I am not a frequent guest at sharks or Oase, and girls keep asking me if it was my first time. However, I have not experienced continuous unwelcome advances from the girls either. Yes, every once in a while a girl comes over and says Hi, but that's fine. I would much rather have them come to me and I can take a closer look to decide. Generally the lights are somewhat dimmed, I don't have perfect 20/20 and sometimes a girl that looks hot from far is not so when her face is 2 inches from yours, so it helps if she comes to you and says Hi. Yes, you can go to her and introduce yourself and chat as well, but when you approach them they have a higher expectation that you will session with them. So I prefer it the other way.
Also, the simplest way to deter advances is to look away. It may be rude but is effective. Girls are always making rounds. As she comes walking closer to you, if you keep looking at her and in the eye, and perhaps smile at her, of course she will assume you have some interest. Why would you be shocked that she then comes and asks for a session? Nothing signals your disinterest in a stronger way than you turning head and looking away as she comes walking towards you. If I have interest for future sessions, I will look at her discretely and after she walked past me.
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1596025]Approaching a guest is not forbidden. Somes girls do and some don't. The most aggressive girl I experienced was Selin who keeps trying even though I never sessioned. Nathi (Erica of World) keeps trying but not too aggressively. Overall girls would approach me less than at Oase, and even less than at World. In my opinion, Sharks has the most very polite girls. However my face being well known reduces the approaches. Also acting aloof and not catching girls' eyes helps to reduce approaches. I also like the wide open spaces at Sharks. In my experience the most aggressive girls are at Palace, and Mainhatten is 2nd for approach frequency, in my opinion.
Other guys seem to have a difference experience at Sharks, with girls approaching more frequently. I am not sure why. Perhaps they are giving the girl the wrong look.
Fending off girls in attack mode, is not my favourite sport, regardless of the club, unless they are stunning (only a small percentage). LOL. I like to exaggerate a little.[/QUOTE]
