Sosua Reports

Spoke to the restaurant chica early in the day. We agreed to get together. I asked what time are you going to be here. She texted 10 (10pm ). Ok sounds good. I asked her "dos mil todo la noche, problema?" She said no it's ok. Chica calls me around 10:20 to tell me she will be there in 5 minutes. She gets there about 10:45. She didn't know it yet, but she was on the verge of being dismissed. Just as I texted her that if she is not here in 3 minutes, she does not need to come, she shows up on a moto.

I'll give it to her. I never seen her in a dress, heels, hair and makeup. But she looked good. Got in my place, and 1st thing out of her mouth is that she is hungry. Our 1st encounter, I took her to Rickys along the way home. She was new, and against my better judgment, I treated her by buying food she hadn't earned yet. But now she came directly to my spot, and is hungry. So I pointed to the fridge, and told her to find something.

She makes a sandwich, and then decides to tell me that she can only stay 3 hours, and how she has to be with her bambino tomorrow blah blah blah. After being 45 minutes late already and deciding to spring this on me now, I decided to let her see her scheme go to shit. I aborted her visit right then and there. I was not going to entertain some bullshit story that she came all the way to Sosua dressed like that to spend 3 hours and go home to be with her children. And I damn well know she wasnt going to stay for 3 hours, and get dos mil out of me. That wasnt going to happen.

I already saw her work the other night, when I dropped her off at the taxi stand, when she was supposed to be going home. I drove around the block to pick up her GF, and by the time I got around the block, she was in the parking lot in the back of Rumbas. She was shocked that I didn't just accept her change of plans. She knew before she left the house that she intended to "go to work" in Sosua. Especially with what she had on. Since she decided not to tell me her plan beforehand, I decided I will choose another night. In addition, I also made sure she understood that if she is late again without promptly calling, I'm going to tell her not to come.

She pleaded a little bit, complaining about needing money for her bambinos. She came to get money. To walk out empty handed (but a stomach full of food) just did not sit well with her. I told her she was responsible for what happened tonight. Next time be on time, and next time make sure you get acceptance on a change in plan. Don't come over and then change the plan. She wanted to know if we could get together tomorrow, to that I said, I will let her know if and when I am ready. Walked her out to a moto, and while walking out she was still mumbling about needing money for her children. I just kept saying another night mi amor. I'm sure she went straight to the strip, which is what she likely intended to do in the 1st place. Polish me off in 3 hours or less, hit the strip, and hopefully go home with a nice chunk of change.

I called one of my other good fucks who was still chillin at Rumba at such a late hour. Too many people up in D'Latins. Picked her up, and enjoyed the night with her. Got to get her up now so I can fix my breakfast after she is gone. Overall, a man with options and resources is a blessing.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1535619]She pleaded a little bit, complaining about needing money for her bambinos. She came to get money. To walk out empty handed (but a stomach full of food) just did not sit well with her. I told her she was responsible for what happened tonight. Next time be on time, and next time make sure you get acceptance on a change in plan. Don't come over and then change the plan. She wanted to know if we could get together tomorrow, to that I said, I will let her know if and when I am ready. Walked her out to a moto, and while walking out she was still mumbling about needing money for her children. I just kept saying another night mi amor. I'm sure she went straight to the strip, which is what she likely intended to do in the 1st place. Polish me off in 3 hours or less, hit the strip, and hopefully go home with a nice chunk of change.[/QUOTE]Way to go! In my opinion good call and great back up plan. You were fortunate. In June; a chica did that to me but told me after sexy and was asking for more money. It was 5. O am and she agreed all morning. I had to threaten to put the word out on her and for her not to ever speak to me on the strip when I come back. That calmed her ass down. We seen each other many times since then. She comes, we embrace, compliment her on the phat ass and slim waist, but no Repeats. I know she wish she could turn back the hands of time. We mongers have to hold these chica accountable for their actions as best we can. Ipanema Carioca did a good thing by posting his warning. It might stop her business, but you have to start somewhere. Once again I say a forum should be created here for dishonest and lazy chicas. If it doesn't help anyone but Regular and Senior members. One could simply go back 5 pages read and be well warned.

I think it good to get the chicas that don't live in Sosua or PP. During the interview process, I try to find out where she lives and is staying for the night. If she is staying with a group of chicas packed in a room she is more likely to want to stay the night with you in your AC well spaced room.

I would not flip out over the 45 minutes. Nothing is on time in the DR. Leaving early is an issue if I am expected to pay all night money. 2000 pesos is a bargain for todo noche. She shows up looking very hot dressed to the nines is a sign of respect. She took the time and expense to look nice. Leaving early would prompt an upfront reduction of 500 pesos because it is now a short term session. I would not be upset normally. Since I am renting the pussy not buying it I have no say as to who else she rents or gives her pussy to. These girls are not our private girlfriends. To be surprised that they are looking for other customers is funny. This is her business she needs to make money to feed her babies, pay her rent and oh yes eat. If the sex and company is good I am generous and gracious. Now this how I always conduct my self. Once it is clear that this is how you roll and other ladies get to know this the ladies show up early and ask to stay longer. One more thing they will give better pricing cause they actually like your company. Just as the ladies have reputations so do mongers.

[QUOTE=GrownMan1; 1535667]Way to go! In my opinion good call and great back up plan. You were fortunate. In June; a chica did that to me but told me after sexy and was asking for more money. It was 5. O am and she agreed all morning. I had to threaten to put the word out on her and for her not to ever speak to me on the strip when I come back. That calmed her ass down. We seen each other many times since then. She comes, we embrace, compliment her on the phat ass and slim waist, but no Repeats. I know she wish she could turn back the hands of time. We mongers have to hold these chica accountable for their actions as best we can. Ipanema Carioca did a good thing by posting his warning. It might stop her business, but you have to start somewhere. Once again I say a forum should be created here for dishonest and lazy chicas. If it doesn't help anyone but Regular and Senior members. One could simply go back 5 pages read and be well warned.

I think it good to get the chicas that don't live in Sosua or PP. During the interview process, I try to find out where she lives and is staying for the night. If she is staying with a group of chicas packed in a room she is more likely to want to stay the night with you in your AC well spaced room.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=OldKool;1535704]I would not flip out over the 45 minutes. Nothing is on time in the DR. Leaving early is an issue if I am expected to pay all night money. 2000 pesos is a bargain for todo noche.[/QUOTE]Thats good to know that you wouldn't flip out over 45 minutes. I wouldn't flip out over 45 minutes either. However nobody has to tolerate anybodies lateness either. Any person can accomplish that without flipping out.

[QUOTE]She shows up looking very hot dressed to the nines is a sign of respect. She took the time and expense to look nice.[/QUOTE]A sign of respect? Took the time and expense to look nice? For who? The chica is on the hustle, plain and simple. Her attempt to look nice is to attract business from as many clients as she deems possible, not for any sign of respect. And if a chicas time and expense is so significant, then let her take that money and pay for her bambinos with it.

[QUOTE]Leaving early would prompt an upfront reduction of 500 pesos because it is now a short term session. I would not be upset normally. Since I am renting the pussy not buying it I have no say as to who else she rents or gives her pussy to. These girls are not our private girlfriends. To be surprised that they are looking for other customers is funny.[/QUOTE]We all know we are renting the pussy. We all know these girls arent our private girlfriends. And your right, it would be funny for a guy to be surprised a chica is looking for other customers. But since that isn't the case here or anywhere in this forum why even bring it up?

[QUOTE]This is her business she needs to make money to feed her babies, pay her rent and oh yes eat. If the sex and company is good I am generous and gracious.[/QUOTE]Now this is funny. Here you are sympathizing with chicas because according to you, they need to make money to feed their babies, pay their rent and to eat. But above you would reduce a chicas take home pay by 500 pesos (whats that $13?) just because she has to leave early? So you don't have a problem with a chica being late, but you do have a problem with a chica leaving early? Aint that a blip?

Suppose that chica needs to leave early so she can make money with another dude? After all you just said they are looking for other customers, and they aint our private GF's, right? You arent being a good Cap'and if you reduce a chicas pay by a measly 500 pesos, knowing full well she has to have as many clients as she can in order to take care of her priorities the way you indicated.

WTF happened to the chica having to feed her babies, pay her rent, and oh yes eat? Oh yeah, and what about the expense of her looking nice for you? Why not let her keep the 500 pesos, since you claim they use that money to look good and for a sign of respect? Where exactly does your home base of logic come from? Because some of the things you post in order to counter what you read baffles the shit out of me.

[QUOTE=GrownMan1; 1535667]Way to go! In my opinion good call and great back up plan. You were fortunate. In June; a chica did that to me but told me after sexy and was asking for more money. It was 5. O am and she agreed all morning. I had to threaten to put the word out on her and for her not to ever speak to me on the strip when I come back. That calmed her ass down. We seen each other many times since then. She comes, we embrace, compliment her on the phat ass and slim waist, but no Repeats. I know she wish she could turn back the hands of time. We mongers have to hold these chica accountable for their actions as best we can. Ipanema Carioca did a good thing by posting his warning. It might stop her business, but you have to start somewhere. Once again I say a forum should be created here for dishonest and lazy chicas. If it doesn't help anyone but Regular and Senior members. One could simply go back 5 pages read and be well warned.

I think it good to get the chicas that don't live in Sosua or PP. During the interview process, I try to find out where she lives and is staying for the night. If she is staying with a group of chicas packed in a room she is more likely to want to stay the night with you in your AC well spaced room.[/QUOTE]A key component in the scenario I provided was that the chica told me up front before we did anything. It would have been a different issue if we did the deed, and then she sprung it on me that she was leaving. She's a woman (capable of saying anything) , but she wasnt a seasoned vet. My gut tells me, she regrets telling me so soon. I wouldn't be surprised if another chica with experience told her she didn't handle it right. She did not expect my decision to decline and re-schedule. She probably thought the 3 hours was something I would go for. Truth is, I really didn't need her all night anyway. It's just, I wasnt going to entertain the BS she was slinging, which looked more like a weak con job. After she left me, my buddy told me at breakfast that he saw her up in D'Latins last night. So hopefully by getting there early she had an opportunity to make up for the money she blew at my spot.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1535030]There are just a few guys on a couple of street corners who do it and the same guys have been doing it for years. They try to sell the generic Viagra at a 500% mark up, but I doubt if there is the same margin on condoms.[/QUOTE]Your right while travelling around the DR it is easy to find generic Viagra for 40 pesos

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1535619]She makes a sandwich, and then decides to tell me that she can only stay 3 hours, and how she has to be with her bambino tomorrow blah blah blah. After being 45 minutes late already and deciding to spring this on me now, I decided to let her see her scheme go to shit. I aborted her visit right then and there. I was not going to entertain some bullshit story that she came all the way to Sosua dressed like that to spend 3 hours and go home to be with her children. And I damn well know she wasnt going to stay for 3 hours, and get dos mil out of me. That wasnt going to happen.[/QUOTE]I have never heard a DR women referring to "bambinos". Are you sure she wasn't an Italian?

It is an interesting story. Maybe she showed up late because she was with another guy, and maybe she intended to leave early because she had another guy waiting and just wanted to collect your 2000 pesos in the middle of the evening. Maybe.

Or maybe she was late because she was getting ready and had to wait her turn on the dryer at the neighborhood hair salon, or perhaps she was waiting for her baby sitter or mother to return from somewhere to mind her kids and only had managed to get a sitter for a limited time, not for overnight.

45 minutes is not very late by DR standards, or by the standards of the human female in general, and she did call you to say that she was on the way, even if her estimate of time was a bit off. (They usually are.) 2000 pesos is about US$47. 50, so not a huge amount of money for 3 hours skilled labor plus use of tools.

Either way, you have not provided enough detail to make the case. What do you mean when you say she saying she had to be with her "bambino" tomorrow? The devil is entirely in the details, which are all missing. It would be far more edifying to know the exact details of her family situation and what she needs to buy for the "bambinos", how much it costs, etc.

I know you will say that you are only interested in the service she provides and the sex, but there is such a thing as small talk and in the course of a few hours of naked fun one usually finds out quite a lot about the person one is having sex with.

How would you handle this situation in the US if you stayed home from work to meet your plumber for an appointment at your house at 9:30 a. m. and he called at 9:50 to say he was in your neighborhood, and then showed at your house at 10:15 muttering something about having to meet a counselor at his child's school, and asked to use your bathroom. You allow him to take a [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url], then tell him to be on his way as he has breached your agreement and you then call in another plumber?

You can do whatever you want with your money, but remember you are just dealing with prostitutes, not licensed and bonded professionals, and that they are just human beings, generally young and uneducated women, trying to get by like we all are. Would you really respect a woman more who did not make some effort to put the needs of her children first?

Anyway, if nothing else, your post perfectly illustrates the perils of making overnight dates with women you hardly know. Toda la noche dates are not advisable unless you have prior sexual experience of the chica and really want to face her across the breakfast table.

No matter how young and uneducated someone is they can still be taught to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] in a pot. At least some monger is attempting to train them around there instead of making excuses for them. I don't think it's too much to ask of any person to keep their word and do what they themselves agreed to. The consequences of breaking the agreement may seem hard, but it was damn sure fair.

My first time in DR my wingman called up a chick he knew who lived 30 minutes away. He said he wanted her there in 10 minutes. She protested saying how far she lived. He told her that if she was not there in 10 minutes then not to come at all. When he hung up I was all sympathetic asking why he was doing her like that. He said that she had to learn. If getting money is of any importance to her then she would be there. I tell you what. 10 minutes after he hung up that phone her ass pulled up on a moto. Those were the good old days of Boca Chica.

P.S. I think saying bambinos is something that mongers have brought to the DR. I remember my early days in Rio when mongers would ask girls if they had bambinos because evidently they didn't know the word for kids (filhos) in Portuguese.

I truly believe that most of the girls in Sosua have kids and use their money to feed and cloth them. I treat them with respect as long as they conduct them selves well. I like to be fair and firm. I am not trying to be a sugar daddy but I have no problem being sweet to the little ladies. I felt you may have over reacted to her being late. She was upfront with you which was a mistake from her perspective. She took the time to dress nice and get to your room although 45 minutes late. She was straight shooter and paid for it. Many of these ladies get very few customers and really rely on the money for their survival. Yes I sympathize with them. Poverty a *****.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005; 1535793]Thats good to know that you wouldn't flip out over 45 minutes. I wouldn't flip out over 45 minutes either. However nobody has to tolerate anybodies lateness either. Any person can accomplish that without flipping out.

A sign of respect? Took the time and expense to look nice? For who? The chica is on the hustle, plain and simple. Her attempt to look nice is to attract business from as many clients as she deems possible, not for any sign of respect. And if a chicas time and expense is so significant, then let her take that money and pay for her bambinos with it.

We all know we are renting the pussy. We all know these girls arent our private girlfriends. And your right, it would be funny for a guy to be surprised a chica is looking for other customers. But since that isn't the case here or anywhere in this forum why even bring it up?

Now this is in order to counter what you read baffles the shit out of me.[/QUOTE]

The times I stopped my car to allow a pedestrian or another motorist to have the right a way. I have seen people hesitate to move because they don't expect anyone to do that.

One of the hardest things I have dealing with here is that pedestrians don't have the right of way here and you will just get run over! A few days ago a Dominican in a car stopped to let me cross the street. I came up to him and thanked him for being so considerate. What a breath of fresh air.

[QUOTE=OldKool;1535841]I truly believe that most of the girls in Sosua have kids and use their money to feed and cloth them. I treat them with respect as long as they conduct them selves well. I like to be fair and firm. I am not trying to be a sugar daddy but I have no problem being sweet to the little ladies. I felt you may have over reacted to her being late. She was upfront with you which was a mistake from her perspective. She took the time to dress nice and get to your room although 45 minutes late. She was straight shooter and paid for it. Many of these ladies get very few customers and really rely on the money for their survival. Yes I sympathize with them. Poverty a *****.[/QUOTE]I must say that I am with Old Kool on this one. I have been visiting the DR every few weeks or living in the DR for more than a decade and when I am in Sosua I often see chicas I have known for more than a decade. I have talked to many chicas, been to their homes, been to their weddings in a couple of cases, been to baptisms for their children, seen some grow from young women into middle aged matrons, etc.

But I see little reason or no reason to think there is anything other than a tiny, tiny minority of chicas who are selling ass as an ongoing professional business to make money and succeeding at it. All the ones I know are just earning money on a purely ad hoc basis to buy baby food, pampers, school supplies, support their mothers, etc. And the money is spent as soon as it is earned, if not before if they sell something they own at the pawn shop for money. Thus, if anything, they minimize the number of men they have sex with for money, because mostly they don't enjoy it and/or are ashamed of it, and only seek to get the money they need for immediate short term concerns.

Contrast this if you will with the African American woman I was talking to last night in Florida who works in a low paid job (about $10 per hour) , but works a LOT of overtime. She is planning to visit her sister in Japan in a couple of months, taking her daughter, and spending about $4000 on fares plus another $2000 for spending money. She is also working on saving a $10, 000 down payment to buy an Infiniti car that she will then pay off over three years and have free and clear.

In all the years I have talked to Dominican or Haitian chicas about their earnings, ambitions, dreams, etc. I have never met any who owned anything of more value than a passola (scooter), and only two or three of those, that they have earned from selling ass. I have heard stories about one or two who have earned and saved enough in a few years to buy a home, but they are the exceptions that prove the rule.

The only chicas who seem to have prospered are those who have an ongoing relationship with a man of means from overseas, and perhaps live in a nice apartment with a / see, have the use of a car, medical insurance, dental treatment, nice clothes and salon money. Even then they rarely have anything as basic as a bank account in their own name or any security beyond the next check.

The only other way chicas prosper financially is if they marry out of the island and prosper in a foreign country, which some do, but many don't and eventually return to the DR divorced and broke.

So when I read about scheming chicas devoting their energies to scamming mongers, I take it with a pinch of salt. Most don't have many customers and would are delighted if they get the chance to spend a few hours with a pleasant guy who is good company and get 2000 pesos for their trouble, and usually try to provide a rewarding sexual experience in return.

Yeah, there might be the odd one or two who is running some complicated scheme of deception and juggling multiple clients, but probably far, far fewer than one would think from reading this board.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1535834]No matter how young and uneducated someone is they can still be taught to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] in a pot. At least some monger is attempting to train them around there instead of making excuses for them.[/QUOTE]Thinking that you can change them is the first step on the pathway to being the "Captain Save-a-Hoe" that so many of you fear becoming.

[QUOTE]My first time in DR my wingman called up a chick he knew who lived 30 minutes away. He said he wanted her there in 10 minutes. She protested saying how far she lived. He told her that if she was not there in 10 minutes then not to come at all. When he hung up I was all sympathetic asking why he was doing her like that. He said that she had to learn. If getting money is of any importance to her then she would be there. I tell you what. 10 minutes after he hung up that phone her ass pulled up on a moto.[/QUOTE]Well, obviously she was lying about being at home and was actually close by. I can't see it proves anything.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1535932]Thinking that you can change them is the first step on the pathway to being the "Captain Save-a-Hoe" that so many of you fear becoming.[/QUOTE]Come on brother. Don't just read the words; read for comprehension. You are way out in left field. Training someone to change in order to be on time and be more respectful to others is nothing like being a CSH and paying a girl or showing her the pictures that someone posted online of her in hopes that she will stop going with others. See with the first one you take something away (in this case the chance to earn money) to get the desired behavior. With the second one you are just a dumb ass thinking you can turn a hooker into a housewife.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1535932]Well, obviously she was lying about being at home and was actually close by. I can't see it proves anything.[/QUOTE]Stevie Wonder could see the main point of the issue was not where the girl lived or how close she actually was, but that she argued that it was not possible for her to arrive by the time limit she was given. When someone gave her an ultimatum (instead of feeling sorry for her and accepting her bullshit excuses as some on here are asserting should be done) she did indeed arrive on time.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1535810]I know you will say that you are only interested in the service she provides and the sex, but there is such a thing as small talk and in the course of a few hours of naked fun one usually finds out quite a lot about the person one is having sex with.[/QUOTE]Small talk is overrated and I'm not trying to get to know a hooker - there are more than enough non-hookers to do that with. I met up with a member two nights ago and hit a freelance club. I told him that I usually walk in about 2am, go up to a woman, and tell her "Let's Go." She is there for the money, and I am there for the honey. We leave the club, fuck, sleep, wake up, fuck again, and she leaves with her money. Half the time I couldn't tell you the chick's name. Most of the time when they do ask my name I tell them that names are not important. The only thing important for you is money and the only thing important for me is fucking you. No need for a chase involving food, drinks, or dancing. I am really amazed at guys who are able to keep a mental rolodex of hookers' names and things about them. Hell I can't keep the non-pros that I know sorted. If I had to remember shit about hookers too then I would really be in trouble.
[QUOTE=Frannie;1535810]Anyway, if nothing else, your post perfectly illustrates the perils of making overnight dates with women you hardly know. Toda la noche dates are not advisable unless you have prior sexual experience of the chica and really want to face her across the breakfast table.[/QUOTE]The problem with this is that I can count on one hand the times I have done short time in Sosua. I am a guy who is pretty much strictly toda la noche. I can only remember having 1 problem with a chick in Sosua and the next time I saw her I mentioned the incident. She swore that she was not the girl I was talking about until I showed her and the rest of Merengue the pictures that I had taken of her in the room on the night in question. The entire bar laughed at her.

And who said you had to face someone across the breakfast table because they spent the night? I think Wrx already has that one figured out. [QUOTE=Wrx2005;1535619]Picked her up, and enjoyed the night with her. Got to get her up now so [b]I can fix my breakfast after she is gone.[/b] [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Frannie; 1535810]I have never heard a DR women referring to "bambinos". Are you sure she wasn't an Italian?

It is an interesting story. Maybe she showed up late because she was with another guy, and maybe she intended to leave early because she had another guy waiting and just wanted to collect your 2000 pesos in the middle of the evening. Maybe.

Or maybe she was late because she was getting ready and had to wait her turn on the dryer at the neighborhood hair salon, or perhaps she was waiting for her baby sitter or mother to return from somewhere to mind her kids and only had managed to get a sitter for a limited time, not for overnight.

45 minutes is not very late by DR standards, or by the standards of the human female in general, and she did call you to say that she was on the way, even if her estimate of time was a bit off. (They usually are.) 2000 pesos is about US$47. 50, so not a huge amount of money for 3 hours skilled labor plus use of tools.

Either way, you have not provided enough detail to make the case. What do you mean when you say she saying she had to be with her "bambino" tomorrow? The devil is entirely in the details, which are all missing. It would be far more edifying to know the exact details of her family situation and what she needs to buy for the "bambinos", how much it costs, etc.

I know you will say that you are only interested in the service she provides and the sex, but there is such a thing as small talk and in the course of a few hours of naked fun one usually finds out quite a lot about the person one is having sex with.

How would you handle this situation in the US if you stayed home from work to meet your plumber for an appointment at your house at 9:30 am and he called at 9:50 to say he was in your neighborhood, and then showed at your house at 10:15 muttering something about having to meet a counselor at his child's school, and asked to use your bathroom. You allow him to take a [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url], then tell him to be on his way as he has breached your agreement and you then call in another plumber?

You can do whatever you want with your money, but remember you are just dealing with prostitutes, not licensed and bonded professionals, and that they are just human beings, generally young and uneducated women, trying to get by like we all are. Would you really respect a woman more who did not make some effort to put the needs of her children first?

Anyway, if nothing else, your post perfectly illustrates the perils of making overnight dates with women you hardly know. Toda la noche dates are not advisable unless you have prior sexual experience of the chica and really want to face her across the breakfast table.[/QUOTE]I already alluded to the premise that she likely intended to leave early to make more money and also to get some of mine. Your speculating further is a waste, and so is me making a case for probably only a small group of individuals who can't or won't grasp what was going on with that chica. Whatever her issue was, warranted or not, that is not my concern. The only thing that matters here, is that it is my choice to accept or decline whatever she puts forth.

BTW, the DR doesn't make standards in terms of personal time management, individual people do for themselves. Therefore I don't seek to hold the DR accountable when it's an individuals behavior in question, not the DR. And thats the biggest problem here. A lot of dudes don't hold these mofos accountable. And because of that, too much shit goes on unchecked. Well I'm here to inform. That is not going to be the case in my regard.

You say 45 minutes late is not late by DR standards? Try catching the last Caribe Tours or Metro bus to an intended destination by being 45 minutes late of final departure and see if that bus is still waiting for your late arrival. When some one has to face consequences for their actions, that might do wonders in sobering up someone to the reality that others have the choice not to accept your behavior or the standards you are using.

Putting her children 1st? Are you serious? The bottom line is, the chica was lying about needing to go home early to be with her children. Her intention was to hopefully have a payday from me, and then head to the strip to find more clients there. In other words she was not going home to her children like she said, after spending time with me. Moreover there was no need for her to even dress like that, if she was only going home in 3 hours. If a chica lies to me, and uses her children as an excuse, no I don't have any respect for that. If someone else does, thats their choice. I don't have to accept that. Contrary to popular misconception, even dominican people can be held accountable for their poor choices and poor judgment.

This situation doesn't illustrate no peril in making overnight dates. You don't even have the details and facts straight according to you. So how could it perfectly illustrate some peril? This situation perfectly illustrates how a chica will lie and deceive and even use her children to get over, and how only a select few will see this chicas behavior for what it is, and deal with it accordingly.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1535927]Yeah, there might be the odd one or two who is running some complicated scheme of deception and juggling multiple clients, but probably far, far fewer than one would think from reading this board.[/QUOTE]Let's call a spade a spade. There is one guy who have consistently been holding the fort single handed for the noble and ingenuous mongers and proving at every turn how unreliable, unprofessional and unethical the Sosua bitches are. Interestingly though, he only spends time and a fucking lot of it, of all places in Sosua, and regales all with a blow by blow account each day of how he unearthed another scammer and saved the poor monger with an almost missionary zeal to save the doomed.