How to win a civvie. My playbook
1. willingness to hear her crap and sob story.
2. all round knowledge for a meaningful conversation.
3. witt & humor.
4. money in pocket, not be stingy, got to spend as nothing comes for free.
5. look sharp and smell nice, take care of oral and personal hygiene.
And remember if its not her then there is someone else in the waiting, don't play horny or too desperate.
[QUOTE=OffshoreSwell;3020463]
Here's a tip. Floss your teeth, lose the beer belly, smile like you mean it, dress nicely and relax. There are some magnificent experiences to be had in Jakarta where those little hotties can be writhing in pleasure. But standing there interviewing the girls like King Pring is highly unlikely to get you there. Whether you like it or not, attraction is still part of the chemistry even in these places.[/QUOTE]