Sosua Reports

[QUOTE=Orgasmico;1541105]I met a guy in Sosua from Detroit last summer and this guy had big bank. He would pop bottles in D'Latin and tip everyone. The girls got big tips. One day he felt relaxed enough to tell me that a girl in Sosua broke his heart. He was a western union novio and she told him she was going to stay off the streets of Sosua. One day he came into town without telling her he was going to be there and busted her working the strip. The guy was still shaken up about this. Not sure why he chose to send a puta money in the first place, but its his money and not mine. There have been many similar stories told over the years.[/QUOTE]Exactly! What would be an educated guess of how many men the average regular has per year. (A girl who is almost always there you are, haha) Seriously was just thinking about this and said to myself "wow, if she just had two guys per week what would that come to over 300 dicks, Believe me there are many girls who if not over this number they are close!

By far most women who I have seen totally taken care of in the DR fucks it up. (Cannot take the hoeing out of them) If you guys really want to help these girls there is an old saying teach a man how to fish, well you know the rest. Well try to give them some financial advice. (98% of them will never listen) Sending them money does not help them. Most men have egos even in the Dominican Republic cannot tell a man shit about "HIS" Woman. He always thinks his girl would never, or she is different. If there is anything that makes men stupid is the belief that he is different and so is his girl. Most men in Europe and America have this mentality about their wives and women back home.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1541051]If you want a fake massage plus sex in the daytime, you can get them at Belkis Salon or at a place at the back entrance of Casa Marina run by two chicas both called Rosa. I think it is called Salon Rosa. They have a room up an alley at the back where you can go for a shag.[/QUOTE]If staying at the Casa Marina will they allow you to come and go through that back entrance? When I have stayed there I always went through by the front desk. Does that building you are talking about rent out rooms for overnight stay?

They are 1 chica in Sosua that I like very well and she makes me very happy sexually and socially but when I see her out working she is always in the shadows and never up front strutting her stuff which I know would make her more money because she is so fine. I have up until here recently thought she was just on low profile but after reading all these post and evaluating the situation at hand I think she stays out of the light in fear of her western union men knowing she is out there. Not sure

I have not contacted this girl since I have been home although she gave me all her info. I don't want her hitting me up to do the same as others are doing but I defiantly want to fuck her when I go back.

I have a nice girl who works a regular job and goes to school with a baby I have been emailing since I left and so far she has not ask me for anything but I think she is thinking commitment out of me. She is one of the girls who cooked for me at there home and she is to me not the kind who is fucking everybody. But who the fuck really knows

[QUOTE=Manizales911; 1541020]Wrx2005, thanks for taking the time to post all the insightful reports.

Don't be surprised upon your return that she can use that tablet as well as anyone. I am constantly surprised by how well these girls use their smartphones and tablets. They may be totally uneducated and can't spell worth a damn etc. But one thing they have more than us is all the time in the world and will sit there for hours on end and play with those things, also they will "network" with their friends until they have it all figured out. I travel with an Iphone, Ipad and laptop out of necessity and let the girls use them freely and I am constantly amazed at how well versed these girls are at using these things.

For the last few years I have stuck to a rotation of about eight or ten girls that have proven their worth to me rather than a constant hunt while also mixing in a few new girls. Because of this I have gotten to know many of these girls quite well and with only one exception they ALL have western union novios and several have more than one. There are more Captain Save A Hoe's than one could possibly imagine, I could write for hours about the stories I have heard, it absolutely blows my mind.[/QUOTE]I kinda expect her to learn how to use some features of the tablet for what interests her. But I also expect she will have to get a lot of help to get the most out of her tablet. She'll need a gmail account so she can put more apps on the device.

OTOH, I have seen enough chicas much sharper when it comes to using phones, laptops, the internet, than this chica. This chica has a long way to go. At some point she even admitted that she needs to go back to school. Because when we were trying to communicate using the translator, she just couldn't express a complete thought, nor could she comprehend what I conveyed to her with the help of the translator. Many of the words translated in spanish were words she never learned.

Some advice for the guys who are relative new-bees or maybe even some vets. Who have forgotten some of the rules in this hobby.

"If you fall in love in The D. R, C. R, Brazil, Colombia or Peru ect ect, You are falling in love by YOURSELF"

Having a girlfriend in another country is ok, I've had my share over the years but even though I thought about them the entire flight home, I always assumed they were doing exactly what they pleased when I wasn't there. Don't get me wrong there is an exception to every rule but your probably not the exception.

Latin women are a complex bunch. They will never love you back unless they respect you, they won't respect you unless you take complete control of the relationship. Sure you need to show concern for them and their families but you better be prepared to say 'NO' a lot more then you say 'Yes' if you want respect. Forget about the way you romance an American woman. In Latin America the man is El Rey!

[QUOTE=Mattco;1541024]What restaurant do you own my friend?[/QUOTE]I do not own a restaurant.

[QUOTE=Orgasmico;1541031]You've been reporting from Sosua for awhile now. How long are you there for?[/QUOTE]I arrived 1/25 and I'm leaving next week. I'm sure I'll be back towards the end of April. By then I should be able to take care of a few things in the US, and get right back to paradise for a 2 or 3 week stint.

[QUOTE=Grub1; 1541153]They are 1 chica in Sosua that I like very well and she makes me very happy sexually and socially but when I see her out working she is always in the shadows and never up front strutting her stuff which I know would make her more money because she is so fine. I have up until here recently thought she was just on low profile but after reading all these post and evaluating the situation at hand I think she stays out of the light in fear of her western union men knowing she is out there. Not sure

I have not contacted this girl since I have been home although she gave me all her info. I don't want her hitting me up to do the same as others are doing but I defiantly want to fuck her when I go back.

I have a nice girl who works a regular job and goes to school with a baby I have been emailing since I left and so far she has not ask me for anything but I think she is thinking commitment out of me. She is one of the girls who cooked for me at there home and she is to me not the kind who is fucking everybody. But who the fuck really knows[/QUOTE]Myself and a few of my friends were having a discussion on the beach. We were generally in agreement to this. There are three main areas that are important to ENOUGH dominican women. 1) Financial. 2) having a family (with or without a father in the household ).3) And emotional / social support.

The men typically most sought for financial support are the foreigners, Gringos. Thats their role to provide finances and benefits. The role of the dominican men (the good ones or the bad ones or neutral) are to father the dominican womens children. And the dominican womans friends and family, their role is provide the emotional and social support system.

Enough foreign / gringo men don't know the role they fit in. They want to be the womans emotional and social support system, but they (enough dominican women) don't need or seek that from foreign men. They get that from their family and friends. When they want children, they seek dominican men. We have heard many dominican women claim they don't like dominican men. But what they really mean IMO, is they don't have a problem having children with dominican men. They are proud of that. What they may not like about dominican men is that for the most part, enough dominican men fall short when it comes to providing the financial support the women crave / need. The essential financial support as well as what they lust from watching how people live elsewhere in the world.

And thats where the foreign men have value to enough DR women. So the average foreigner / Gringo needs to know what role is expected of him, and not fool himself into trying to fulfill a role that is not required or sought from him. Also he should factor in and pay attention to, what happens with the DR womans interest the moment his financial support ceases or is never provided. Watch how fast the dominican womans interest in that foreigner fades or is non existent. No matter what DR women may say about DR men, they are not going to stop having children by dominican men. Thats the Dr mans role, to father the children. The foreigners role is to provide the benefits / financial support. And friends and family are the emotional and social support system.

Keep that in mind, and you won't be walking around playing the wrong role. Or thinking your value / presence is worth more to the average DR woman, than your financial contribution to her livelyhood.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1541179]The men typically most sought for financial support are the foreigners, Gringos. Thats their role to provide finances and benefits. The role of the dominican men (the good ones or the bad ones or neutral) are to father the dominican womens children. And the dominican womans friends and family, their role is provide the emotional and social support system.[/QUOTE]I tell you what. I have been dealing with this one chick in Puerto Plata for a couple of years. Every so often we butt heads. She says look, you always just want to fuck but I need to be taken care of. I tell her if you want to be a hooker then I don't mind paying you straight up. She always gets angry saying she is not a hooker.

Then she has a couple of kids by a Dominican guy. He takes care of his kids. I can never go to her house because (and I have heard this from other chicks before) if she brings a man there the money gets cut off. This is the part I can never get. We were planing to do something together at the end of the month. The other day she says,"You can come. We are going to be together, don't worry. But you know what I want. A responsible man in every sense." I asked what every sense was. She said,"Responsible. A home. A man that can love me and take care of my kids." I said but you said they already have a father. She said,"Look, if you want to be with me my kids are part of the package. If you don't feel the same then it is best not to come or look for a woman who does not have kids." So whenever she has a new boyfriend, the kids from the previous guy(s) become the new guy's responsibility and the real father is let off the hook? Or does this only hold if the new guy is a foreigner?

Met her yesterday in front of the liquor store near the corner of PC & Dr Rosen. She was wearing a nice black and white long striped dress. Gave her sexy curves. She was quite friendly, so I took her number. Already had plans for the evening so I suggested a tentative plan of us getting together the next night. We arranged to get together around 7:30. I was riding my bike back to my spot from the playa, but decided to call her since I suspected she was somewhere on the strip already. Called and she was at Rumba. I met her there, had some beer and talked outside in the parking lot where the outdoor tables are.

With her was her cousin. Were all smiles, and getting along. This chica, I haven't seen her before in Sosua, and from the conversation her cousin had not spent much time in Sosua before either. And yet I'm impressed by the chica network they belong to, because they were staying at the Isla hotel where many chicas that come to "work" stay. Against my better judgement I offered for both women to come to my spot. After a few minutes, my chica is ready to take a shower. Suddenly she didn't seem to be the new to Sosua chica I thought she might be. She seemed quite comfortable in what she was about to do.

And her cousin who hung out in the living room watching TV told us to have fun. About 35 minutes later, both of us emerged from the bedroom, each taking separate showers. The chica was dressed in an instant. Now the situation is coming full swing. Earlier, you would have thought her and I might spend some time together down the road the way we were carrying on at Rumba's. Her cousin (who understood english very well) even suggested, that if I wanted her cousin to come up from SD, all I have to do is call, and she will be happy to come.

I remembered that statement then. But now what we have here is a chica ready to get paid. This is another one of those instances where I went on the vibe I had with the chica and decided not to negotiate for services, but to let my experience guide me. I thought, $1500 was fair for ST. But I gave her 500 pesos more because she sucked to completion. It's a good thing when you finally run across a chica that really knows what she is doing orally. However, this chica wasnt too smooth at the time of getting paid, and now showed some signs of greed.

I folded 2 mil and gave it to her. This chica slowly put the money in her purse and made a dash for the bathroom. She was obvious as hell. The only reason she bolted for the bano was to check for how much I gave her. When she came out of the bathroom she said something to her cousin. Then the chica starts off with. She says "baby?" "Baby?" "Can you give me 500 pesos more please?" Since she flipped all pro on me, I flipped on her as well."Amor, you were here less than an hour and got dos mil pesos, and you want me to give you more?" I think my response caught her off guard. Since we were all laughing and joking prior to getting to my spot.

She quickly said "it's no problem baby". Dropped them both off. We all said good night, and that was the end of that. When we were at Rumbas you would have thought we were an item or something. After getting out of the car, it was clear that was going to be a one and done episode. The chica was decent in bed. But found out in the bedroom that she smokes. Smelled cigarettes all in her grill. Fortunately when it came to smoking my sausage, I didn't have any issues with cigarette breath.

Meanwhile several chicas I have been with in the last few days are being seen walking with other dudes, but seemingly embarrassed that I see them but arent paying them any mind. It's like they don't know how to take that because they are used to lying to keep from being exposed. Take "round ass" for example. One night about 3 weeks ago, I called her on the phone to find out if she was available. She said yes. I said where are you know, and she says she is home. I said ok, I will come by to pick you up. Well, I decided to drive to her place and wait outside. I was doing something with my phones, and felt I can park in front and simply wait for her to get ready. About 10 minutes later, guess who shows up on a moto? It's round ass. Later when she got in the car, I asked her why she felt she had to lie about already being home? All I got out of her was DR gibberish.

For some reason, some of these chicas just can't tell the truth for simple shit. I told her way in the beginning that I am not concerned about her working in Sosua or her having clients. But in spite of that understanding, she will still lie when the truth with do. And thats not the only time either. She told me she was home another time, but in order to get to her spot she had to pass where I was standing. She tried to duck behind a van, but I ended up spotting her anyway. LOL. I didn't give a shit. I just wanted to fuck her round ass.

So for the past few days, I have been seeing a few of my chicas walking around with guys. Walking ahead or behind so it doesn't look like they are together. One chica I know made me and my buddy laugh. It was my galaxy girl who was with a guy. The guy was lounging on the beach. She left him briefly to go to the bathroom, and as she passed me on the way back to the guy, she didn't look in my direction, and acted like she didn't see or hear me from 10 ft away. All I said is hello. The very next day, she spots me on the beach, and were about 150ft away, and she is waving and cheesing at me like nothing happened yesterday. Shit was funny as hell. Meanwhile I think those chicas I know who are with other men, but still acknowledge you or even give a quick hello, I think thats cool. I in turn do the same when I am with another chica. I don't blank out or ignore a chica, just because I'm with somebody else. Of course I understand why enough of them play these games, or feel the need to lie, but it sure is comical all the effort they put in trying to convince you of their loyalty and devotion, and how much you are missed when you both arent together.

[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;1541088]I find that the term "Save a Hoe" often is used in a deprecating manner.[/QUOTE]As well it should be.

[QUOTE=Tempoecorto;1541088]People willingly or unwittingly sending money to the women does not necessarily mean it is a bad thing or that such people are not as smart as the non. SAH kinds. They may have more money or are into such esoteric concept as generosity. I would have to presume that the donors believe or have some kind of a perception of a payback. No matter how implausible or unreal it may appear to the outsiders.[/QUOTE]A mark set up for a long con is still a mark. And when you are being a WU novio that is exactly what you are. Did you meet this woman on the strip in Sosua? Did you give her money after the first time you fucked her? Are you now sending her money through electronic transfer? If you have answered yes to all of these questions then you are indeed trying to Save a Hoe.

Did you originally meet this girl through other means? You say she has never talked about things she needs with the undertone (or by explicitly saying) that you should get them for her? You have been to and are allowed to stay in this woman's home? This woman has a normal 9-to-5 job? Are you now sending her money through electronic transfer? You are just a regular boyfriend trying to help your lady out. Many people get jobs overseas and send money back to their family to help them out. You pretty much fall into this category. Yet and still, I would not be found doing it.

One thing to ask yourself before you start sending money by electronic transfer is WIDTAH (Would I Do This At Home)? If you met a chick under the same circumstances back where you live would you still be inclined to do this type of thing? The real truth is that no matter what kind of esoteric concepts you claim to be privy to, back home you wouldn't be tempted (read [b][i]caught dead[/i][/b]) trying to date/financially support someone who hasn't graduated high school (hence has sub-par literacy) ,sitting on their ass every day with no job and not even attempting to look for one, [i]and[/i] SOLD you pussy the first time you laid eyes on them. A lie don't care who tell it.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005; 1541209]I folded 2 mil and gave it to her. This chica slowly put the money in her purse and made a dash for the bathroom. She was obvious as hell. The only reason she bolted for the bano was to check for how much I gave her. When she came out of the bathroom she said something to her cousin. Then the chica starts off with. She says "baby?" "Baby?" "Can you give me 500 pesos more please?" Since she flipped all pro on me, I flipped on her as well."Amor, you were here less than an hour and got dos mil pesos, and you want me to give you more?" I think my response caught her off guard. She quickly said "it's no problem baby".[/QUOTE]You handled that well. No matter what the amount, I would have said well I always give X for short time, but I already gave you X+500 because you sucked me so good.

[QUOTE=Stebo419;1539845]Does anyone knows what's the max amount you can withdrawal at one time from Scotia Bank in Sosua. How many Scotia bank and where they located.[/QUOTE]Last time I was in Sosua, I tried the Scotia Bank atm up at the pharmacia / Metro bus stop & could only withdraw 5000 pesos. It was a Sunday night and maybe the limit was reduced for the weekend. This was end of February. Back in early January, I was able to get 10, 000 pesos per withdrawl but don't remember what day of the week I used it. I am told the limit per withdrawl at the ScotiaBank branch in Cabarete is 12, 000 pesos per withdrawl. Possibly, having a ScotiaBank card may make a difference, which I do not have. My wingman does, and pays no fees for atm withdrawls.

Seems to me all banks in Sosua are reducing their withdrawl limits and forcing us to pay more in fees. I checked several banks & the most I could get per withdrawl is 5000 pesos, unless you hold a debit card & account with the bank, then it might be sightly more.

[QUOTE=Funinthesun63;1541247]Seems to me all banks in Sosua are reducing their withdrawl limits and forcing us to pay more in fees. I checked several banks & the most I could get per withdrawl is 5000 pesos, unless you hold a debit card & account with the bank, then it might be sightly more.[/QUOTE]This is not just Sosua, this is the entire country. I reported on this a couple of months ago. Time to start bringing cash to exchange, unless you can bear the brunt of paying $4 for every $115 (3%) that you take out plus the charges of your home bank.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1541171]I arrived 1/25 and I'm leaving next week. I'm sure I'll be back towards the end of April. By then I should be able to take care of a few things in the US, and get right back to paradise for a 2 or 3 week stint.[/QUOTE]You're leaving before the 14th? Damn. I was hoping to get a chance to chat and buy you a beer or a drink.