Sosua Reports

I got to Sosua yesterday afternoon via a convoluted route. San Francisco De Macoris, Tenares and then doing the mountain road across for 43 Km to Gasper Hernandez, on the way to Cabarete and on to Sosua. The mountain road was surprisingly good. With hardly any traffic and only a few places where landslide has taken a toll of the road. I took a bunch of pictures but unfortunately do no have the USB cable to hook the phone up to the laptop. Perhaps when I get back home.

Called Frannie in the evening and as luck would have it, he was free and so we met at Pedro Clisante at the Austrian restaurant. Excellent Wiener Scnitzel with a side of potato rosti and salad, washed down with a bottle of water and finished with tiramisu mit eine Kappucino. I later went to the cigar bar to buy a cigar. 180 pesos but it was good after a good meal. So Frannie and I just stayed at the restaurant and discussing Pushkin and Hardy while seeing the world go by. People of my age and older. All there for their last hurrah, we thought! Got back to my place at 12 midnight. Have a 10 o'clock for the beach and hopefully something else and so it was good giving it a rest for the day.

[QUOTE=Oakie; 1550585]Usually, there are chicas hanging around who are also friends of theirs, so we have something in common. If I see one that interests me, I'll buy her a beer. Might also buy the bartender a drink at the same time, and by the body language of the bartender, I can tell if she approves my choice and gives the green light. (they have that "look" if you buy the wrong one a drink).

It's not noisy like Rhumba or D'Latin, so you can chat (interview, or audition) at leisure. If she turns your crank on a barstool, she can probably do the same in bed. While this is going on there are others around giving you the sign, so if the present conversation is going nowhere, you can gradually enlarge the circle to bring another one in. At some point I leave the bar once or twice with my tab still running (ATM machine, or across the street if I see an old face, or just for a stroll and a smoke) and this really seems to establish my credit in the eyes of the chicas, and further perks their interest. It also give me a breather to think clearly about my choices.

This may sound too complicated or structured, but in reality it flows naturally and there's no direct propositioning or negotiating until you've found "the one".[/QUOTE]That sounds like a good style and effective technique you have developed for yourself! You are batting and left handed everyone else is practicing right.

[QUOTE=GrownMan1;1550644]That sounds like a good style and effective technique you have developed for yourself! You are batting and left handed everyone else is practicing right.[/QUOTE]It's a "grooming" process. You get to observe her, over a beer. If she's constantly scanning the room, or her cell phone, you can be sure that all she sees when she's looking at you is dinero. You tell her (with a smile) that you're not going anywhere, so she should take a walk and make some business.

The good ones make you feel like you're the only guy there, and you should be able to have a laugh with her, it's not a serious business. Let her take you to her favorite bar and introduce you to her chica bartender friends. I hadn't been to Sosua for a couple of years, so the new "connections" at the new bars, were invaluable.

And so the whole process starts over again.

And they generally don't like the beach, they don't like the sun. So if she suggests going to the beach the next day it's usually because she has a friend or relative running a bar / restaurant down there, and she wants to bring them your business.

[QUOTE=Oakie;1550687]It's a "grooming" process. You get to observe her, over a beer. If she's constantly scanning the room, or her cell phone, you can be sure that all she sees when she's looking at you is dinero. You tell her (with a smile) that you're not going anywhere, so she should take a walk and make some business.[/QUOTE]LOL. You guys make picking up hookers so complicated. What has always worked for me is to grab one and say let's go.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1550691]LOL. You guys make picking up hookers so complicated. What has always worked for me is to grab one and say let's go.[/QUOTE]Not at all, that's the point. It's a fun and comes naturally to me. It's all part of having your favorite beer at a friendly bar, and checking out the action. My favorite way to spend time (at my age, I spend way more time playing the game, than actually fucking, LOL)

One other thing for the newbies.

Don't answer her chatty texts she'll be sending you every hour, on the hour. Those conversations usually lead to a small request for a little dinero to top up her phone. Hell, you're part of that conversation so what's the harm? Once you agree, later she'll want a little gift for bambina's 1st birthday, no problem you may say?

Once she's got you there, it will be hard to refuse money for the kid's much needed doctors visit, blood transfusion, or some other cocked up little crisis.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1550691]LOL. You guys make picking up hookers so complicated. What has always worked for me is to grab one and say let's go.[/QUOTE]Why audition a chica in bed, after you've paid?

When, for the price of a beer.....!

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1550691]LOL. You guys make picking up hookers so complicated. What has always worked for me is to grab one and say let's go.[/QUOTE]Like I said before, random selection might be just as effective, but one likes to attempt to increase the odds of a real sexual connection and a memorable experience rather than just a paid encounter.

Note how many complaints we get here of guys who are disappointed with the performance of the chica.

[quote=oakie; 1550591]never had a threesome down there (yet) mostly it was because of my ex-novia, lp.

i had one set up with a tourist party girl from new england who took a shine to both of us, at a hotel pool bar happy hour in bc. lp and her were dancing together and turning me on, but when it came time to get things organized, lp turned off. i found out later she had deleted the pics of the occasion from my cell phone.

another time a sweet quiet girl who was vaguely related hung out with us for a couple of days, just smiling, but when i started to organize things, lp put her foot down.

that's why i say that there is more to some of these relationships than just money. i would have paid generously for the opportunity and she knew it. there was no chance of me hooking up with any one of them (the tourist chica was leaving the next day, and the quiet smiling one had no english, so we never had a conversation.)

anyway, now i'm free, so who knows when?[/quote]it is complex. women are jealous of other women. women might not want you to have sex with another woman. they may not mind having another woman eat their pussy, but they may find the idea of doing that to another woman where she [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord110][CodeWord110][/url] quite repulsive. that's why each threesome and determining who does what is quite complex. then you get into the whole issue of condoms, contraception, bareback, etc. all of these things have to be sorted out, or at least develop some kind of three way memo of understanding as to what will or will not take place. this does not need to be a very formal process, but it is necessary for a great time to be had.

[quote=frannie;1550701]it is complex. women are jealous of other women. women might not want you to have sex with another woman. they may not mind having another woman eat their pussy, but they may find the idea of doing that to another woman where she [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord110][CodeWord110][/url] quite repulsive. that's why each threesome and determining who does what is quite complex. then you get into the whole issue of condoms, contraception, bareback, etc. all of these things have to be sorted out, or at least develop some kind of three way memo of understanding as to what will or will not take place. this does not need to be a very formal process, but it is necessary for a great time to be had.[/quote]this all goes to my point, which some, including cubadave get wrong. they say it's all and only about money, like they are all zombies.

if you have any kind of ongoing relationship with one of the girls it gets complicated.

but if you pick up two random chicas, feed them with booze (and money) you can get the job done relatively easier.

Now you know you are dealing with a real master swordsman when you meet a guy like Tempoecorto, whom I shared an hour or two with last night in Calle Pedro Clisante, who drove into Sosua last night not to get laid, but to take a night off from fucking and enjoy a good Wiener Schnitzel. Now that is class!

[QUOTE=Oakie; 1550714]This all goes to my point, which some, including CubaDave get wrong. They say it's all and only about money, like they are all zombies.

If you have any kind of ongoing relationship with one of the girls it gets complicated.

But if you pick up two random chicas, feed them with booze (and money) you can get the job done relatively easier.[/QUOTE]Yes, you can, but there is a massive difference between a "happy hour", basically two for the price of one, and an interactive three-way experience focused on the pleasure of all three rather than on just the one.

Another complication I didn't mention above, but will a chica fuck you bareback after another chica has had your dick in her mouth, or do you have to go and wash off first? Those without experience of threesomes will miss some of the nuances that can so easily make it all go wrong.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1550718]Now you know you are dealing with a real master swordsman when you meet a guy like Tempoecorto, whom I shared an hour or two with last night in Calle Pedro Clisante, who drove into Sosua last night not to get laid, but to take a night off from fucking and enjoy a good Wiener Schnitzel. Now that is class![/QUOTE]Nonsense! If someones purpose is to be associated with class they wouldn't be in Sosua at all.

We all accept that there is nothing classy about being in the hottest trick spot in the Caribbean, we go there because its seedy. So to go there and not partake in the activities and brag about eating a hot dog could be considered lame by most master swordsmen.

[QUOTE=Frannie;1550718]enjoy a good Wiener Schnitzel.[/QUOTE]Yo Frannie!

I leave today, but next time I come to town I have a good Wiener Schnitzel that you might enjoy!:)

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational;1550691]LOL. You guys make picking up hookers so complicated. What has always worked for me is to grab one and say let's go.[/QUOTE]His style does seem slow, but I often wonder about the guys that hangout at the little bars were there's seemingly no action worth giving 10 seconds of attention. I say to myself "why are these guys sitting around here when all the action is up the road"? I can see myself passing Oakie at the almost empty bar as he is making casual conversion with the few chicas in there. I guess when you are mongering. You hunt in the forest that suits your style.

[QUOTE=GrownMan1;1550821]His style does seem slow, but I often wonder about the guys that hangout at the little bars were there's seemingly no action worth giving 10 seconds of attention. I say to myself "why are these guys sitting around here when all the action is up the road"? I can see myself passing Oakie at the almost empty bar as he is making casual conversion with the few chicas in there. I guess when you are mongering. You hunt in the forest that suits your style.[/QUOTE]I prefer to fish in the ocean with the most fish.