Question For The Experienced Guys On Up-Front Negotiations
Hi all,
I will be visiting the Hong Kong late tonight (Thursday) and this weekend.
I much prefer my blow jobs uncovered. Do you ask about this up front, in the club, at the table etc. , or do you just roll the dice and hope for the best once in the room?
In all my previous visits, I have done a mixture of both, to experiment, see what's best.
My results were:
At the table, in the club, most girls said covered, some said fine BBBJ, but most said covered. Some said extra $25.
If I waited to in the room, I had mixed results here too. Some were fine with BBBJ, others insisted upon covered.
But my sample size is not huge. Just wondering what the more experienced folks do, what they have developed in this respect in terms of best practices.
I get the fact that it would be wise if we all were firm on BBBJ, negotiated up front, but sadly we (customers. Guys) are not a union, and the vast majority of folks in the club, picking up the girls for ariba, are not on this website comparing notes and best practices, so, need to be cognizant of that sad fact.
I'll take any and all advice and anecdotes and notes in this respect.
Thank you kindly in advance.
Theo.
Was there last Tuesday (and Monday).
This may not be appropriate to post in the "Tijuana Wine and Spirits Forum", but here goes:
Pretty good selection last Tuesday, as opposed to Monday, which was kind of slow. I like how they now have the door open to Chavelas at the far end of the club. I'm not sure if they have always had that area of Chavelas open because I never usually go in the other way.
Met a girl there and had a few drinks. Her body type was exactly what I like, young and skinny with long legs. She had decent tits for being so thin, and I'm fairly sure they were natural. She said she had only been working there two days, but that she had worked clubs in Mexico City. I had no reason to doubt this as I had never seen her before.
Conversation was nothing to write home about. She was pleasant but not overly affectionate. I went in for a kiss and she was like, "I can't kiss because of my braces. " Yeah, I've heard that one before. You ever get a girl who you are not getting the best signals from and yet you feel like you have to bite the bullet because she is exactly your type? Well, this was that girl.
We decided to head off to the room, and she must have been new because she tried to take me out the front door before she was stopped by a mesero who told ber to go through Chevalas. The session was unfortunately not to my liking. She only allowed light kissing and was too concerned about the condom, not only insisting on everything covered but then trying to adjust the damn thing the whole time. I really hate when they do that. It's not that she wasn't nice, she was. But it just isn't enough for a veteran like me, who is used to more.
One thing that bugged me was that had I brought two condoms to the room. She opened one and didn't like it. Then there was a problem with the other one, so I had to call the reception to get another, which is 5 bucks more and the damn condoms they sell you never fit. Between the stupid condom and her constant fidgitng with it, I new I was not going to finish and finally called it quits. There may once have been a time when I would try to just "pound one out", but nowadays I'm like, "I'll just find another girl: I'm wasting my time with this one. ".
Curiously, she starts to walk out of the room and I'm like, "don't you want your money, it's on the table?" I'm such a nice guy. I gave her 120. Even though we had not agreed upon a price, I don't like to have a reputation for being cheap, even when it's not a good session.
This ends my string of like 4 GFEs in a row. To use a baseball analogy: you can't always score a touchdown, sometimes you have to settle for a pair of free throws.
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[QUOTE=HKMonger;3007981]This may not be appropriate to post in the "Tijuana Wine and Spirits Forum", but here goes:
Pretty good selection last Tuesday, as opposed to Monday, which was kind of slow. I like how they now have the door open to Chavelas at the far end of the club. I'm not sure if they have always had that area of Chavelas open because I never usually go in the other way.
Met a girl there and had a few drinks. Her body type was exactly what I like, young and skinny with long legs. She had decent tits for being so thin, and I'm fairly sure they were natural. She said she had only been working there two days, but that she had worked clubs in Mexico City. I had no reason to doubt this as I had never seen her before.
Conversation was nothing to write home about. She was pleasant but not overly affectionate. I went in for a kiss and she was like, "I can't kiss because of my braces. " Yeah, I've heard that one before. You ever get a girl who you are not getting the best signals from and yet you feel like you have to bite the bullet because she is exactly your type? Well, this was that girl.
We decided to head off to the room, and she must have been new because she tried to take me out the front door before she was stopped by a mesero who told ber to go through Chevalas. The session was unfortunately not to my liking. She only allowed light kissing and was too concerned about the condom, not only insisting on everything covered but then trying to adjust the damn thing the whole time. I really hate when they do that. It's not that she wasn't nice, she was. But it just isn't enough for a veteran like me, who is used to more.
One thing that bugged me was that had I brought two condoms to the room. She opened one and didn't like it. Then there was a problem with the other one, so I had to call the reception to get another, which is 5 bucks more and the damn condoms they sell you never fit. Between the stupid condom and her constant fidgitng with it, I new I was not going to finish and finally called it quits. There may once have been a time when I would try to just "pound one out", but nowadays I'm like, "I'll just find another girl: I'm wasting my time with this one. ".
Curiously, she starts to walk out of the room and I'm like, "don't you want your money, it's on the table?" I'm such a nice guy. I gave her 120. Even though we had not agreed upon a price, I don't like to have a reputation for being cheap, even when it's not a good session.
This ends my string of like 4 GFEs in a row. To use a baseball analogy: you can't always score a touchdown, sometimes you have to settle for a pair of free throws.[/QUOTE]Don't take this the wrong way, but you've done a nice job of providing detailed guidance to noobs on everything not to do. You willfully ignored every the session is going to suck signal, but I get it man when you drained 4 threes in a row sometimes you chuck up a 5th as a heat check.
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[QUOTE=HKMonger;3007981]
Conversation was nothing to write home about. She was pleasant but not overly affectionate. I went in for a kiss and she was like, "I can't kiss because of my braces. " Yeah, I've heard that one before. You ever get a girl who you are not getting the best signals from and yet you feel like you have to bite the bullet because she is exactly your type? Well, this was that girl.
[/QUOTE]Check if you are not ugly like this guy in the pic. .
Directions from HK to Sentri Lane
Hi folks,
I received my global entry / sentri stuff sorted, including registering the car.
Is there a recommended direction to get to the sentri lanes, from HK?
Thanks in advance!
Does this look about right?
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