Kazeu don't take this the wrong way
Your personality and thinking is the prime traits that end up the predicament being discussed. You fail to understand you are not in the states or europe where fairness is more available. You are on a different battlefield where you are the prey and source of income. They take your failure to fall back, deescalate and use that to there advantage to strip you of your money. Thats exactly what happened to this guy. Luck has been on your side but I won't say smarts.
[QUOTE=Kazeu;2993946]Nothing like that has ever happened to me and I've been quite a few places. On the other hand, I'm not a chatter really. I have more trouble getting rid of girls than getting them to stay. But if I don't tell you I'm going to pay you for something don't expect that I'm going to give you any money for it. A tip is a tip because its optional. An agreement is not optional. In tyreses case, there was no agreement. She could have said no and left at any point in time. What's to prevent the girl from saying no, 1000 isn't enough it should be 3000 for me sitting here. Nothing. What if the guy intended to take her to a room but at the end she qoutes something too high. Does he still owe her money? No. I don't owe you anything unless I say I owe you something. Best to discourage this type of behavior.
I understand that the girls make money from sex. Then go have sex. Stop sitting around drinking and partying.
I'm much more of a rules based guy. You agree to pay the cover. You agree to pay for drinks. Its explicit. I hate this, I spent this time with you, so you owe me shit. I owe you nothing. My time is 100 times more valuable than yours.[/QUOTE].
Visit to 57 house of friends
Day time about 3 pm. About 4 girls, no stars but decent girls, shape. Owner said more come later. A guy that is a fixture there it seems insisted buying me a drink and gave me scoop on a few. English speaking black girl was sweet and aggressive so I chose her. Our session was very very intense and used up the full 1 HR as it ended with the phone ringing. The girl answered and mentioned time needed to shower. Which we did and it seem she wanted more but I was focus on not being charge extra. She was all smiles and as we stepped in the hallway the clean up lady was all smiles as well. I guess she heard alot LOL. She walked me to the front desk and I was shocked to see my bill 608. Quickly I ask what made the charges so high. So the guy who insisted to buy me a drink. They tried to charge me for those drinks. The shower me and the girl took after sex. They tried to say we were in the room hour 15 minutes. I challenged each addition and the guy confirmed he ordered the drinks and the girl came to my defense and said we were only in the room 1 HR. The charge dropped to 330 brl. Gave the girl a 30 brl tip and jump in a uber. So spas. Yankin no, tangara maybe, 57 house okay.
Your thoughts are rational but
Those girls work for Scandallo thoughout the year I suppose. My first trip so I am a novice. Your visit is more often just for a week. So your rational becomes irrational for the establishment cause the girl becomes priority. They (girl & security) had more to gain by extracting this guy 1000 brl than excusing the lady from the table. Its all about money And if you don't know well this guy knows now. Lots of lessons in the foreign sex game.
[QUOTE=Kazeu;2994085]No offense taken. I'm not saying I would have punched her the face. But I also would not have paid 1000 R for nothing. I would have simply let the security escort me out. Or talked with the manager. She always has the option leave. Suppose there are 5 girls at the table, you going to give them all 1000 R? That's ridiculous. This was extortion plain and simple and shouldn't be allowed and the security guard, frankly should have been fired and the girl banned. I've been to countless of places in South America as well as asia, and never had anything like this happen to me. Imagine this, you let shit like this slide, and then girls start thinking oh, I don't even need to go to the room to make money. Girls just start pricing themselves out of ever going to the room, but stick around and hang out with clients and just demanding tips. Nah, don't accept it. Its bad for clients and bad for business.[/QUOTE]
Lets agree to disagree here.
[QUOTE=Blakman;2994110]Those girls work for Scandallo thoughout the year I suppose. My first trip so I am a novice. Your visit is more often just for a week. So your rational becomes irrational for the establishment cause the girl becomes priority. They (girl & security) had more to gain by extracting this guy 1000 brl than excusing the lady from the table. Its all about money And if you don't know well this guy knows now. Lots of lessons in the foreign sex game.[/QUOTE]People come back to places they like. They don't go to places that have bad reputations. I'm pretty sure there are a lot less guys in Brazil willing to spend 1000 to 2000 R for an hour of sex than there are women in Brazil willing to sell themselves for 1000 R to 2000 R an hour. And of course its all about money. No doubt. You can have my money, but not for nothing. Like I said before this was extortion. Don't be so easy. I'm not saying start a fight, but stick up for yourself within reason, and this is definitely within reason.
Salvador bahia / other towns the trade is cheaper
Sao Paulo prices are outrageous. Girls seem to want more to come to your apartment than sex at the club. I exchanged $200 and it was gone after 2 girls. Other countries that's definitely 3 or 4. Africa that's probably 4 threesome LOL. El centro colombia10 girls. The most reasonable priced is the low level spas and even they out price the norm in other countries. Scandallo I met quite a few girls from Salvador Bahia. They said nice beaches. Beautiful black girls. My question if I am allowed LOL. What states in Brazil you can travel to where you can get sex under $50. If they the women can travel to get more money, I wouldn't mind doing the same to pay less money LOL.