Sosua Reports

Any recommendations on which cell phone provider to go with in Sosua? Will be staying for three weeks next month and plan on buying a cheap phone that I can just load with minutes versus paying for a plan. Any advice would be appreciated, not looking for a smart phone, just a very inexpensive phone.

Thanks

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational; 1524689]The only places I have ever stayed in Sosua are Europa and Sosua Bay. Neither me nor my friends have ever had a problem of theft by hotel employees (thieving chicas yes). But if I suspected I would have a problem then:

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The times that I have been travelling and thought that I had been got, I later remember that I broke the bill down when I paid for something. It happens more than you would think; especially in countries that use high-denomination bills such as 1000s. You think you have a lot, but they go quickly.[/QUOTE]I guess the idea is, you put a label over the safe door, or anything where you have a separation of parts (like an entrance doorway or sliding glass door ), so that if the two parts are split one would have to break the label?

With my friend, I do suspect he was got by somebody. But I don't think he's certain if it was Europa staff, or a long term resident, or any company he had. He moved to another room in Europa. I do know what you say. Dominican pesos go quick. My friend had only been there for 2 days, so I'm inclined to believe he knew how much he spent and how much he should have left in that amount of time.

Eventually made it to the playa. Only saw a few chicas walking on the beach. Was in Rumba last night around 8, and there was only a few chicas in there. Pretty dead. Walked past D'Latins and it was dead as well (but to be expected at that hour ). All the rest of the bars right in the vicinity were just sprinkled with customers. I think the restaurants were doing okay as far as people coming to eat. I saw enough chicas out and about, but much of what I saw were average looking chicas. Plenty of pudgy / thick girls around too. (not my preference ).

Thats all I know as of 10:00PM. Whatever happened after that I have no clue. Sat at Rockys for about an hour and didn't see as many chicas passing by as I'm used to. One chica that passed by Rocky my buddy flirted with her briefly. She was a cute redbone wearing a yellow dress. Pretty sexy, with a nice round ass, the high heels, nails, hair and makeup in place etc. She looked like she was ready for D'Latins instead of Rumba. He tried to get a feel for what she was looking for $$$. She said she wanted 2000 for an hour. He wasnt that interested but he told her 2000 would be for 2 hours, not an hour. She apparently told him "oh you want 1000 per hour?". Eventually she just walked away to search for clients.

About 4 in the afternoon, I did meet a cute personable chica walking while I was sitting in my car near Baileys. Said she was from San Pedro. I took her number. Once I left my parking spot and went around the block, I saw her again on PC and Dr Rosen. She was definitely on the prowl. Which didn't impress me much at 4 in the afternoon. She would probably have been good for a quick nasty snack, but nothing more. Spent the night alone. So I saved money and leche for another day. Got to pace myself. Still got 31 days to go.

[QUOTE=Surfer500; 1524727]Any recommendations on which cell phone provider to go with in Sosua? Will be staying for three weeks next month and plan on buying a cheap phone that I can just load with minutes versus paying for a plan. Any advice would be appreciated, not looking for a smart phone, just a very inexpensive phone.

Thanks[/QUOTE]The best thing to do is buy a somewhat cheap UNlocked phone on Ebay. Then, where ever you travel, just buy a sim card and minutes. I have a Orange sim card in the DR.

[QUOTE=Tomjackin;1525005]The best thing to do is buy a somewhat cheap UNlocked phone on Ebay. Then, where ever you travel, just buy a sim card and minutes. I have a Orange sim card in the DR.[/QUOTE]I have a claro card in my DR phone, but it dosent recieve calls or texts if it rains to hard. LOL. Go Orange!

[QUOTE=Brother P;1525061]I have a claro card in my DR phone, but it dosent recieve calls or texts if it rains to hard. LOL. Go Orange![/QUOTE]I now have Claro but I miss my Orange! Service a little better and the price was the same.

[QUOTE=GrownMan1;1525077]I now have Claro but I miss my Orange! Service a little better and the price was the same.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the feedback from everyone, I'm going to go to Orange and purchase the cheapest phone they have in there store in Sosua. I may be paying a little bit more for the phone but if I have a problem while in Sosua I can just take it back to the store to fix any problems.

Gone through that plenty of times myself. Chicas you get with, and might even start getting attached to. They like you back and you help them out a little bit, the moment you say you have no money to give to them, they disappear. And then you remember."that's right. Should I really be surprised?" With a couple chicas I have been surprised and didn't expect them to bounce. One chica spent three days with me, we enjoyed talking to each other and had a good time. Helped her out a little bit, knowing in the back of my head that she lives in a relatively poor country and cannot afford things. But I started to get annoyed when I'd get a whatsapp message asking for xxxx pesos and the conversion rate to dollars and that it was needed immediately for [insert reason here]. The moment I said "sorry, I'd like to help out but I have bills to pay this week and can't do so." I received a curse filled response that ended with a "I never really liked you, I knew this from the moment I saw you. You are a fool, no girl will ever want to be with you when you can't even give them money. Only a real man helps a woman out financially. You are not man." (it was in Spanish)

I shook my head in disappointment, and amazement at how a person could switch just like that. But really, I should have known this. Sometimes you learn the hard way.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005; 1524631]Well I'm on the ground in Sosua. Got here Saturday. Was thinking of my blondie chica lately, so after getting in my place and a little shopping, I called her. Said she was home in Santiago. She said she was coming to Sosua, will be there around 11pm (in spanish ). I never set foot on the strip.

Sunday night wasnt sure who I was going to call, but I was thinking of my restaurant chica on the beach. Didn't call her initially, but I went to get a pedicure in the afternoon. Towards the end of my pedi, the chica in the salon seemed receptive so I expressed interest and we agreed to get together when she got off at 7. Came by at 7, she wasnt in the salon. Called her but there was so much noise in the background, couldn't hear shit. Told her to text me, no text. So immediately I went to plan B. One of my adopted policies is not to waste too much time on flaky females / situations.

Called my restaurant chica, she was home? Got herself together and was in Sosua around 9pm. Stopped for some pizza, and off to my spot. So yes, mi hermano, having backups can be worthwhile. The benefit is you know what to expect in the bedroom. No concerns of scams or unnecessary BS. Negotiating is usually not necessary, nor is money discussed. You already know what you are going to give her. Main problem though, is once you make contact, you might have to deal with them trying to monopolize your time, or assume you plan on seeing them everyday. You see them everyday, they expect to be getting paid everyday. This chica no longer works at the restaurant. So unfortunately now she will be available every day.

Thats not good for me. I like when chicas are working and not readily available. I've learned though. One of the best chica repellents in existence IMO, is to just tell a chica you don't have any money. You tell them that, and more likely than not, that chica will be ghost. I remember one chica last month that was persistently pestering me about getting together again and again. It wasnt until I told her I didn't have any money, that she made a complete 180 and just said ok amor, and stopped calling. It was like magic. Any other excuse and the pestering would continue to no end.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Puntz79; 1525157]Gone through that plenty of times myself. Chicas you get with, and might even start getting attached to. They like you back and you help them out a little bit, the moment you say you have no money to give to them, they disappear. And then you remember."that's right. Should I really be surprised?" With a couple chicas I have been surprised and didn't expect them to bounce. One chica spent three days with me, we enjoyed talking to each other and had a good time. Helped her out a little bit, knowing in the back of my head that she lives in a relatively poor country and cannot afford things. But I started to get annoyed when I'd get a whatsapp message asking for xxxx pesos and the conversion rate to dollars and that it was needed immediately for [insert reason here]. The moment I said "sorry, I'd like to help out but I have bills to pay this week and can't do so." I received a curse filled response that ended with a "I never really liked you, I knew this from the moment I saw you. You are a fool, no girl will ever want to be with you when you can't even give them money. Only a real man helps a woman out financially. You are not man." (it was in Spanish)

I shook my head in disappointment, and amazement at how a person could switch just like that. But really, I should have known this. Sometimes you learn the hard way.[/QUOTE]What you just shared should be stickied somewhere here on ISG because guys need to know and / or be reinforced that much of what they see and experience from these chicas is all an act. In principle, the way that chica turned on you is how it is in general in life.

I'm sure you know this already. We have all seen how it is after lending somebody some money. They are as friendly as Caspar (the friendly ghost) before they get the money. But when it's time to pay back, their attitude changes to contempt for you. 'If I knew you were going to be sweating me like this for this money, I wouldn't have borrowed it. ' They will use any excuse to have a problem with you, so they don't have to pay you back.

Dealing with chicas in this p4p game aint much different, just that the context of the game is different. Many of these chicas arent content with simple p4p. What I call pay per use. No. I believe it is psychologically fulfilling for many of these chicas to steer their interactions with men to make it seem as if they got something going on besides p4p. Thats why I think it looks so silly seeing dudes leaving the strip walking down the street holding hands with these girls. It's bad enough seeing it with guys playing the role like they have a relationship with any of these girls while he is in his own country.

These chicas are very convincing. They may start off with a shit load of syrupy behavior to try to get you emotionally attached and sucked in, and repeating the same dumb shit they are saying to you. Like "I miss you","Te amo", calling you "mi amor:, mi vida etc etc. Weve all seen it. It's all good when they do it, but when you find yourself saying that shit back, many of these girls think they are tying you emotionally to them. The idea is, it can and has made it easier for them to get to their goal of eventually testing a dudes "feelings" for them. You said you miss me too. You said you love me. You call me love, sweetheart so I expect you to show your love once I start giving you some of my problems to solve. Chicas don't always ask for shit, they simply tell you their problems and then expect you to "feel" sorry for their predicament. She saw / heard you say you miss her. That you care for her. So now it's time to deliver.

Of course some chicas don't have time to waste so they come straight to the point of what they claim to need. Of course enough of these women are not looking at their behavior as prostitution, nor do they think they are doing anything wrong by juggling several dudes at the same time, and trying to get shit from all of them. Even when they get busted, they find a way to rationalize and lie their way out of shit. This whole p4p game is a game of wits. It's chess it aint checkers. But once a dude is aware of whats going on, he can be an awesome force and still have fun with these chicas.

Just yesterday, this one chica I know found out I was back in Sosua. She asked me where I was. I said I was with friends at Rockys. What does this chica do? 10 minutes later she shows up there. She got a quick surprise. 2 of us sitting there talking had already fucked her, and my friend next to me had just got her number 3 nights ago. So when she rolls up to Rockys, she got a huge surprise and tried to play it off as if she was just walking by. The transparency of many of these chicas is amazing. The only thing important to her is making that money.

But to read her texts and the syrupy icons she sends me through whatsapp and viber you would think she really has feelings for me. But the thing is several dudes are all getting the same messages from this chica. She briefly stands around in Rockys, I semi ignore her and continue socializing with the guys. She leaves and texts me a minute later asking me do I want to "frikki frikki conmi". I said yeah, but again when I have dinero. She shoots back. I want to be with you, you can give me when you have. I wasnt ready for that one. I thought just telling her I have no money now would solve the pestering, but it didn't.

Basically I just stuck to my guns. I just told her, I don't want to have to pay her later. I will wait until I have money. That worked. She did shoot back "Plis". I just ignored her. And would have ignored her if she kept going after I already told her the deal. 4 days in, last 2 days no juice from any chicas. Slept solo. I want to fuck who I want to fuck, and when I want to fuck. I'm in no rush. It's your vacation/time/money. You are the prize catch. They are just selling a service. Dont let chicas take charge or the lead. Brothers dont forget that.

One chica I met last month, already asked me to bring her a Galaxy phone as a gift. I ignored that request then. But in typical form, these chicas will come right back and try again, again and again. They don't think that when you ignored their request the 1st time, that maybe they shouldn't be asking for shit. That doesn't enter their brain. They simply try again and again until they get a definitive response. IMO they are persistent in trying a dude because they probably think a dude is emotionally attached to them after having had sex with them, and them seeing him cum and him enjoying their bodies. Persistence sometimes pays off. Thats why panhandlers, touts, change guys, venders ect keep coming around and asking the same people over and over again even though they got a no before.

This same chica texts me again a month later asking for a Galaxy phone. When I got to Sosua this Sat, I didn't tell her I was here. But I eventually mentioned it to her. She acted surprised when I told her I was here already. Her concern was, she wanted to be here when I was here because she has been pushing the idea that she likes me and that she has feelings for me. That I could be her novio. At the very least, her not in Sosua means some other chica is getting whats "hers". She throws me a test question in text after my revelation of being in Sosua already."Tu no quiero mi?" I used that question as an opportunity to straighten this chica out.

I said yes I want you. I thought you were already here in Sosua. She said, I haven't been to Sosua since I left on Dec 28 (I left on the 19th of Dec ). I told her you know I left on the 19th. I know I am not the only man you spent time with before I got there or after I left you there in Dec, so I wasnt expecting you to make time only for me. I went on to say, I want us to have an honest friendship. I know you don't come to Sosua just for me, so lets not act like you are coming to be with me only. After that convo, I think I caught her off guard. Because I think she was convinced I was totally absorbed with her predatory love.

I think a lot of these chicas think like that when they get with a dude much older than them. They act like the older dude will do anything to keep young women interested in being with him. They tend to under estimate some of us as all being thirsty horny men with no options. Possibly I don't think I will get any more requests for a phone or her asking me to send her money so she can be with her kids and not have to come to Sosua. Yeah she tried that one too. I almost forgot about that one. The most I suspect from her now, is her whining about me not trying to get with her as much she wants. I'm supposed to get an ego boost every time she wants to spend time with me. Meanwhile it's really all about pursuing the money. Spending time, means getting paid. Thats their main goal.

What do we all do when we need cash? We go to the ATM. What do the chicas do when they need cash? Just step outside. The streets are their ATM. Just remember that and put that in the front of your mind.

'How chicas trying to squeeze extra cash from you and what to do about it' or something like that.

I've been reading your reports for quite some time and they have a cold shower effect when I'm about to be carried away.

Not always pleasant, but definitely required reading for any of us, thanks for posts.

P. S. I agree that bringing them new Galaxy would be stupid, however, older Galaxies available at Amazon or Ebay for 50-100 bucks. Older Galaxies may serve as incentive and / or tips for anal or some other crazy shit you want to do with her LOL. Worked for me.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1525224]What you just shared should be stickied somewhere here on ISG because guys need to know and / or be reinforced that much of what they see and experience from these chicas is all an act. In principle, the way that chica turned on you is how it is in general in life.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1525257]One chica I met last month, already asked me to bring her a Galaxy phone as a gift. I ignored that request then. But in typical form, these chicas will come right back and try again, again and again. They don't think that when you ignored their request the 1st time, that maybe they shouldn't be asking for shit.[/QUOTE]It's not complicated. Just tell them to give you 40000 pesos and you will buy it and bring it back for them next time. That will stop all of that. The problem is when they see cake daddies doing it for their friends or guys buying them on ebay passing them out. Why even put the thought in their heads by opening up that can of worms? You are still going to get the pussy like everybody else and it's not going to feel any different. You think her mouth will get wetter when she sucks your dick because you gave her a phone? The girls don't realize how much these things cost. They think we get them significantly cheaper, which we don't. They also think we are rich because we have trained them to think that way by doing shit like that. My girlfriend has a BlackBerry. I have a Galaxy S1. A couple of months ago we were talking about how we didn't like iPhones. She said that she wanted to get her a Galaxy S4. I told her that I hope she had an extra 40000 pesos laying around, because that is how much they cost. That is two months salary for her. She hasn't wanted a Galaxy S4 since.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1525293]They also think we are rich because we have trained them to think that way by doing shit like that.[/QUOTE]They can easily check out prices in US, but they want it for free.

Despite the fact that these chicas by the level of relative income belong to the upper middle class in DR, they still trying to squeeze it out of us.

I probably will not call one of my favorite chicas next time I'm in DR just because I'm tired of hearing this Galaxy BS.

[QUOTE=Surfer500;1525096]I'm going to go to Orange and purchase the cheapest phone they have in there store in Sosua. I may be paying a little bit more for the phone but if I have a problem while in Sosua I can just take it back to the store to fix any problems.[/QUOTE]Not knocking your plan, it could be the best option, but never assume that problems will be solved, guarantees or contracts will be honored, promises will be kept, or goods supplied will be to the correct specification and not defective, anywhere in the DR, with any company. If they can fuck a customer over they will do so, especially if that customer is a gringo.

Obviously some entities are better than others, but I have been shafted, or at least obstructed, from surprising quarters. [u]Nothing[/u] can be relied on here 100 per cent