Risk involved in fingering
Hello friends,
I am not writing the FR here but just got too much worried after my first encounter. I met one of the indi HW yesterday. Had a good experience but after we complete our job few thoughts caught my mind and I am little more worried today. There was no any brokage of condom as confirmed by her. But in access of the act I got to finger her for 15-20 seconds and to my worry I have got a little cut below my nail for the same finger (Generally everybody's skin here is little thin and breaks often due to work like washing cloths) and I am very much worried about that. She told me that she is clean and has negative report before 3 months. I believe her completely but the general question coming in my mind as:
1. If someone tested negative 3 months ago what are the chances of them to spread infection.
2. When I read more about tests it says that it takes.
3. months to give correct results. Now suppose someone got exposure 1 months back and went to Osho resort where he will be tested negative as the test takes 3 months to show correct result. Now this person does unprotected sex with someone else will that new person get infected? I do not have any intention to spread fear but I am really worried now and want to go for a test but waiting for another 3 months is very much depressing for me. Senior guys please give me some advice on this with your experience. It would be helpful for new members and the girls also to play safe.
Advance payment and other bloopers
[QUOTE=BondBond;1918460]Hey bro. No advances at all. The thumb rule. Am sure all others will agree.[/QUOTE]Hi to all.
1. Yes, advance payment and eft are sure signs of outright fraud. Like Anu4 fun on locanto. Or newly married wadala. List goes on and on.
2. Extra good photos and pushing you on as soon as you see girl, usually in a dim-lit vehicle, are signs of bait and switch. Posts by Sarkar on locanto will give you this experience.
3. Giving your hotel room number puts you at risk of the shame-scam. They will rip you off, bad gal, no performance, etc. Just bcos you are afraid they will make a scene. Somebody had posted here about such experience at vakola 5* hotel. Also classified responses asking you for photo, phone number too many details.
4. Classified ads also do a lot of misinformation. Fake pics, fake deal, fake service, you name it, they have it. E. g. Mumbai locanto has an ad for Bangkok sandwich massage. In reality, no spa pr MP. Just the shitty Sakinaka crook SPs, Sarkar's brothers in arms, who will call you to Gate 5, and then send you and a wg to a low class hotel near a lake. All of us should actively flag such scams on CL, locanto and elsewhere. The site has a button to flag. And if 4-5 people do it, the ad gets taken down. This works on CL for sure.
5. Then the girls themselves will have the sob-story scam. Somebody is ill or dying or needs money for school fees and so on. If a gal brings up a sob story the first time you meet, and wants money, then you know.
6. The amount you pay SP and the amount the girl gets out of it, is another scam. In my very early days, when I was still figuring out things, I once paid an A'bad sp 17 k incl 3*hotel and unlimited shots. He put me in a creepy lodge. Girl was good luckily and had no probs with 3 pops. She told me she would get 4 k.
7. Burn ex scam. Guys put the number and photo of someone they want to hurt, harass. This gets to the police very quickly, so be measured in your communications.
Not even bringing up the armed robbery types of scams.
There are so many scams mentioned in FRs here. We could all list them out and then put the full list in the RoD forum. Mongers have to be real careful and think with the big head, and not afraid to cut their losses and bail out.
Spa report from P. S, Report 1, Y spa 4 floor
Been a silent observer in this forum since a long time. Had BP experiences only before 6-7 years back. Not much to say about BP, but providing detailed review of all the spas in P. S area for benefit of fellow mongers.
1. Indradhanush. Why spa, three letter word.
They always tell the therapist name who is to be allocated during the time of booking, so no need for any additional extra hints.
Only tried Maharashtrian therapists at this place. All are married. For some reason they do tell about this and also mention they have kids. Slight turn off. If they tell they are married, that's fine but kids. That somehow changes the mood for me.
Coming to therapists:
A. Mrs are- Average massage skills, doesn't take the dispo down even a slight bit during back massage.
Faced an issue even putting on the black dispo that they give, was very nervous for some reason. Wore the dispo in such a way that johny was getting exposed (why do folks at this spa call dispos as Panties, it bugs me. Only ladies wear panties). Are knocked to confirm if I changed to dispos, was still struggling and was fully naked. Are laughed and said, you don't even know how to wear a panty and gave the Panty to wear (this was with lights ON) That was a good start of conversation though.
Started the massage, usual talk. No hints or anything, I was almost shaking due to nervousness due to it being my first mongering (if we can even call that) experience at spas. Smiling therapist with good height and build, told her I am very nervous and this is the first time. Gave average massage, no hints or touching near the groins or anything. Had gone with the very intention of having at least HJ or HJ with TL. So even after a slight turn-off about the married with kids stuff, asked politely. If you don't mind, is it possible for you to give some extra. She then spoke in my ears that rate is 1 k for HJ (did not mention HJ but just expressed with hands) and 2 K for HJ with TL on top. Negotiated 1 k for HJ only. After negotiation, she turned off the lights and started the deed.
As HJ was slightly in progress, again asked very very politely if I can get top access to which she obliged readily. Touched the boobs from inside. Tried to touch her bum at which time she politely said, please not there.
HJ was done in 5-6 minutes with lights off.
Massage - 5/10.
Therapist looks and build - 7/10. Smiley face.
HJ+TL experience- 5/10- OKay, not great. Access to top from under her uniform.
Be. Mrs S. Good massage skills compared to Mrs R. Slightly old. Not a smiling face, looks to be to occupied and reserved but based on fellow mongers, she is supposed to be the provider of extras the most.
Not much to talk as went this time for the massage part as 1 K for just HJ looked like too bad an investment unless the massage turns me ON.
Very good massage with slight touches inside the dispo / groin but not that much to indicate that there are hints. Did not ask about extras and just waited if I get the question from Mrs S. At the end of a good massage, she turned to massage the head. Conversation during the massage went around how the rates have increased in Pune during the recent times and how there was nothing in P. S just a few years back. She understood I am a budget thinking guy and did not ask about extra but said that next time I come try for Body Polish or scrub and also said that she will be inside the shower with me after the scrub (Fellow mongers, please help if you have taken body polish scrub at this place. Want to try this at some point if it is worth it.) . I said I will try the next time.
Massage- 7/10.
Therapist- 6/10 , fair but slightly old.
Extra experience. Nil. Though I heard from fellow mongers that Mrs. S is the bolder of the three at this place.
See. Mrs A, good massage skills, takes the dispo down ever so slightly.
Massage- 6/10 - Mrs S still gives the better massage.
Therapist- 5/10 , very average looking.
Extra experience. Nil. Though I heard from fellow mongers that Mrs. S is the bolder of the three at this place.
Spa Rating:
Ambiance- 8/10.
Shower Rooms - 8/10 - This spa has spacious shower rooms compared to others that I have visited which again brings the question, how good or what is this body polish with shower is all about! Any FR on body scrub here will be great.
Other things:
A. I hope they don't have cameras inside massage rooms here. I saw the receptionist guy looking at what looked like a CCTV footage here. Fellow mongers, be careful and provide your inputs on the camera thing.
Be. They maintain historical record of therapists we had in earlier visits. I happened to come across the previous therapists name against my number when paying the amount for the therapy. They know who we had earlier and mention the names accordingly and probably gauge the therapist popularity based on that.
See. Looks like the north Easts are either on leave or left the Spa as upon inquiry for 2-3 times on different days in the last week, got the response that and. Es are on off day today.
As far as extras. Medium experience. Not that good to boast about.
Advance payment and other bloopers
[QUOTE=AmpMax;1918509]Hi to all.
1. Yes, advance payment and eft are sure signs of outright fraud. Like Anu4 fun on locanto. Or newly married wadala. List goes on and on.
2. Extra good photos and pushing you on as soon as you see girl, usually in a dim-lit vehicle, are signs of bait and switch. Posts by Sarkar on locanto will give you this experience.
3. Giving your hotel room number puts you at risk of the shame-scam. They will rip you off, bad gal, no performance, etc. Just bcos you are afraid they will make a scene. Somebody had posted here about such experience at vakola 5* hotel. Also classified responses asking you for photo, phone number too many details.
4. Classified ads also do a lot of misinformation. Fake pics, fake deal, fake service, you name it, they have it. E. g. Mumbai locanto has an ad for Bangkok sandwich massage. In reality, no spa pr MP. Just the shitty Sakinaka crook SPs, Sarkar's brothers in arms, who will call you to Gate 5, and then send you and a wg to a low class hotel near a lake....[/QUOTE]8. from AFF you will get response for chat from good girl and soon you will migrate to gmail or Skype. Scammer will note down all and in month of sweet sexchat he will try to take nude you on Skype (he will never share his webcam) and make video. Meanwhile in sexchat he will gather all information and later he will make video and join with child video and later will approach you with all details and warn you to put this on internet and your facebook friends and demand huge money. If you got person name and email ID it's very easy to search it on google and blackmail start. You can not do anything in shame.
Any one suggest MP form NB in baner is worth or not?
Any one suggest NB for E A spa at Baner is worth or not? If any have experience. Please share. I am new and don't want to have first and last experience.
