Some tips that have worked for me over the years.
(not sure this posted, if twice, my apologies).
Haven't posted for a long time, but after reading some recent comments, thought I'd toss out a few tips that have worked for me over the years. YMMV.
1. Never ask a waiter to bring you over a girl you've been eyeing. That's as good as saying that you'll gladly pay double, and she doesn't really have to work for it.
2. If there's a girl you really want to hit, scope out where she is and walk by her on the way to one of the bathrooms. Keep your eyes darting at all the other girls along the way. Meet her eyes for a quick second, but don't show any particular interest. On the way back from the bathroom, pass by her again, give her a tiny bit more eye contact and a tiny bit of a smile / acknowledgment, then take a seat fairly nearby. She'll come over (if she doesn't, she's probably just resting her pussy from the last encounter; try again a bit later).
3. Never offer to buy the girl a drink. Never. She will eventually ask you, or signal a waiter behind your back to ask you for her. Tell her / the waiter,"maybe later," but touching her when you say it and look into her eyes with a bit of a smile. 98% of the time, she will press her luck. That's when you begrudgingly give in. (BTW, me, personally, I almost never buy them drinks or try to get to know them. For the life of me, I can't understand why anyone would ever want to have a "conversation" with any of these girls. I'm there to have fun, and the last thing I'd want is some phony "GFE." Bad enough having to listen to regular chicks you actually LIKE). Or do what I do: cut to the chase and say "we'll get a drink later, let's go to the hotel." She feels like she's closed the deal with no effort, and is more likely to instead use a bit more effort with you upstairs to get you to become a regular.
4. Do your shopping at the stage. You'll spend less in a hour on tips than on one ficha drink, plus you get to check out the goods. I've avoided many a disappointment that way. If they don't give you a little pussy play for your $1, your mileage won't be up to your hopes when you give her $60 in the hotel. Plus she might be hiding an odorous surprise for you AFTER she has your money. If she does let you have a little play for your buck and gives you a big smile in the process, game on.
5. If I'm hot to trot, I'll usually just go right up to them after their set, or as the last tipper as they are about to get off the stage, and say something like "I like you" or "good show" or something equally lame, followed by "Let's go to the hotel?" I've NEVER once been turned down, and I'm old, ugly and have been doing this for 20+ years.
6. And here's where I differ from most guys on these forums: Don't talk money. Just take her upstairs. She will almost never ask about the amount or ask for payment upfront when you get upstairs. Why? Because she's seen you tip the girls on the stage and been right there with a buck for the guy who puts the robe on her at the door. She knows she's in for a payday without all the discussion that turns everyone off. And she knows you're into her because you cut right to it without all the chitchat. And you've had a hand on her waist / back all the way from the club to the room (this touch is important as "romance / chemistry" and helps make her feel that bringing up money will kill that.
7. Go right into it when you get to the room, holding her, kissing her neck, etc while undressing her and yourself (some girls like to clean up first, if so, get undressed immediately and go right up to them as they are toweling off). Again, we're putting her off any money talk.
8. When you're done, let her know "that was fun or great or whatever," but not too sincerely. Start getting dressed and ask her her name again, even if you remember it. Ask her if she's at HK during the week, weekends or when? You are letting her know that you'll be a repeat customer and that she doesn't need to make a fortune on just this one time. Once you're dressed and she is, slip a folded $60 (not $50 and not a bunch of fucking pesos you cheap cocksuckers) and kiss her again. Most of the time, they won't even check how much you gave them. Once you've planted the payment, open the door right away (because if she does check and feels it wasn't enough, she'll be more intimidated to bring it up "in public."). Have a buck ready for the poor bastard who has to clean up after you, again reinforcing that you're generous without actually being so.
9. Repeat.