Cultural misunderstandings occur in sex too
[QUOTE=Great Guy]....At last, she took off the towel and massage technician jacket and proceeded with a bit more HJ and then, after applying the condom, started some Cowgirl action. This didn't seem to be getting me anywhere so, after 3 or 4 minutes of that, I turned her over and got into missionary position. But first I tried a bit of DATY and found that she wasn't very receptive to that (putting a hand in my way). So I proceeded with the main activity and quickly found that she wouldn't let me raise both her legs at the same time. (Perhaps I should point out that I'm 6 ft. Tall, and she is probably barely 5 ft. , so maybe she was a bit worried about the depth of penetration.) I tried "doggie-style" and she seemed more receptive to that, but I was getting the impression that she wasn't really enjoying it. She seemed to have that "serious. Just doing my job" attitude, although she was quite nice about it. We continued with alternating missionary and doggie for awhile, but the serious attitude and "only one leg up" things kept me from really getting into it. So I stopped and let her give me a HJ for a bit, until I could tell that wasn't working either, and I suggested we just finish up by my giving her a massage. There was only about 10 minutes left, anyhow.....[/QUOTE]DATY in Thailand is something only farangs like to do. This kind of thing is considered 'dirty' in Thailand. And many Thai ladies, professional or not, never become comfortable with it.But Thai ladies are quite receptive to well-lubricated hand-to-pussy massage. Which is essentially the same thing as DATY, except you do it with your hand and not with your mouth.Also, many Thai ladies expect their man to be 'strong'. Which means that they expect their man to make the fist move, when it comes to having sex. And when a man doesn't make any such move on the lady after a whole hour of her massaging him. Then to her this looks like either he doesn't like her that much. Or he is a 'weak' man. Which is a big turn off for her.I think you would've had a much better experience with Far, if you had gone after her sexually right from the beginning. And if you had put some lubricating lotion on your hand and masturbated her for a while to help her get into the mood.You have to realize that not all massage ladies are trained to understand western men and their ways. And doing it only the western way in a foreign country is bound to result in a lot of cultural misunderstandings. As the saying goes, when in Rome do as Romans do. And this applies to any foreign place. You will have much better experiences in Thailand, if you try to understand Thai ways and do with Thai ladies the way they feel most comfortable with.Perhaps at Tulip Massage, the Thai ladies are trained well to understand western ways of having sex. But there is no reason why you can't have good experience with Thai ladies all over the place, if you learn to understand their ways.
Puffy nipples massage lady
Here is an example of conical (puffy) nipples massage lady I'd like to go with.[url]http://www.wowasian.com/images/potd/june_piya.jpg[/url]One frustrating thing about choosing massage ladies. Is that they all hide their tits. And there is no way for a guy to know just how attractive the lady's tits are until he takes her out for a massage. If anyone in this forum has met a massage lady with conical nipples similar to the example I gave above. I certainly would like to know where to find her.Her massage skills don't matter to me. It's her tits I'd like to play with for a while.
I found a Gem in Chinatown!
I usually hang out around Sukhumvit or at the massage parlors near Huai Khwang or Phetchaburi. But last night I decided to try something different, so I headed to Chinatown to check out a couple of massage parlors there, Cleopatra and Texas. I wasn't expecting much since I thought these were second or third level places (compared to parlors like La Belle, Utopia, Nataree, Colonze 2, etc.). And perhaps they are, but my trip turned out to be much more rewarding than I thought it would be.First, I stopped at Cleopatra (about a 5 minute walk from the Hua Lampong MRT station). I found a rather interesting fishbowl (with about 10 girls in it) where, rather than the usual large window or just a large opening, it was sort of like looking through portholes at the girls inside. The girls didn't look all that bad. I would say they ranged from 6's to 8's. But none of them really caught my interest, so I decided to move on to Texas (not the state of Texas, of course, but the Texas MP, about another 6 or 8 minute walk). I wanted to see what Texas looked like anyhow. Texas is a little bit tricky to find if you haven't been there before. (Let me know if you want more detailed directions.) There I found a more normal fishbowl with about 8 girls inside and a couple of side-liners outside. Papasan Lou (nice guy) told me the fishbowl girls were 1500 Baht (for 2 hours) and they looked better to me than the sideliners so I didn't ask the price for those. I would rate the fishbowl girls from 7's to 9's. At least there was one 9-rated one and I chose her (Ying, no. 10).Ying is quite cute, perhaps a bit older. Maybe in her late 20's. But very nice to look at. She's rather petite but has nice, natural C-cup breasts. And she has a very nice personality and attitude. She speaks very limited English, but we got along just fine with my limited Thai and a bit of sign-language.I was quite impressed with the room compared to my lower expectations. It wasn't as luxurious as at some of the Huai Khwang/Petch parlors, but it was of moderate size (rather than being cramped) and had a nice tub. Ying had me in the tub within about 5 minutes and started a very thorough washing along with a much-above-average quality massage. I suspect she must have had some genuine massage training since her technique was great. I was beginning to like her more and more.Then, before the first 30 minutes were up, it was off to the bed where she started with a bit of a nice "cat-bath" leading up to a good BBBJ (and her technique was great in this regard, too. Really great). She soon had me ready for the main course (meaning I certainly couldn't hold off for much longer) which began with some very energetic cowgirl action. Then I flipped her over and began a nice DATY session for which she seemed quite receptive. It was then on to various positions alternating with more DATY (and I think the DATY brought her to "the Big O" at least once if not twice). Suffice it to say that the two hours passed very quickly, and actually I lost track of the time but I think we may have ended up with a bit more than two hours (a VERY pleasant two hours or a bit more).All in all, I was VERY much impressed with my time at Texas and with Ying. Both certainly exceeded my expectations and I'm definitely going back. Great value for the money. I would say that this session surpassed many (in fact, most) I've had at the bigger, more famous, parlors. Both Ying and Lou deserved, and received, a nice tip.In short (if it's not too late for that): I found a Gem in Chinatown! Great Guy[size=-2][b][u]EDITOR'S NOTE[/u]:[/b] [blue]I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please [url=http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?]Click Here[/url] for more information.[/blue][/size]
