's the truth. Or more precisely, we hunt them and they (bait) fish us until we move to shepherding once trust is established. She probably just sees you like 99% of her customers as a one off thing, probably because she is unable, unwilling to give a good service and maybe also because she hates doing this, which is something that we males tend to forget. To cut it short, it is good to show trust, but it is also good to protect yourself against the down side if the deal if it goes awry. For instance, first always ask for a discount or mention that it is expensive. Most businesses have a "sucker fee" which is above their real rate and would immediately give you a discount should you just mention it. Second, try to start small (e. G. Book her for one hour) and agree on an extension if she delivers. Note that on the other end, they don't care not to show trust (they most always ask for payment before anything happens). Last, trust IMHO should be based on experience with a WG and observed behavior since it is very difficult to decide ex-ante who is trustworthy and who is not, and you should not base your judgment just on nationality or other elements. In any ways, the positive thing is that from there you your next experience is most likely going to be good and you'll surely end-up scoring a few homeruns.
Stay safe.
