How sex is for Women vs Men
I have always been wondering about the question I put in the subject of this post. However it has always been difficult to find a true explanation since no post I read was by someone who was able to feel both sides in person. I gave up on it until I run into a very interesting post by a mtf transitoner last Month. Decided to post it here since I couldn't find appropriate forum for it. Here it goes.
I can't speak for post-op women, or for sex post-HRT, so this post is about masturbation. That said, masturbation is generally comparable to sex, so I hope this helps.
Pre-everything transition I had a sterotypical male sexual experience. It starts with a intense and fairly instantaneous increase in sex drive. Once stimulation began sexual pleasure would slowly increase briefly and then plateau. Immediately before climax sexual pleasure would spike intensely for 5-10 seconds, at which point orgasm would occur, lasting about 5 seconds. After orgasm, sexual pleasure would fall to almost nothing within 10-20 seconds. The refractory period after an orgasm was 5-10 minutes, and any subsequent orgasms were less intense than the first.
This is my experience on one year HRT. Sexual arousal is almost never random, and requires some sort of stimulus (mental, physical, visual) to begin. At this point I can decide to go with it, or go back to having virtually no arousal. If I go with it, once stimulation begins sexual pleasure is very minimal, and comes in waves. Stimulation must be properly timed to the waves, in order to increase the level of pleasure. Both the intensity and frequency of the waves of sexual pressure steadily increase until climax, which generally takes 5-20 minutes to reach. Climax is not an all or nothing thing. Once climax begins, it can either end fairly abruptly (5-10's) or, if stimulation continues, be extended (20-40's). After climax, intensity of sexual pleasure slowly decreases (20-60's) until is reaches a low point of general pleasure throughout the body which can last for 5-10 minutes. Refractory period after an orgasm is roughly 10-30 seconds. Once the peak of the climax has subsided, you can being stimulation again. Fairly intense sexual pleasure will be maintained until a second (or third, or fourth) climax is reached. The second climax can usually be reached within 1-3 minutes after the first if stimulation begins immediately after the first climax. The longer you wait after one climax to begin stimulation, the longer it will take to achieve an additional climax.
Again, I can't speak to how accurate this is with sex post HRT, because I don't have an SO, but it should be a fairly accurate picture of sexual experience as an MTF.
HK Cover Charge & Coupons
What time do the cover charges start on Friday & Saturday night? Would seem easy enough to come into the club just before that time.
Anyone know if you can use the HK coupons more than once (printing out multiple copies) on a trip. Like once per day or 24 hour period.