Philosophical Opinions...
Carlos said:
"You've been called "Coqueto" (Coqueta aplies to girls)... but in that instance they are not using the word a flirt but as a guy that just goes for any girl. I know cause I have been called that and many other adjectives.
R girl is working at El Cielo right now. And sorry to tell you, but R girl is so good in faking it...."
Sure, with respect to their use of the word "Coqueto," I realized they are all calling me a "butterfly." Hahaha, as if they are "loyal to us." Fact is, there is probably no word in the English language that means the same thing as the Spanish word. Regardless, at least they are always smiling, or acting out a false anger when they use the word, using it more in a playful sense. They aren't using the word in a hostile manner with me.
With respect to the "R" girl, she is a great actress. But, she is consistently great at her job, with very little discernable evidence of insincerity. I realize she is merely putting on airs to earn more money. But, she is fun and enjoyable in the process, so I give her credit.
But, you are right about one thing. Having known her over the course of several salidas a couple of years ago, and also having known her now for several years, I no longer desire to take her on salida. I find it more enjoyable just bantering with her in the club, perhaps sometimes not even taking her into the privados for months on end.
I can tell that she is disappointed that she is not earning my salida money any more, and she has an almost undiscernable air of melancholy when she is with me on the rare occassions that I do take her in the privados. It's like she realizes that she has lost me as a paying client. It is very difficult to detect this in her demeanor because she is such a good actress, but it is, none-the-less, an "emotion" and "disappointment" that is there.
I don't know if it's legitimate feeling of loss for sentimental reasons, or jealousy that I am skipped over her, or totally financial, or what...I mean, the girl is busy 24/7, whenever she is working, so losing USB as a client is not something that is effecting her income stream. She has sooooooo many clients that the numbers must be staggering. So, I speculate that it's a combination of all reasons I sited, but regardless, I do sense a remorseful kind of sadness in her demeanor, founded in her realization that there is nothing between us, not even financial, when she is with me in the privados.
I did give her a cheap Walmart bottle of Charlie perfume at Christmas, just to be a nice guy, and I instructed her to rub it all over you (Carlos) the next chance she gets-NOT!!! :-)
Anyway, when I gave her this little bottle of perfume, wrapped in festive Christmas paper with a little bow, she looked at me quizically as if to ask, "why me, USB." It was like she had all but given up on my ever taking her on salida again, that she knew we were not seeing each other, and that I was never really patronizing her much. She knew I had lost interest in "That." I just told her it is because she is my friend, and I like her. She just kind of marveled at my statement, thanked me, with a sad look in her eyes, and hugging me tightly, called me her "Amor." hahahaha!!!
Now...with respect to the "bb" comments, barebacking is almost the norm in Asia. I am NOT the individual that Carlos refers to as the "guy who was barebacking in Asia" when talking with the girls because, usually, I do not bareback the girls in Monterrey, nor have I visited Asia for well over a year.
I am in agreement with Carlos, and I DO try to be more responsible these days. But, frankly, there was a time when....well, lets just say there was a time when I was less cautious. My strategy in Asia, if choosing to bareback in the past, was always to choose, and stick with, a lesser number of girls.
My method of operation when choosing to bareback in Asia was always to choose a girl, stay with her for several days, and to limit my "butterflying tendencies." During time when I butterflied, I would always use condoms. But, I must also point out that, over the course of several excursions to Asia myself, I have never contracted a thing. However, I also employed the use of antibiotic cocktails at the appropriate times to mitigate any potential for disaster.
I know a lot of guys that bareback girls in Asia all the time. Barebacking in Asia is more common than not. Most of the guys I know eventually catch something, usually nothing too serious, but it doesn't take long. Most of them are into having "orgy like/porn star" group sex experiences, so their potential for disaster escelates markedly compared to my own former strategy in Asia. My strategy was consciously and calculatingly planned to be significantly more conservative for health reasons already stated, in order to statistically reduce my potential for problems.
But, my personal opinion about barebacking in Monterrey is that, in Monterrey, because of the health requirements in place, if one were foolish enough to bareback them, there is probably no venue on earth where the safety factor is as rigorous, due to their weekly health checks, than in Monterrey. So, to compare Monterrey to Asia is a falicy. They are not comparable venues, not in almost every sense of the word.
In addition, barebacking a girl in Monterrey is infinitely safer than barebacking anything you will find on the streets or in the clubs of the US. There is NO health standard established in the US because everything IS EXTREMELY ILLEGAL. Mexico is a much safer venue than the US. Wonders never cease...
These are NOT statements meant to endorse Barebacking...but merely a fact when comparing Worldwide venues. I do NOT advocate barebacking hookers, or even barebacking random girlfriends for that matter.
I see little reason for the girls to assume that just because they are barebacking a guy from the US, that their risk factor is less. I believe they choose to bareback for other reasons, sentimental, affection, sincere sexual desire, and of course, probably the most influential reason of all, to solidify a relationship for future income stream. But, the reasons they choose to permit a client to bareback them don't really matter.
If we are trying to make a point about the foolishness of barebacking them, then I believe the following has to be pointed out...
Whether girls are barebacking "JOHNS" or barebacking the food cart vender on the corner, I see little argument that because of the Mexicanos (class) they are choosing to bareback, versus a decision to bareback a high rolling permiscuous mongering type from San Pedro, they are in any less danger of contracting a disease.
Frankly, I am more concerned with the "mongering hords" that she is potentially barebacking, the ones that enjoy the "orgy like" experiences of multiple venues and muliple women, versus my concern over the waiter, peanut vendor, flower vendor, or food cart vendor she is choosing to bareback.
In other words, I believe that for them, choosing to bareback, with all their oportunity available, it is extremely risky venture regardless of class. For that reason, I believe that most of them DO NOT generally bareback...novios yes, but average clients, no.
If she has a tendency to bareback, then I just see no correlation between her having levels of concern over the class status of the guy she is barebacking when comparing it to the condomless permiscuity of most of the mongers that she might choose to bareback that are just her routine clients.
To me, the "depraved professional mongerer" is as much a health risk, which includes most of the guys coming down to Monterrey from the US, a venue that has NO stop gap health measures established. But, in this sense, maybe Carlos is right, that the girls just don't realize the equality of danger compared to barebacking their novios, and lower class clients.
But, my experience in Monterrey is that MOST of the girls are pretty careful, usually demanding condoms be used. Obviously, the offer to bareback them comes with increased familiarity. But, initially, most of the girls are pretty conservative that way.
[QUOTE=Carlos Perez]
"This may be true to an extent, but I doubt it is true that they bare back too many others."
I am so dissapointed that this comment keeps coming back to the board.
I have not BB a working girl since the late 80's and Iam not planning to do it in the near future.
Why? I have 2 takes on this.
1. And I want to stress that I do not want to offend anyone from any country coming down here, but many visitors to this city are coming down here thinking in the same terms of SEA, that Monterrey is rich in pristine pussy. And I do know a couple of guys from another forum that posted that "Monterrey is the BB capital of Mexico". Worse part is that the girls stupidly think that these nonMexicans are "cleaner" than us locals. And WOW, are they mistaken. Me, I just can't go open my mouth and tell them that the guy you just saw and BB you, just came from an extensive tour of SEA and I read what this guy just did. This is not a question if the girls do or do not BB you. It is a matter WHO BB thems when you do not see.
PS on #1... you guys think that I have never been proposed to do it sans condom by the girls??? Of course they have!!!
2. Again, the same old song. You guys do not see the kind of trash the girls mess with. I liked one of the I place girls a lot (from a distance), but one day I found out who her boyfriend was: the guy that sells candy and nuts from bar to bar. You think Iam gonna touch that girl now... NOPE![/QUOTE]
Pocket Rocket Certification...
Do I need a license for my pocket rocket...it IS a dangerous and deadly weapon, verdad?
[QUOTE=Carlos Perez]Now that the Federales are doing rounds, please carry your ID and nothing else.[/QUOTE]
Amor IS definitely in the air...
Here is a blow by blow, cum shot by cum shot, "porn orgy" report of my exploits last night, and my plans for Sunday...Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!
Amor is definitely in the air...but,
the air is seperated by 100's of miles.
Both my flights yesterday were cancelled. When they cancelled the second flight, after having driven an hour each way to get there each time, I was not optomistic that the third flight they were wanting to book me on would actually fly.
They had already cancelled the flight from Dallas to Laredo, and I wasn't sure I would be able to make it all the way down to Laredo after connecting in Dallas. There was only one flight left yesterday night between Dallas and Laredo, and that one arrived in Laredo so late, not to mention to potential that it too might be cancelled, that I decided I didn't want to waste my hotel funds on a stay in the fair city of Dallas, so I opted out. The weather here and in Dallas was really bad yesterday. There were very high winds in both locations, and the storm system that was in the central US was grounding flight everywhere.
I just decided to rebook it for Monday. I will spend Sunday on the home front, which is fine with me. I always enjoy my weekends here at home anyway. I have a routine on the weekends here when I am in town that I enjoy, going out for lunch and dinner, time to work out, computer time, etc...so, I am perfectly content with the circumstances at this juncture.
American Airlines sucks the Big One!!! They did not call to notify me that both flights had been cancelled until I had driven to the airport, checked in, and then learned shortly after checkin that the flights had been cancelled. They only saw fit to call me for the first cancellation, literally only calling me 45 minutes prior to the flight's scheduled departure. BASTARDS!!!! :-)
So, while I was initially pissed at the circumstances, and the effort that I had gone through yesterday in trying to catch a flight out, upon calm reflection, I decided that I would have preferred to arrive Monday night anyway. As you know, I don't particularly care for weekend nights in the clubs. So, arriving Monday night is preferable to me.
Fact is, I would have initially booked my flight, if the fare and schedule had been better, probably for Sunday. But, the fares were better on Saturday for some reason back in October when I booked the original flight.
Many times I have booked for a Sunday in the past, which is a perfectly fine day in the clubs as well, even though they are sometimes a little understaffed. But, otherwise I like Sundays because the girls are less distracted by the hords of Mexicanos in the clubs. The girls are typically much more available for a cut-rate, USB "cheapo," long time salida.
But, in this instance, when I went to rebook the flight, had I taken Sunday's flight, I would have arrived in MTY around 1am after catching a bus out of Laredo around 10:30pm.
I just decided that 1am, at least for this old man ;-), is just a little too late to be getting started. So, I figured that to be arriving that late in Monterrey is just a waste of funds (ie: the hotel room cost.). Plus, I also realized that if I arrived that late, "G" would have been long gone from the Infinito and on her bus enroute to her Casa, a couple of hours away. So, Monday was much more preferable. I expect to arrive Monday night around 10pm if there are no delays with the flight this time.
As for "G" we were texting back an forth last night so I could let her know my circumstances. She seemed disappointed that I would not be making it, asking me "por que, corazon? :-(" But, she said she would be dutifully waiting for me to arrive on Monday night. But, I do NOT feel sorry for her, as I am sure she probably got her share of sex in the privados, right??? hahahaha :-)
Unfortuantely for her, she is looking for much more than sex, or money, and she will have to demean herself in the privados Saturday and Sunday night without the actual relief she is looking for.
She wants a healthy measure of actual USB amor and emotional nurturing, all of which I will provide her in exchange for the most heart-felt GFE "SEXCAPADE" one could hope for.
[QUOTE=Wastedgman]Wit your G girl? Love is in the air or what?
Wasted[/QUOTE]