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Thanks for your input Sxxx.
Its nice to hear that you are gods gift to Angeles prostitutes LOL.
Always remember 1 thing though, the amount of refusals one gets is normally tied directly to what type of girl one asks.
Just like in real life, the pretty ones have many choices, the fat ugly ones have little choice, has been that way since the beginning of time dear Sxxx.
[QUOTE=EngineDriver;1939034]Thank you to the forum readers who have sent me advice and notes of encouragement. I agree that its best not to plan anything in AC. What could be a bad experience today might turn out to be brilliant tomorrow. Even after four visits, I'm still learning new things. It's very easy to become overwhelmed and to think that you must pack so much into 3-4 days. One reader mentioned that AC is all not about going into the biggest bar and fining the hottest chick. If that's the attitude you go in with, then only disappointment will result. It's with this in mind that I decided to give the Perimeter bars another go. I recall Dg8787 is a big fan of these low key bars and I enjoyed his reports about threesomes and then ordering up Jollibee to the room.
So after my bad experience with a Perimeter girl who did a runner, I went into Candy Bar for a look at 12.30 pm (they open at noon). I could not believe what I saw. There were 8 stunning girls on stage, all who were absolutely gorgeous. These girls would have made the grade at Burgos or EDSA, no doubt about it. One of them immediately smiled at me, so I said "come on down baby". Her name was Regerma, which I later learnt was a combination of her father's and mother's names...[/QUOTE]Candy Bar does have some beauties along with the other perimeter bars. Glad you found a great girl there.
[QUOTE=Dg8787;1939194]Candy Bar does have some beauties along with the other perimeter bars. Glad you found a great girl there.[/QUOTE]There's an old guy who comes in everyday and throws money around. He sits in the back right of the bar where the long table has a black draping on the outside creating a cubicle for private blow jobs. He usually has 2 girls on his left and 2 on his right. These ladies alternate going under the table where her enjoys the ladies on his sides and the one under the table.
I have seen him many times and these (mid tier) ladies go under the table. I know this because early in my visit here I really liked the prettiest lady there. I arrived here around 9/9/16 and quickly took a liking to her. After 2 visits I bar fined her and we went swimming at the hotel pool. It was a very special day and the sex was great, she being a busty spinner (my favorite). So after that I did not want to repeat right away and so a few days later I come back to Candy Bar at 12:40 and she is walking out w / customer. I say to myself get here at 12 tomorrow which I did so I could get to her first.
Tomorrow arrives and I'm at the bar 10 minutes before they open. I think I'm the second one in there. The ladies are on the stage doing there make up. My beer arrives and I ask to see my lady. My lady comes over and tells me she's on the men and that she is not going out. She then says she has another customer and to my left a K guy is there so she goes to him and I thought where did he come from? Anyway I assumed they would leave together and I missed out again, no biggie I guess. I call another nice looker down because I bar fined her one day my fave was off work so I just wanted someone to talk to and my fave was busy w / the K.
As this was going on the old guy (everybody loves) walks in and it's his birthday. So the ping pong balls start flying and he sits down at the long blow job table. Two ladies on each side, sometimes they have his shirt open and sucking his nips or whatever. So he's quite the stud for being in his 80's and then an occasional lady will go under the table from his right side. He will enjoy all his company and occasionally watches the blow job girl.
As I'm watching this scene I hear the waitress tell the K the bill is 240 pesos. So I instantly know my fave will be free and I can see her face to face. She is pretty and a really nice body. The K goes and she returns to the stage, w / in seconds she is walking toward the old guy and then to the side of the long table and then goes under. The old guy is now getting a blow job from my swimming pool love. He's watching her and having a ball, another guy is sitting at the table too and it's just another day at the Candy Bar.
Well this was a new feeling for me. I never get hurt if I am not the customer who wins the prize but seeing my special lady go under the table was a crushing blow. I am still hurting from it and this happened 2 days ago. I have great pics of her at the PB swimming pool and others and now I can't even look at them. Seeing her go under the table was devastating for me.
No one did anything wrong, but this sex trade I thought I knew, and then this Candy Bar blow job table just destroyed me. After 5 minutes she came out and stood at the end drinking her cranberry drink and stood there for another 10 minutes. I asked the waitress if she was free but the waitress said she had a drink which I know means she's busy. So I waited a little longer and then left w / my guts in knots.
I knew what I needed to do so I went to the Fire Pit and found a replacement and she was wonderful company and my mind relaxed and my guts returned to normal. The next day I woke up to a strong depression but as the day went on I came out of it.
So if you go there to the Candy Bar I hope what happened to me does not happen to you. Be quick in there and know every lady in this bar goes under the table (not just the mid tier lookers) and sucks this guy's oyster. Again, more power to him and I have learned something new. I can still feel the nauseating gut punch when I saw my beauty go under the table. She was doing her job and I respect her but damn I wish I never met her.
Is it just the one table, I'll be there Saturday, will have to Check it out, what's the cost?
[QUOTE=Socker;1939376]There's an old guy who comes in everyday and throws money around. He sits in the back right of the bar where the long table has a black draping on the outside creating a cubicle for private blow jobs. He usually has 2 girls on his left and 2 on his right. These ladies alternate going under the table where her enjoys the ladies on his sides and the one under the table.
I have seen him many times and these (mid tier) ladies go under the table. I know this because early in my visit here I really liked the prettiest lady there. I arrived here around 9/9/16 and quickly took a liking to her. After 2 visits I bar fined her and we went swimming at the hotel pool. It was a very special day and the sex was great, she being a busty spinner (my favorite). So after that I did not want to repeat right away and so a few days later I come back to Candy Bar at 12:40 and she is walking out w / customer. I say to myself get here at 12 tomorrow which I did so I could get to her first.
Tomorrow arrives and I'm at the bar 10 minutes before they open. I think I'm the second one in there. The ladies are on the stage doing there make up. My beer arrives and I ask to see my lady. My lady comes over and tells me she's on the men and that she is not going out. She then says she has another customer and to my left a K guy is there so she goes to him and I thought where did he come from? Anyway I assumed they would leave together and I missed out again, no biggie I guess. I call another nice looker down because I bar fined her one day my fave was off work so I just wanted someone to talk to and my fave was busy w / the K.
As this was going on the old guy (everybody loves) walks in and it's his birthday. So the ping pong balls start flying and he sits down at the long blow job table. Two ladies on each side, sometimes they have his shirt open and sucking his nips or whatever. So he's quite the stud for being in his 80's and then an occasional lady will go under the table from his right side. He will enjoy all his company and occasionally watches the blow job girl.
As I'm watching this scene I hear the waitress tell the K the bill is 240 pesos. So I instantly know my fave will be free and I can see her face to face. She is pretty and a really nice body. The K goes and she returns to the stage, w / in seconds she is walking toward the old guy and then to the side of the long table and then goes under. The old guy is now getting a blow job from my swimming pool love. He's watching her and having a ball, another guy is sitting at the table too and it's just another day at the Candy Bar.
Well this was a new feeling for me. I never get hurt if I am not the customer who wins the prize but seeing my special lady go under the table was a crushing blow. I am still hurting from it and this happened 2 days ago. I have great pics of her at the PB swimming pool and others and now I can't even look at them. Seeing her go under the table was devastating for me.
No one did anything wrong, but this sex trade I thought I knew, and then this Candy Bar blow job table just destroyed me. After 5 minutes she came out and stood at the end drinking her cranberry drink and stood there for another 10 minutes. I asked the waitress if she was free but the waitress said she had a drink which I know means she's busy. So I waited a little longer and then left w / my guts in knots.
I knew what I needed to do so I went to the Fire Pit and found a replacement and she was wonderful company and my mind relaxed and my guts returned to normal. The next day I woke up to a strong depression but as the day went on I came out of it.
So if you go there to the Candy Bar I hope what happened to me does not happen to you. Be quick in there and know every lady in this bar goes under the table (not just the mid tier lookers) and sucks this guy's oyster. Again, more power to him and I have learned something new. I can still feel the nauseating gut punch when I saw my beauty go under the table. She was doing her job and I respect her but damn I wish I never met her.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Socker;1939376] Well this was a new feeling for me. I never get hurt if I am not the customer who wins the prize but seeing my special lady go under the table was a crushing blow. I am still hurting from it and this happened 2 days ago. I have great pics of her at the PB swimming pool and others and now I can't even look at them. Seeing her go under the table was devastating for me. [/QUOTE]Every time I go to AC it is like I live a lifetime of emotions. It is such a dipsy doodle of feelings. We acclaim the Filipina for the girl friend experience (GFE) but it can cut both ways. This is supposed to be a vacation yet I sometimes find myself swirled up in drama. I think that it is just part of the godawful pleasure of the experience. But if it is a roller coaster ride for us, think how much it must be for these girls who do it for a living!
Napper Slapper,
No need for such forensic assessment of reports. It adds no value. The PI boards remain intimidating enough and reports like yours only keep potential contributors away. It doesn't have to be like this.
[QUOTE=NapaSlapper;1938999]ED,
You claim you can barfine any hottie or that any hottie will sit with you from Atlantis then I ask you, what happened then.
You clearly state in your trip report that you went with 3 girls, the first 2 were well over the hill milfs and a fat massage girl. No mention of any slim good looking girls at all.
[/QUOTE]That's correct Sir. I would bang those two MILFs and the chubby massage girl all day, everyday ahead of any glamazonian spinner from Atlantis. The level of mutual raw passion and excitement generated by those girls would be far superior to anything generated by the top billing bar girls. Frankly, I don't need the ego boost which comes from walking up and down the the Fields Avenue promenade, arm-in-arm with a 21-year old hottie.
[QUOTE=NapaSlapper;1938999]ED,
As for your claims of any Atlantis girl would sit with you for a 250 peso drink then ill take that with a pinch of salt as the drinks in Atlantis are not 250 pesos and never were.
[/QUOTE]You are misunderstanding the context here. I was not doing a detailed review of Club Atlantis, so the quoted LD price has no bearing. I was simply saying that I was able to engage in a chat with a girl for the price of an LD and could have easily barfined had I not felt so jaded. If I had said LDs were 350 (or whatever), you would have pulled me up by saying "oh the LDs at Drill Shack are not 350". I could never win. BTW, does anyone closely examine the bar chit in the dim light when the waitress puts it in the cup? I just used to put a blue note in the cup when it cam time to leave.
[QUOTE=NapaSlapper;1938999]ED,
Let me let you into a few secrets ED, prostitutes tell their punters what they want to hear, if they are with a westerner then westerners are no 1 and everyone else is wicked, tight, a pervert etc.
When they are with a Korean then all westerners are all of the above and the Koreans are kind, generous and no1.
[/QUOTE]Next time I will pull out my polygraph machine from my back pocket, stick the sensors on the girl before asking any questions about Koreans. If the girl asks why I'm doing this, I shall say "my friend Mr Slapper won't believe me otherwise". Have you never caught a girl in an unguarded moment where she opens up without prompting?
So where to now Napper Slapper? Maybe Harvard referencing, or perhaps peer review of all papers before submission to ISG? Just go ahead and drive contributors away even further.
[QUOTE=Socker;1939376]There's an old guy who ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your report, it was a good one. Brought a smile to my dial, and reminded me of the home truth: "its all about money, you know that" , as one non sex waitress in a regular restaurant, and who knows me well, said casually as she walked away from my table. We have to be reminded of the home truths, from time to time. What is not about money, in this world, LOL.
That old guy. Well, I was resident observer at Candy Bar, and in walks an old guy, the girls scream, like its 1970's and Paul McCartney had just walked in. Yes, he goes to the dark side, in the corner, I wondered why, was he shy? (LOL). I wondered why. Its about the money stupid!
Next I see Mama-san and staff arrive for LD's for all the girls on stage. They turned around to him, raised their glasses to him, and said in unison, "Tugay" (spelling?) = "Cheers". He just bought a dozen LD's, plus drinks whatever, for the girls already at his table. My eye sight isn't the best right now, reaction to medical treatment had recently, so I could not see what was going on in the corner. Thanks for the explanation.
I ask questions wherever I go, girl with me, told me he was a Dutchman living in USA, a visitor, not a resident. He didn't stay all that long, did not depart with a barfine either. Then there is the guy who visits on Sundays, buys a cup of tea, sits cuppa tea on the stage, and starts gyrating with the girls. Young guy.
Your story reminded me Candy Bar has 'spirit' , its lively, friendly, and adequate for a blind man like me, that is, lots of good looking women, from what I can see (LOL). In fact my eyesight improved after my daily visits to Candy bar. Lot of below average girls employed in Walking St, by the way. And that P200,000 virgin who accosted me in P3000 Walking St barfine bar, next to Arcadia, forgotten bars name. She was overweight, and a 5 at best, yet she reckoned her hymen was worth 200 thou (pesos). Never invited her to my table, don't know how she got there. Must have reckon I look like a sucker, LOL.
Your report was interesting and value. Too many guys come on the Forum to brag, which is of no use to anyone. Yours was more realistic and entertaining.
We must never forget what the waitress said (to me): "Its all about money, you should know that".
She said it in a cheeky way. Liked it. Facts, facts.
[QUOTE=NapaSlapper;1939140]Wow, 8 absolute stunning girls in candy bar that could quiet easily work on Burgos st Manila.
It would be fair to say that over my many many visits I have never seen a stunning girl in candy bar ever, have never even seen a girl pretty enough to buy a drink for there.
[/QUOTE]I am tiring at your attempt at sarcasm. If you don't have anything useful to say, best to save the bandwidth and just zip it.
ED, not trying to pick on you but I find your claims have so many inconsistencies that its hard to know where the truth lies.
As far as the performance of the better looking girls of Atlantis and fields avenue then as you clearly state you never fucked any and prefer to fuck milfs and fatties so then how would you know how the good looking / slim / girls would perform back at the room, oh I know you just guessed, the mind boggles, it really does.
[QUOTE=Socker;1939376]
I knew what I needed to do so I went to the Fire Pit and found a replacement and she was wonderful company and my mind relaxed and my guts returned to normal. The next day I woke up to a strong depression but as the day went on I came out of it.[/QUOTE]
"We are all just prisoners here, of our own device".
Ouch, I know the exact feeling and for me it's Fire Pit instead of Candy Bar. I first BF'd after she had been working only a week or so. I was her BF no #2. She was cute, pretty, nice, 19 yo. Wasn't excellent in bed, didn't know really what she was doing, which was kind of nice too.
Now, back in Australia, I see her on FB, always hanging out in western places after work, still working the dating sites, still giving ALL OF YOU her blow jobs and learning how to please men. About once a week, a verandah pic from a different hotel.
So, the moral is that it is a game that cuts both ways. It's just a service.
Last thing I remember, I was
Running for the door
I had to find the passage back
To the place I was before
"Relax, " said the night man,
"We are programmed to receive.
You can check-out any time you like,
But you can never leave!
You can think that your girl is programmed to receive. :)
Nice post Brain Drain and a great song too LOL.
But seriously guys, getting upset over working girls?
The best advice when dealing with working girls is to keep ones emotions / feeling out of it.
Find her, fuck her, pay her and forget her is the best advice one can be given.
For the guys who seek the kidding ones self feeling (GFE) then realize this can only be achieved while money is changing hands, there is no real emotion / love / respect from working girls, they save that for their pinoy husbands, boyfriends, trike driver secret lovers and of course their special girlie friend, its all about the money with us, take away the money and we are just not needed or wanted.
Keep fucking guys, but keep your emotions / feeling under lock and key if one seeks an easy life, thanks.
[QUOTE=NapaSlapper;1939803]Nice post Brain Drain and a great song too LOL.
But seriously guys, getting upset over working girls?
The best advice when dealing with working girls is to keep ones emotions / feeling out of it.
Find her, fuck her, pay her and forget her is the best advice one can be given.
For the guys who seek the kidding ones self feeling (GFE) then realize this can only be achieved while money is changing hands, there is no real emotion / love / respect from working girls, they save that for their pinoy husbands, boyfriends, trike driver secret lovers and of course their special girlie friend, its all about the money with us, take away the money and we are just not needed or wanted.
Keep fucking guys, but keep your emotions / feeling under lock and key if one seeks an easy life, thanks.[/QUOTE]It takes a lot of guts to come here and admit that you mistakenly or otherwise got emotionally attached to a sex worker. Its a occupational hazard of the punter. You would have to be a bit of a psychopath not to be vulnerable to some extent. I would be a liar if I did'nt admit that occasionally a woman will get under my radar. Warning alarms goo off in my head when I hear guys describing sex workers as 'my girl'. Before going in remind yourself you are entering the biggest brothel in the PI's. Enjoy the palaver in the bar but don't take it seriously.
Live by the 3 day rule: if you continue with bar sex workers for more than 3 days you are in danger of going off the rails or going broke (or both).
[QUOTE=Sxxxx;1939739]That old guy. Well, I was resident observer at Candy Bar, and in walks an old guy, the girls scream, like its 1970's and Paul McCartney had just walked in. Yes, he goes to the dark side, in the corner, I wondered why, was he shy? (LOL). I wondered why. Its about the money stupid!
Next I see Mama-san and staff arrive for LD's for all the girls on stage. They turned around to him, raised their glasses to him, and said in unison, "Tugay" (spelling?) = "Cheers". He just bought a dozen LD's, plus drinks whatever, for the girls already at his table. My eye sight isn't the best right now, reaction to medical treatment had recently, so I could not see what was going on in the corner. Thanks for the explanation.
never forget what the waitress said (to me): "Its all about money, you should know that".[/QUOTE]Yeah, I saw the same scene play out, comes in amid cheers, then buys all the ladies drinks, the ladies salute him, goes to his BJ table and opens his shirt so the ladies can kiss / lick him all over. You got to give the guys kudos, he owns that place and every lady in it. What a wonderful perverted system he has created for himself.
[QUOTE=Sxxxx;1939739]Your story reminded me Candy Bar has 'spirit' , its lively, friendly, and adequate for a blind man like me, that is, lots of good looking women, from what I can see (LOL).
Your report was interesting and value. Too many guys come on the Forum to brag, which is of no use to anyone. Yours was more realistic and entertaining.
We must never forget what the waitress said (to me): "Its all about money, you should know that".[/QUOTE]I know it's all about money (every time out) and that's how I like it. The women here have free will and can do what they want w / their bodies. I know and except monger competition and have been on both sides of the win loss column. I have no issue or emotional difficulties w / that but the Candy Bar presented a new demand on my emotions where as you have what looks like a regular bar but it is not. There are no BJ tables at the other Perimeter bars I go to and if there are then maybe someone here can tell me which ones. I won't patronize them, because if I take a liking to one of the dancers I will be competing w / the BJ table as well as the other mongers. The BJ table in close proximity (to my seat) is a wicked adversary that I want nothing to do w.
I'm sure there used to be many bars like the Candy Bar in the earlier days and so a punter might have to wait for his favorite to climb out from under the table. I think generally these bars were low end bars and so if I were to go there it would be strictly for a BJ. I wouldn't go to Candy Bar hunting for a fun companion to spend the day with, not anymore. If I wanted the pleasure of getting a couple girls working on Jr under the table while people were walking by then I would go there. I am that type of monger, I am like the old man but w / out all the money to throw around.
I met a guy at Kokomos yesterday and he lives here. I told him what happened and he said that the lady choose the small money. She screwed up. I tend to believe that. She went under the table for a drink or 100 pesos where as I would have showered her w / attention and some tip money, plus another BF. But she is popular and bar fines everyday (I bet) so my money is meaningless to her, whatever, she's a robot.
Anyway lesson learned.
[QUOTE=Pompetus;1939641]Every time I go to AC it is like I live a lifetime of emotions. It is such a dipsy doodle of feelings. We acclaim the Filipina for the girl friend experience (GFE) but it can cut both ways. This is supposed to be a vacation yet I sometimes find myself swirled up in drama. I think that it is just part of the godawful pleasure of the experience. But if it is a roller coaster ride for us, think how much it must be for these girls who do it for a living![/QUOTE]Yes, just think about how it is for them.
On this trip I almost spent 2 weeks in AC and that's record for me. In that time I have heard an incredible amount of bar girl drama. It's really hard to tell who is doing what to whom. They need to be emotionless and to do their job as best to fill their needs and stay w / in the bar fine system. Hence, I bar fine a dancer on Tuesday afternoon, have a wonderful time bar hopping, eating and fucking. She leaves and the next day I walk into her bar and she does not look at me, smile, nothing, it's like yesterday never happened. These women are robots to some extent, not because they want to be but because they would not survive their business model, I / e, fuck on demand.
Anyway bro thanks for the pat on the back. Today is my last day in AC and I'll hit the other Perimeter bars at 2 pm. I've had good luck in the Ice Bar, and Fire Pit.
[QUOTE=Sprokit69;1939595]Is it just the one table, I'll be there Saturday, will have to Check it out, what's the cost?[/QUOTE]Not sure but it does look like fun. I would doubt the table is available to just any Joe while the old guy is still around.
I've been really working my body down while here. Last night I was freezing and sweating in bed, had a fever and fuck! What next?
Fortunately I feel normal today and would like to do 2 sessions. My mo is the Perimeter in the afternoon and Fields at night. That's a lot for me these days.
As for whether there are any lookers in the bars on Fields? Yes, there are many and 20% of them will go w / non K / Js. There are a lot of lookers all over town.
But they're either walking alone, w / friends, or w / Ks and Js. The hottest women here are 98% exclusively for the Asia monger. This is not an exaggeration.
With that said the K / J scraps can be pretty nice as well. I also see many K / Js W / scraps too.
There is no place like this town. It is changing fast and high-rises are going up everywhere. Get here while the getting is still good.
[QUOTE=Amavida;1939817] You would have to be a bit of a psychopath not to be vulnerable to some extent. I would be a liar if I did'nt admit that occasionally a woman will get under my radar.[/QUOTE]I don't know of anyone whose humanity remains intact, who has not at one point or another been moved by some of the countless tales of woe that punters inevitably hear in encounters lasting more than an hour. And I admit to having tried to help, albeit it modestly, more than one bar girl finding herself in a desperate situation.
Despite the callousness which can and does derive from working in the commercial sex industry, and the potential for lying, the young women remain human beings, many of whom never selected sex work as viable career options. It's also undeniable that some of us feel, from time to time, a connection with selected ladies. I have some friends for example, who have retained bar-initiated friendships for years and who help from time to time. I guess that each of us has to come to his own conclusions about whether, when, and how to react to such situations.
GE.
[QUOTE=NapaSlapper;1939803]Nice post Brain Drain and a great song too LOL.
But seriously guys, getting upset over working girls?
The best advice when dealing with working girls is to keep ones emotions / feeling out of it.
Find her, fuck her, pay her and forget her is the best advice one can be given.
For the guys who seek the kidding ones self feeling (GFE) then realize this can only be achieved while money is changing hands, there is no real emotion / love / respect from working girls, they save that for their pinoy husbands, boyfriends, trike driver secret lovers and of course their special girlie friend, its all about the money with us, take away the money and we are just not needed or wanted.
Keep fucking guys, but keep your emotions / feeling under lock and key if one seeks an easy life, thanks.[/QUOTE]Some guys are susceptible to Pretty Woman Syndrome. It is not that they are in love with the bar girl, it is just that their big egos get bruised because they deluded themselves into thinking that the girl was fucking them because of their good looks and charm. The illusion gets destroyed when they realize anyone who is willing to pay can stick their dick into the same bar girl. These guys then get upset at the realization that they are not special in any way to the girl. Some guys also realize that it was not so hygienic to suck on the bar girl's tongue or pussy given the amount of BBBJs she gives other mongers and the amount of cream pies squirted choux crme style in her snatch.
I have seen freelance Flip hookers fuck mongers staying on different floors in the same hotel, going from one short time to the next to make efficient use of their time for maximum profits. This is one reason why they collect phone numbers and make note of the mongers' hotel and room number. Once they are in the hotel it makes sense to turn as many tricks at possible in that location. The more organized and business savvy girls use apps like Skout to keep track of their tricks in a given geographic area and will systematically hit each one up just like a salesman cold calling a territory he is working on a given day.
Observant guys who spend a lot of time among Filipinos will eventually realize that even legally married Filipino men allow their wives to go out and fuck foreigners for money and to con them out of house and lot if possible. Smart guys learn to avoid getting emotionally involved with Filipinos, leave the country permanently, or learn to accept that the local pussy is community property. Those who persist in believing that Filipinos experience deep loving feelings and attachment to foreigners usually end up using the express vertical checkout from the hotel balcony or the upper floors of the mall like that German in Bacolod City.
[URL]http://www.sunstar.com.ph/bacolod/local-news/2016/03/04/german-national-leaps-his-death-malls-third-floor-460709[/URL]
About a year after he complained to local police that his Negrense fiance duped him, German national Richard Alexander Harbich leaped to his death from the third floor of a shopping mall in Bacolod City on Thursday afternoon, March 3. Apparently broken-hearted and broke at the same time, his frustration could have prompted him to end his own life, said Senior Inspector Richard Fajarito, chief of Police Station 1.
He came to the Philippines to marry the 29-year-old Negrense after meeting her on a dating site on May 2014, and he first arrived in the country in October of the same year.
After learning of his financial problems, the woman "dropped me like a hot potato," he told reporters who interviewed him then.
Harbich added that "she was always asking for money" and "I'm down on money" because of his health issues.
At that time, he said that he did not know the whereabouts of his girlfriend, who had suggested that he pawn his laptop, and took his automated teller machine card and cellular phone.
Fajarito said that Harbich had been staying at Circle Inn Hotel, but police were informed that he failed to pay his hotel bills.
He added that sometimes, the German national dropped by Police Station 1, as well as Police Stations 4 and 7, so he could eat.