One trick pony ride or long term?
The issues about newbies asking or some senior members call it taking and not investing or giving reminds me of what must go on in some providers mind. The one trick pony rider (newbie) comes in blazing, wants it now and cheap with maybe a promise to provide something later. The provider is wondering why should I do this, I don't know you and you haven't really brought anything to the table. Nothing invested, not even a Hello, - how are you doing? Just give me what I want and see you later.
I can see both sides of the issues. It is kind of insulting when a newbie (especially if unpaid) says this is an information board, so just give it to me! The senior paid up members says FU, do your homework and contribute to the board or at least join. Kinda like telling the girl I have paid the BF now spread them. Even though this board is about getting fu*k, no one wants to feel like they got a fu*king.
I think there needs to be a little more romancing between the parties and maybe a softer touch.