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[QUOTE=Sunlover2;1870831]IMO in this game the race goes to the swift and decisive. If someone else was buying her drinks he was simply paying for her company during that time. Business is business after all and the club mamasan took the bird in the hand. Lesson learned the hard way if there are hard feelings. Tomorrow is another day.
SL.[/QUOTE]Have to disagree. A ladydrink is as you put it 'paying for her company during that time'. Its the interview process. If I'm paying for her time and someone tries to barfine the girl while I'm paying for her time, then the gloves are off. You might have barfined her but you won't be doing much fucking with a broken nose. But those are the risks involved with poaching another man's target.
p.s. as to your 'put up or shut up' headline, curious what you would do if a pissed off guy came up to you in a club after you pulled this stunt? would you put up or shut up?
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[QUOTE=BananaBoi;1870867]You would fight a guy over a hooker? [/QUOTE]Me personally? No, way too many fish in the sea. My point is there are guys out there itching for a fight, bumping into them and knocking over a beer is enough to get them going. Barfining a girl out from under them is another thing entirely. This isn't the FKK scene where everyone plays nice.
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[QUOTE=Breadman;1870869]Have to disagree. A ladydrink is as you put it 'paying for her company during that time'. Its the interview process.[/QUOTE]What if someone bar fined her yesterday for today, and she is merely working the bar waiting for him to arrive? It happens, and there is always tomorrow.
SL.
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[QUOTE=Sunlover2;1870873]What if someone bar fined her yesterday for today, and she is merely working the bar waiting for him to arrive? It happens, and there is always tomorrow.
SL.[/QUOTE]Its possible but the situation still stands, your asking for a fight in some circumstances. When the guy gets in your face, tell him that 'there's always tomorrow' as he starts pounding in your face as his drunk buddies egg him on. I understand Pattaya is pretty much open season, I can walk up to any girl anywhere and ask if she'd like to come to my hotel, even if she's sitting with a guy having lunch. If she's not in a hotel room, she's open season.
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Homey don't play that!
[QUOTE=Breadman;1870798]Show of hands, how many guys here would have issues with someone barfining the girl they were sitting next too in a club?[/QUOTE]Oh no, I definitely would not play that shit! If I'm sitting there talking to a girl and I know I want to take her, I don't give a shit who paid the bar fine first. It's not where you start. It's where you end up. And possession is nine tenths of the law motherfucker! What I would do is go ahead and pay the bar fine my own damn self, then dare the other bastard to make a move. She's with me, and she's leaving with me! What you about to do about it hommes? What you need mamasan? Because what you need I got!
I would never engage in this type of thing (booty snatching), and its never happened to me. We're not in "the hood", and it's just plain ungentlemanly. But, I'm not about to sit there and get "chumped" either. You can bet that! So if somebody thinks they're about to start fucking with me that way, then they've got another think coming! I tend to mind my own business and don't like drama. But let somebody start fucking with me and / or the girl I'm with and see what happens. They're going to wish they were back in the hood!
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[QUOTE=UncleVolodya;1870645]Kumbu!
Welcome back old friend.[/QUOTE]Great to be remembered, Uncle V, and even more so by a fine gentleman such as yourself. And I've been following your exploits, with great pleasure I might add.
But as nice a feeling as it is to be remembered, it pales in comparison to knowing that I may be back plying my trade in good old LOS soon.
[QUOTE=Breadman]Dangerous game your playing, taking hot girls right out from under a drunk guy in a bar who just spent his hard earned money on the girl. And if he had friends who were as drunk. In the real world you'd get your ass beat 9 times out of 10, last time I checked Thailand was the real world. You lucked out this time.
Show of hands, how many guys here would have issues with someone barfining the girl they were sitting next too in a club? [/QUOTE]This was mamasan's decision (to take the girl from some other customer and hand her over to FL Hawk), and so there is a certain amount of safety that comes with that situation. It is not in the club's interest to have such fights break out. It's bad for business, it gives them a bad name, and it shows they are not running their business in an honorable way. Nor is it in their interest to leave long-term customers without their girl of choice. It makes good business sense to satisfy their loyal customers.
I think the girl, the mamasan and the bouncers all play a role in reducing the chances of such fights. I was once in a situation where I had bought a girl two LDs and the girl then tells me that the mamasan was forcing her to go with this dude who just walked in. He was an old customer, and so there was loyalty to him. I was none too happy, but nor was the girl. She pretend-cried for me a little, which silly as it seems, made me feel better. She also gave me her number and told me we could hook up the next day (I never called her though). She then left, and I gave the other dude the most almighty skunk-eye, but he did not even know what was happening. Why should he? Mamasan then walked over to me with two of her bouncers nearby and explained the situation. She offered me a whole plethora of other girls, none of whom met my taste. She then comped me the LDs. That made everything fine, in my book. All I had lost was 10 minutes of my time. Moreover, I was good with the girl and the mamasan because I had not made waves.
The next night I went in there and I got the super-star treatment. This was at the Pattaya Baccara, around 5 years ago.
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Now that's different
[QUOTE=Kumbu;1870909]This was mamasan's decision (to take the girl from some other customer and hand her over to FL Hawk), and so there is a certain amount of safety that comes with that situation. It is not in the club's interest to have such fights break out. It's bad for business, it gives them a bad name, and it shows they are not running their business in an honorable way. Nor is it in their interest to leave long-term customers without their girl of choice. It makes good business sense to satisfy their loyal customers.[/QUOTE]The scenario you describe is different from one where some arrogant asshole thinks he can just swoop in and take away somebody else's prize. It was 100% at the instigation of mamasan who explained to you what was going down, and who was magnanimous in going out of her way to make you whole. As you said, the guy didn't even know what was happening. A different situation calling for a different reaction. No, I wouldn't necessarily be happy about it, but not something to be ready to get into another monger's grill about either. In this case, it would be you against "the establishment". And "you" would lose.
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Why repeat
[QUOTE=FLHawk;1870665]I believe your advice is solid. Too late now Fon, but I may be back a week from Saturday and I will try to contact her again and set up something. But I am on the hook for 3000 with her for ST and I really doubt the experience will be great. But I may have helped in our Line texting, and if she re-engages me, things might go acceptably well.
I think I will be ok with Pam now. Not sure why I keep being drawn back to I-Bar looking for her. She is cute with that killer smile, but I really don't want to ST her again. She is fun and I lost my Disco virginity to her, so some of this may be natural. But don't worry. Bell overshadows Pam, and I have a real Thai sweetheart I am going to visit tomorrow for a week. Just got to survive tonight.[/QUOTE]To FL.
Why repeat there are so many girl here I sample 5 girls in 4 night here I never repeat not like you even have a good experience with the girl and you over paid also.
Fast eddie 48.
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[QUOTE=BananaBoi;1870866]Thanks for another report, FL. Set price is 1000 baht for 30+ minutes and when I say '+' that could mean an hour depending on the girl. It's why room waits can be long. CIM, anal, etc. Is included in the 1000 baht, again ymmv on what the girl offers. Service at Kinnaree is generally very high and nice to see even a brand new girl providing ok service. [/QUOTE]It is very difficult that anal is included in the 1000 baht! I always ask in advance if girl can do anal, and in the last 4 years all girls in Kinnaree ask me a tip for anal sex. CIM yes, is included but anal no!
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2 questions
I watch many videos on Youtube about Pattaya and would like to ask two questions (I am going there in a couple of weeks):
1. Are the girls standing outside in front of gogo bars and looking to catch clients also "barfinable" or not?
2. It appears that in beerbars girls play pool or playing dice with clients. Is this something special? Are these girls different from other hookers?
Thanks for your infos!
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[QUOTE=Gannaton48;1871066]
1. Are the girls standing outside in front of gogo bars and looking to catch clients also "barfinable" or not?
2. It appears that in beerbars girls play pool or playing dice with clients. Is this something special? Are these girls different from other hookers?
[/QUOTE]1. Someone said that they are barfinable, someone said no. I don't know because I never try, just ask them when you are in town.
2. nothing special, these girls are there for find customer like all other girls. Play game is the classic boring routine of beerbars.
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[QUOTE=Gannaton48;1871066]1. Are the girls standing outside in front of gogo bars and looking to catch clients also "barfinable" or not?
[/QUOTE]1. with a very few exceptions yes they are. Don't worry you'll usually find a better girl inside.
[QUOTE=ChristianG;1871059]It is very difficult that anal is included in the 1000 baht! I always ask in advance if girl can do anal, and in the last 4 years all girls in Kinnaree ask me a tip for anal sex. CIM yes, is included but anal no![/QUOTE]Thanks for clarifying about anal. Was only posting from my limited experience. I've only been with about 6 different girls at Kinnaree and 2 offered anal on a repeat session. If I recall I think I tipped the girls about 200 baht after the first session.
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[QUOTE=Breadman;1870874]Its possible but the situation still stands, your asking for a fight in some circumstances. When the guy gets in your face, tell him that 'there's always tomorrow' as he starts pounding in your face as his drunk buddies egg him on..[/QUOTE]Once again, how do you know to who are giving the advice to stay low? You have no idea who can end pounding who. And remember that alcohol only take away the fear, but doesn't make you any faster, stronger or better in a fight.
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Guys, I am in Banhkok with my friend and can't file reports for another week or so. My last night in Pattaya is will be worth the wait.
As for bar fining a girl out from under another guy. The mamasan asked me if I wanted Fon. I said yes. I was not even aware she was with someone until the manasan called her over. Also, as I said, I have had a girl pulled out from under me. Bummer, you buy drinks and she leaves to go dance or she leaves because the mamasan tells her to. I have no idea what the situation was with the other guy. This is how they play the game. Note that some guys will tie up a lady for hours with drinks then never BF her. Pick a fight with me? At the Peppermill? I don't think so. Track me down later, you could take me, but not inside Peppermill. Bouncers and girls both would take you down. I am too good a customer. Meaning, I have more money than brains.
Take care. I will be onhere very little over the next week.
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[QUOTE=FLHawk;1871431] As for bar fining a girl out from under another guy. The mamasan asked me if I wanted Fon. I said yes. I was not even aware she was with someone until the manasan called her over. Also, as I said, I have had a girl pulled out from under me. Bummer, you buy drinks and she leaves to go dance or she leaves because the mamasan tells her to. I have no idea what the situation was with the other guy. This is how they play the game. Note that some guys will tie up a lady for hours with drinks then never BF her. Pick a fight with me? At the Peppermill? I don't think so. Track me down later, you could take me, but not inside Peppermill. Bouncers and girls both would take you down. I am too good a customer. Meaning, I have more money than brains.
[/QUOTE]You just barfined a girl from under a guy, your going to have to leave the bar soon since you just barfined the girl (and the guy knows it). Will the bouncers protect you after you leave the bar? Its a risk is all I'm saying, especially if you don't have a wingman with you. Personally I like to keep a low profile in foreign countries but if you want to wear your "I'm American" t-shirt its your choice.