Good argumentation! But complicated!
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1864016]Paisas are not putas although some putas are Paisas. And it is not complicated at all. I have never had problems getting a woman. I do this mongering thing just for the fun of it and for variety. This is pretty much why I rarely do repeats. I don't care if there was a cape with an S on it hanging out of her pussy. I have already fucked this one, now I want to see what that one is like.
I have never and will never give financial support to a woman that I was dating. At that point she would be my hooker and not be my girlfriend. And when money comes up from a supposed regular chick then I offer to them that they can be my hooker and I will give them X amount every time we fuck - but that is as far as the relationship will go. I like to call a spade a spade so I will make them repeat that they are my hooker and nothing else. Crackheads and methheads have hearts too, but you probably would not go financially supporting one. So why is it so easy for guys to do it with hookers (even under the guise of she is a studying, poor, blah blah blah)?[/QUOTE]Good argumentation!
But if differences in wage / hour is ten times to your favor. And will stay so, not just a period.
Generally, I agree, wages are going up, and if the man pays for all the fun, it should be enough.
A gift maybe, but doing it regular, then I agree; it becomes a relationship with strong client-prepago.
It seems very much more sensible when the man comes from a rich country. If a man in Canada works while the Canadian wife studies, it is not the same issue.
Damn, I have never had problems getting a nice paisa, it's all around that makes it complicated.
I need a hot paisa as novia, and as you I seldom repeat. There is a contradiction. If she stays with me using me as a ATM, she goes to another one, if I say no. University education here means 400% difference in wage, while I with 36+18 hours a week, just being a friend to a handicapped man, makes the same as an engineer.
I've still got the libido and looks and then I when I will take out my pension and work simultaneously. After a certain point in life, money is all that you have, might be better to spend while "young". After that point you only have prepagos, they have the power, at 45 and juvenile, you still have some powder left! At +66, when you can be 100% sure that money is the sole factor.
The men are for gods sake smaller than our females in Scandinavia! It would give you a 10 extra years, at least. Culture also allows age difference.
Since 2009, and typical for Colombia, and maybe Medellin, girls are like Hydras. They play, act so many roles, that I in periods get mentally burned out. In the sense that I don't believe a word of what they are saying. They are always acting.
Maybe giving up and pay what the damn prepago needs!
I have lived in Latin countries since 1998, maybe 30% of 16 years. Colombia, since Brazil have been far to expensive and Venezuela far to complicated and maybe dangerous, Dom. Rep. Are reported boring to live in. You are the meat; but after a week you get tired of the place. In Medellin there are enough European looking persons so I can blend in, a very important factor.
How much is then your "fee" / semester. For an University career in economics maybe it's 1 M COP / month at E.A.F.I.T. That will be the fee, for a semi-real relationship. In Bogota a girl needed 6.7 or 7.6 per semester, in "Comunicacion Social". While C.E.N.A. or S.E.N.S.A. cost a fraction of that. But there are also Icetex, that is student loans, so she can spend the money you give her and when she have got her job she pays back in a slow pace, with minimal interest rate.
Marriage; I heard from a Brazilian couple; after divorce the female can demand the X-husband constant economic support. And such things much be investigated in detail. I would love to get married, but if it means the end of my travelling / living in.
, around Medellin paying my, for example, $US 25.000 to a calculating sociopath, and they are a lot of them; much due to the intensive competition, it's again complicated, with the more seriousness and responsibility you take, the less you get!