Abu Dhabi again - the perils of drink
I was on duty at Adnec the last week there was plenty of night left after the obligatory meals. On the first night I found that I had a massive problem, I had been booked in Le Meridien, situated in the heart of Tourist Club but with an absolute ban on take-ways in the room and a layout of stairs and elevators that would have given a problem in a fire. All leading to the same point. I visited the in house club, G Club and found some standard, small PRC but my heart was in Blitz. So, on this first night, after the meal, drinks before, during and after, then G Club, I was in a bad state at Blitz. I was taken kindly in hand by a taller than average PRC, name totally gone, and then back to Le Meridien for 500 LT, or so I thought. Arguments at the desk, with security, offers of cash had no affect. She had no room that could be used so it was a sad farewell to both her and 100 for the taxi and her trouble.
The next night was Blitz again and PRC again but at least I knew to ask the question about accommodation. Again though, too much alcohol during the evening left me with a rather short LT in a pokey but quiet room somewhere around 7dh away form the Tourist Club roundabout.
The remaining nights revolved around 49'nrs Capital, Ally Pally and Blitz, but no one prepared provide a room until the penultimate night when I met an old flame from a couple of weeks before who followed me from Ally Pally to Blitz, I felt touched. Again because of the beer, 500 plus 100 for the room got me a comatose session despite the trojan attentions of Fenni.
Perhaps next time I shall only take the mongering fee in pocket so there is no temptation at the bar. I really do have great appreciation for these PRCs laying next to a semi-conscious loawei, honestly counting out the money for the night.
All the best
Zhutou
Always maintain a low profile
Dear Johnsue and Friends.
My advice; as a best practice. Always maintain a low profile and always avoid making scenes or noise. For your sake and not for the girl's sake.
Of course, this does not mean to allow the girl taking advantage of you.
Experiences are different based on different situations that you may not be able to copy and paste.
Here are my recommendations
- Have a chat with the girl upfront in order to setup the expectations right from the start
- But if there is a huge gap between her "asking" price and your "willing to pay" price, then you are on the wrong foot and you are better off with someone else.
- Of course, you can negotiate but when negotiating too much and too aggressively, this becomes a turn off for the girl, a turn off for you and is not a good start for both.
- When accepting the price, and if you have something in mind in terms of services, spell it out upfront. Tell her what you expect. She may not be able to offer the services you want and you may end up with unpleasant disappointment
- When accepting the price and the services, now it is time to discuss the duration of the engagement.
- It is NOT enough to say LT or ST. But rather spell out the exact time. Say until tomorrow 11:00am or 2 hours. Etc.
- When you and the girl are aligned in terms of prices, services and engagement duration, do not pay her on the road or in the car or at any time prior to being with her in the room.
- If she asks for the money prior to being in the room, then run away. She is trouble. Trust me on this.
- However, if you are already in the room, some girls may ask you for the money in the room but before going to bed with you. It is now your call. I usually go for it. In order to put her mind at ease and to allow her to focus on my cock rather than focusing on whether she will be paid or not
- Give her the impression that you are here in the country for a long while and you may require her services often. And if you like her and if she likes you. You may be ending in bed several times together. This will perhaps motivate her to give you her best.
- Now, regardless how it goes. Whether within expectations or not. Always end it in good terms. Without making a scene or a noise. It may cost you money but your piece of mind is priceless. Be smart. Be firm. Be kind. And most of all be considerate.
Take Care and Have Fun
Cheers,
Jimmy
[QUOTE=Johnsue]Ok Guys if you can advice me.
When in LOS and other girl friendly parts of Asia, I pay pretty well, but hate getting lied to. Hence if I agree LT in BKK for 3k Baht for the girl to stay until lunchtime the next day and see decides to leave after ST then I will give her 1k and throw her out.
Now. I assume that the girls in UAE don't want any trouble, and I never pay in advance as that always means they rip you off. BUT. If I throw them out with a reduced but reasonable payment am I likely to regret it?
Anyone got any stories?
J.[/QUOTE]
Novotel Abu Dhabi...walking distance to the Corniche
[QUOTE=Wicked Roger] and walking would be easier [/QUOTE]Roger that. I agree. Indeed Dears Wicked Roger and Blackwhite99,
When I stayed there last time, It used to take me 10 minutes walking to the Corniche. I used to walk around the sunset time frame.
Take Care and Have Fun.
Cheers,
Jimmy