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[QUOTE=SavePros321; 1529598]Hat tip to TweedleD for this video link. I have never watched a Cuba Dave video until tonight. It's pretty good and should be required watching for newbies and vets alike:
[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXP5yu0552E[/url][/QUOTE]I downloaded that video when it 1st came out a while back. I also downloaded one of his other videos that he did before the Sending Her Money Video. It is entitled RFM (Request For Money ). One thing though, I'll bet he has a ton of personal examples of sending chicas money or has sent chicas money on request. He doesn't elaborate too much of his own mistakes, he tells you about what happened to other guys. When it comes to himself, not much detail. I like the analogies he uses to make his point.
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[QUOTE=Manizales911;1529516]Why would he repeat with a girl that stole something from him in the first place?[/QUOTE]He has several things working against him for why he repeated with her. The toothpaste was a small tube, so he wrote it off as she probably needed it. That sympathy perspective gets a lot of us in trouble underestimating people. Two, he is a much older cat, new to mongering in Sosua, who just doesn't know what to expect or fully how to conduct himself here in the jungle. Three, he was just being stupid for leaving shit out. Many dudes are sporting thieves for company but don't know it. Meaning, many dudes including vets repeat with thieves, but may not be aware they are thieves. Here's a question. Why do guys repeat with thieves or potential thieves even if they never stole from them?
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I think I know Why
[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1529771]He has several things working against him for why he repeated with her. The toothpaste was a small tube, so he wrote it off as she probably needed it. That sympathy perspective gets a lot of us in trouble underestimating people. Two, he is a much older cat, new to mongering in Sosua, who just doesn't know what to expect or fully how to conduct himself here in the jungle. Three, he was just being stupid for leaving shit out. Many dudes are sporting thieves for company but don't know it. Meaning, many dudes including vets repeat with thieves, but may not be aware they are thieves. Here's a question. Why do guys repeat with thieves or potential thieves even if they never stole from them?[/QUOTE]I have repeated with someone I know is a thief on my home turf in Tijuana but with extreme caution (button down the hatches with your belongings). The reason I repeated is because the sex was off the charts with them.
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[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1529771]Here's a question. Why do guys repeat with thieves or potential thieves even if they never stole from them?[/QUOTE]My answer to the first part of the question is that they are idiots, nobody I know would do that. And they're ALL potential thieves in a third world country.
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[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1529771]Why do guys repeat with thieves or potential thieves even if they never stole from them?[/QUOTE]Because guys don't think with their "big" head. If you tell your buddy that this smoking hot chica just stole $100 from your safe a few days ago (because you forgot to lock it while in the shower) , your buddy may be thinking one of two things:
-"Well, she didn't steal from ME"
-"He's just trying to keep her for himself"
Lmao!
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[QUOTE=Wrx2005; 1529762]Today was my date with the La Vega chica I met in Santiago at the restaurant. We agreed to meet at 2 at the same place. Chica was a little afraid of our meeting, because she didn't leave La Vega until she was sure I was really coming. Apparently she thought I might stand her up. I got there 1:45, and she got there about 2:40. Chica was smoking. Red hair, tight jean shorts cut off at the knee, and clear high heels. We had an appetizer since neither of us was hungry, and drinks.
My spanish was being put to the test. Now I'm in a non p4p situation and have to really communicate like a regular couple. Thanks to my limited spanish abilities (speaking and comprehension) and my Ipad translator app, we got through our time at the restaurant. Afterwards we went across the street and went up all the way up to the monument. Stopping to take pictures along the way, a little affectionate embracing. Chica initiated taking kissing fotos. When it was time to walk all the way back down, we were holding hands like were already a couple. Although I think I was doing it more because I didn't want her to fall with those high heels she had on. Chica is 32 with a 13yr old. Later I had to pick up a few things at the supermercado, and so did she. When it was time for her to head back to La Vega, she couldn't tell me where she needed to catch the public bus, so after driving in circles, I decided to just drive her to La Vega. Dropped her off at a taxi stand in La Vega, a quick kiss and a thank you, and I was on my way back to Sosua. Chica says she can cook. Would like to go to the beach. So maybe we have something we can build on. She was a pleasure to meet. No bad vibes or awkward moments between us.
So once again, the La Vega chica & I to be continued.
Got back to Sosua around 9pm[/QUOTE]Good report bro. Although I'm surprised you had the balls to be driving at night! I've rode in a cab from Blackbeard's to Sousa once and that road seemed very treacherous.
[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1529762]I'm still baffled by some guys saying only a few days in Sosua is enough, or a week is too much. I think having a place that feels like home, and living with other expats in a community is partly responsible for my tolerance for Sosua. Plus I like the beach, and getting in the car to explore. I think anyone could get bored if the most they do is p4p (along with dealing with the hustlers etc) and not doing anything else that is fulfilling except for dropping leche loads. [b]And perhaps they don't really enjoy being in their hotels?[/b]
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I think that is key. You have an apartment, so that is a game changer. More privacy, a couch to sit on (and not a wooden stool like at Terra Linda), a stove, etc. I could not bee cooped up in a hotel room for a week in Sosua. The area surrounding the strip is so small that everyone (the hustlers, change guys, and of course the chicas) know your business. They know what day you arrived, which chica(s) you have banged, where you go to eat, etc. Plus, if you are staying at a place like New Garden, you've got all the guys hanging around outside their rooms hawking every chica that you bring through there.
The long short of it is that you've got an apartment, rental car, and established outside (of Sosua) connections. I would not be bored with those options. But I would be with seeing the same group of chicas day in and day out, dealing with the same hustlers day in and day out, eating the same restaurant or hotel food, and being confined to one block (the strip).
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[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1529762]Later I had to pick up a few things at the supermercado, and so did she. When it was time for her to head back to La Vega, she couldn't tell me where she needed to catch the public bus, so after driving in circles, I decided to just drive her to La Vega.[/QUOTE]Driving her to La Vega was a nice gesture. Next time, should you need, ask for "La parada de Treinta de Marzo". The bus stop at 30 de Marzo, which is about a 5-minute drive from el monumento towards the west. You can google the map obviously. There are two buses for La Vega that have their terminus there. La Uchomvesa and Expres Vegano, other than many other guaguas from other towns as well.
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Haitians and hygiene
This trip I have been with two Haitiain's and have been disappointed compared to my experiences with them back in December. I picked up both at Central Bar in the evening. With the first one I agreed to 1,500 Pesos as she wouldn't go for any less and was actually lighter skinned than her Haitian sisters. She almost looked Polynesian and had a cute little body. Upon arriving to the room she wouldn't take a shower and said she had just taken one. She was a good performer and I was satisfied but shocked when I saw what she did in the bathroom. While I was taking a shower she sat on the toilet and cleaned her snatch with soap and a paper cup using water from the toilet. Yikes, and then upon dressing she begged me for 2,000 Pesos which I refused to.
The second one I went with gave a hell of a sales pitch about how slow and good it would be with her, etc. And was very warm and friendly on the street. She also had a nice body as most of the Haitians do so I took her to the room for the agreed upon amount of 1, 250 Pesos. Money wasn't the problem with this one. Upon entering the room she became somewhat cold, took off her clothes, and proceeded to clean her snatch just like the previous one on the toilet. Then she pointed to me to clean my junk in the bathroom sink. Yikes, what's with these Haitians. I told this one she needed to change her attitude, sit on the bed and relax a little bit, and that I had no problem cleaning myself but in the shower. So she sat on the bed and understood I was mad and put on a smile. I came out and she actually gave a good strong blow job but when it came to the sex she had rules, was mechanical, and wouldn't get on top. I couldn't get off so she agreed to finish me orally but said I couldn't finish in her mouth which was okay. Upon taking a shower she again sat on the toilet to clean herself. I didn't comment on her hygiene methods but did scold her for being sweet on the street and cold in the room. I also told her that a lot of her sisters at Bar Central perform and please and get repeat business which she won't be getting from me.
Going with these Haitians is new territory for me, I had a few on my last trip that where warm, friendly, affectionate, and nasty which I like. Perhaps these Haitians are becoming more in demand and can get by being bad performers, asking for more money, etc. Just like the Dominicans or perhaps I just wasn't lucky with the ones I chose. As far as these girls hygiene, I don't know what to think.
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[QUOTE=Manizales911;1529796]My answer to the first part of the question is that they are idiots, nobody I know would do that. And they're ALL potential thieves in a third world country.[/QUOTE]"All potential thieves"? I did not know it was geography specific. I was just speaking with my niece whose galaxy was stolen (or lost and never found. To use an euphemism) at her public school in the South East where she is a sophomore. My son is a freshman in a private school where they give ipads to use for school work and you see such things strewn across school.
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[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1529577]LOL. CP you are a trip![/QUOTE]Totally; I too cracked up!
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Big butts Ahoy!
I don't remember seeing so many Chica's with big butts here! And to top that off, they seem to be doing a brisk business. I am amazed at how many guys are going with these girls. One skinny guy I saw who was about six foot tall went with a girl that's ass had to of been at least three feet wide. In Colombia a lot of the Chicas have boob jobs but here I guess a lot of the Chica's pig out as there obviously is a market for big booty's.
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[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1529762]Chica is 32 with a 13yr old. Later I had to pick up a few things at the supermercado, and so did she. When it was time for her to head back to La Vega, she couldn't tell me where she needed to catch the public bus, so after driving in circles, I decided to just drive her to La Vega. Dropped her off at a taxi stand in La Vega, a quick kiss and a thank you, and I was on my way back to Sosua. Chica says she can cook. Would like to go to the beach. So maybe we have something we can build on. She was a pleasure to meet. No bad vibes or awkward moments between us.[/QUOTE]Pah, and you fell for all this? Chica is 32, so already past sell date and desperate with menopause approaching, if she is actually telling you her real age. So does she have a real job and a real source of revenue to live independently and support her child?
Clearly she expected you to take her to a cabana, of which there are numerous in Santiago, for example on the carretera on the way to the airport (and LaVega) for 300 pesos and up, and you must have passed them on the way to LaVega. She started the kissy stuff because you were too slow and the clock was running.
Of course she knew how to get back to LaVega. You could have dropped her at the Caribe Tours bus station, or she could have asked anyone where the parada for publico taxis to LaVega is, if she really did not know, which I severely doubt.
Of course she can cook. They can all cook if that includes putting everything in an aluminum caldero, adding that red universal seasoning, and burning the hell out of it and using about 3x as much cooking gas as necessary.
I was talking to a chica the other day who wants to go to the US. I said the quality of life is much better in the DR, but she said even if you have a job a single parent cannot make enough to live on, so you need one or two novios to provide extra benefits (Galaxy phones, or long hair pieces, or medicines). The men get the friendship and the Dominican women get the benefits.
She is just trying to play the long game with you. Let us know what happens. (And how come your Spanish is suddenly so limited? You had no trouble with in depth discussions with chicas before.)
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[QUOTE=Surfer500;1529809]While I was taking a shower she sat on the toilet and cleaned her snatch with soap and a paper cup using water from the toilet.
The second one I went with gave a hell of a sales pitch about how slow and good it would be with her, etc. And was very warm and friendly on the street. She also had a nice body as most of the Haitians do so I took her to the room for the agreed upon amount of 1, 250 Pesos. Upon taking a shower she again sat on the toilet to clean herself. [/QUOTE]How did yall come to 1250 pesos, LOL?
As for the toilet cleansing, that's pretty gross considering you may have just pissed and shitted in it earlier. Are these Sosua chicas in so much of a rush now that they forgo bathing (and even the chance to)?
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[QUOTE=Surfer500;1529809]This trip I have been with two Haitiain's and have been disappointed compared to my experiences with them back in December. I picked up both at Central Bar in the evening. With the first one I agreed to 1,500 Pesos as she wouldn't go for any less and was actually lighter skinned than her Haitian sisters. She almost looked Polynesian and had a cute little body. Upon arriving to the room she wouldn't take a shower and said she had just taken one. She was a good performer and I was satisfied but shocked when I saw what she did in the bathroom. While I was taking a shower she sat on the toilet and cleaned her snatch with soap and a paper cup using water from the toilet.[/QUOTE]I think I know her. Did a threesome with her and she was a fantastic performer and muncher of pussy and very pleasant personality. Oh, yeah, baby! 20 years old. 1 child age 2, stays in Charamicos, but lived in Santiago for 3 years and has decent Spanish. If she is the one I am thinking of she has a VERY long hair weave of high class oriental natural hair (looks a bit Gauginesque) and would not want to get that hair wet in the shower. Surprised at her using water from the toilet. Ugh! Why not tap water? As I recall, she used Dasani water from a bottle!
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[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;1529822]"All potential thieves"? I did not know it was geography specific. I was just speaking with my niece whose galaxy was stolen (or lost and never found. To use an euphemism) at her public school in the South East where she is a sophomore. My son is a freshman in a private school where they give ipads to use for school work and you see such things strewn across school.[/QUOTE]Someone stole my toothpaste from the staff bathroom at work (in Florida) and the only people who had access were state government employees with a particular set of keys