Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

I am wondering how can you be completely honest and straightforward on your intentions on dating or social sites like Dateinsia-Tagged etc… Most Filipina girls here are seemingly looking only after serious-long term relationships. One of the most recurrent sentences is against the “men who play games”.
Do you specify anyway directly on your profile that you are interested only on short term or friends with benefits kind of relations? In this case, does it not reduce dramatically your answer’s rate, if you get any answers at all?
I would be very grateful if great freebies specialists like freebiefan and others could give some advices on this question.
Cheers

[QUOTE=Dodger Bulldog]My comments were related to the girl's willful act to hook up with a stranger, which Nightrider has now acknowledged.


As to the importance of "virginity," I consider it to be a very elastic concept.

I think back to a story a friend once told me.

She was on her first date with a man, who quite impertinently demanded to know if she still had her virginity.

"I only date virgins," he said.

"You better date someone else," she replied. "Because I lost mine when I was two years old, to my grandfather."

DB[/QUOTE]

maybe a stupid question: with the modern medicine, is it possible to get the virginity after a woman lost it?

[QUOTE=Chocha Monger] Most men die without ever tasting one.[/QUOTE]


You know my first virgin when I think back on it I really didn’t think it was such a big deal. Some blood some squirming on her part. Only she was an American college educated woman with more money than my black ass had ever seen at that time.

I use to think virgins didn’t exist in Philippines( I even nicknamed them Unicorns as they were talked about but I had never seen one and I have been around) as these girls start fucking young and they are very sexual beings but since I have started slowly making my way away from the bar scene I have came across a few.

Some religious freaks and some just intelligent and stubborn. One in particular a teacher from Manila. I have continually turned her away as I know I have nothing to offer her in longevity. Today she even asked "why you keep pushing me away." When I told her maybe we should we just remain friends. LOL

[QUOTE=Sponsor74]maybe a stupid question: with the modern medicine, is it possible to get the virginity after a woman lost it?[/QUOTE]

It's a very valid question. The is no such thing as a stupid question - and as such, you deserve an answer.

I think the Ancient Egyptians, the ones with the pyramids, perfected the procedure to restore virginity. They did it to keep the sand out. Apparently getting sand in your vagina is not a pleasant thing. I got this information from the Discovery Channel. You never know when the information will be useful.

It was a common procedure back then and it still is.

I am surprised you are not aware of it, I see many more restore virginity clinics in my city than I do optometrists for example. Just open your eyes. The procedure is safe, simple, effective and less expensive than you might imagine.

I was married to a Chinese lady for nearly 5 years and I encouraged my wife to restore her virginity at least once a month. In fact, our marriage came apart when she refused to restore her virginity. I just don't want to have sex with a non-virgin married woman.

It is too disgusting to consider having sex with her anymore after she refused the procedure.

Yellow Fever

[QUOTE=Yellow Fever #2]

I was married to a Chinese lady for nearly 5 years and I encouraged my wife to restore her virginity at least once a month. In fact, our marriage came apart when she refused to restore her virginity. I just don't want to have sex with a non-virgin married woman.

It is too disgusting to consider having sex with her anymore after she refused the procedure.

Yellow Fever[/QUOTE]

Surely you jest ! !

ES

[QUOTE=Sponsor74]maybe a stupid question: with the modern medicine, is it possible to get the virginity after a woman lost it?[/QUOTE]
No. Once a woman has been soiled by a dick her virginity cannot be restored. Her hymen can be repaired but that is not synonymous with virginity. It's like taking a used car and refurbishing it. You can call it certified pre-owned or whatever but you can never call it "new." So a skilled plastic surgeon can stitch a woman's hymen back on after it's been busted open but she is not a virgin. Of course, you can bust the repaired hymen open again and the sensation may be somewhat similar to that of an original hymen but you're not getting her virginity. You can't reverse time. There can only be one first time.

Busting a fake hymen can't be compared to popping a real virgin's cherry because all of the emotions of seeing a dick for the first time, the exhilaration, the potent rush of endorphins mingled with the surge of adrenaline will be absent. And, of course, she wouldn't remember you forever as her first because you're not. You can't have the same feeling of going where no man has ever gone before like Captain Kirk because it's all phony. Also, some cultures believe that when a woman has sex for the first time her pussy releases a blast of cosmic energy capable of conferring health and other rejuvenating effects on the man who pops the cherry. A false cherry wouldn't emit this life force according to these mystics.

My written arguments are based on Merriam-Webster's definitions below.

virgin:

1: free of impurity or stain : unsullied: chaste: characteristic of or befitting a virgin : modest: fresh, unspoiled ; specifically : not altered by human activity <a virgin forest> (1): being used or worked for the first time (2)of a metal : produced directly from ore by primary smelting b: initial, first of a vegetable oil : obtained from the first light pressing and without heating: containing no alcohol <a virgin daiquiri>

I especially like "not altered by human activity" and "being used or fucked for the first time." I hope that answers your question. ;)

[QUOTE=Yellow Fever #2]It's a very valid question.

I think the Ancient Egyptians, the ones with the pyramids perfected the procedure to restore virginity. They did it to keep the sand out. Apparently getting sand in your vagina is not a pleasant thing. I got this information from the Discovery Channel. You never know when the information will be useful.

It was a common procedure back then and it still is.

I am surprised you are not aware of it, I see many more restore virginity clinics in my city than I do optometrists for example. Just open your eyes. The procedure is safe, simple, effective and less expensive than you might imagine.

I was married to a Chinese lady for nearly 5 years and I encouraged my wife to restore her virginity at least once a month. In fact, our marriage came apart when she refused to restore her virginity. I just don't want to have sex with a non-virgin married woman.

It is too disgusting to consider having sex with her anymore after she refused the procedure.

Yellow Fever[/QUOTE]

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YF was just about get my monger sleep until I read your post.

All I have to say …….

Are you fucking serious!

[QUOTE=Illogic]You know my first virgin when I think back on it I really didn’t think it was such a big deal. Some blood some squirming on her part. Only she was an American college educated woman with more money than my black ass had ever seen at that time. [/QUOTE]
I'm sure it was a big deal for her and that she still holds a special place in her memories for you. Anthropologists believe that human females developed a hymen as test of confidence for males. In essence, the woman had to trust you enough to hold still long enough to let you bust her open because of the pain and effort involved. The man also got some reassurance that he was the first to nut in there giving him some confidence that the resulting offspring was his since no DNA tests existed at the time. Hence, the ages old obsession of chiefs, kings and emperors with virgins. They didn't want someone else's bastard inheriting the throne.

[QUOTE=Illogic][url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=troll[/url]

YF was just about get my monger sleep until I read your post.

All I have to say …….

Are you fucking serious![/QUOTE]
I think he's serious. I had a friend who asked his wife's obstetrician to put some extra stitches in her pussy after the birth of their last child. :D

[QUOTE=Yellow Fever #2]It's a very valid question. The is no such thing as a stupid question - and as such, you deserve an answer.

I think the Ancient Egyptians, the ones with the pyramids, perfected the procedure to restore virginity. They did it to keep the sand out. Apparently getting sand in your vagina is not a pleasant thing. I got this information from the Discovery Channel. You never know when the information will be useful.

It was a common procedure back then and it still is.

I am surprised you are not aware of it, I see many more restore virginity clinics in my city than I do optometrists for example. Just open your eyes. The procedure is safe, simple, effective and less expensive than you might imagine.

I was married to a Chinese lady for nearly 5 years and I encouraged my wife to restore her virginity at least once a month. In fact, our marriage came apart when she refused to restore her virginity. I just don't want to have sex with a non-virgin married woman.

It is too disgusting to consider having sex with her anymore after she refused the procedure.

Yellow Fever[/QUOTE]

Thanks a lot for your answer!!!! I have a young lover in Ukraine she is now 21 but we are having sex since she was 18 and really a good lover but in the last times I realize she is maybe oversexed and not the same feeling as before when I penetrate her, I have also heard that the are somen body excersizes to reduce this feeling. Maybe I am too inocent with these questions but for me is nice to have these youndg women howver the times are changing and the young women are fucking more than maybe more than we all. I am not willing to chaqnge into anal sex for hygiene reasons and still prefer the pussy BUT virgings not in my expectations now in these modern times

[QUOTE=Eaglestar]Surely you jest ! !

ES[/QUOTE]

Gesh...this guy's a loose cannon!

Virginity restored!? - it really has to be a stitch up, hasn't it?

Anyway, welcome to the Philippine Forum ...Borat;).

[QUOTE=Dodger Bulldog]I totally disagree with everything said in this post. Who are you to tell anyone how old his partner should be?
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To judge any relationship based on age comes across as very arrogant and narrow minded.
DB[/QUOTE]

Dear DB,
there still is a difference between 20 years age difference and 48 years. At least for my definition of love an age gap of more than 30 years can not come along with real love - it will always be a decision based on economical criteria.
Do you really think the 18year old girl is eager to touch and kiss the wrinkled old skin of a 66 year old guy?? One in a million, yes. She does it for money, nothing else.
And what in 10 years? When he already lost all his teeth and needs Pampers whereas she's 28? Ridiculous.
Shamuc

[QUOTE=Sponsor74]maybe a stupid question: with the modern medicine, is it possible to get the virginity after a woman lost it?[/QUOTE]

No, but you can have the box it came in.

[QUOTE=Shamuc]Dear DB,
there still is a difference between 20 years age difference and 48 years. At least for my definition of love an age gap of more than 30 years can not come along with real love - it will always be a decision based on economical criteria.
Do you really think the 18year old girl is eager to touch and kiss the wrinkled old skin of a 66 year old guy?? One in a million, yes. She does it for money, nothing else.
And what in 10 years? When he already lost all his teeth and needs Pampers whereas she's 28? Ridiculous.
Shamuc[/QUOTE]
I'm not trying to start a war here, but I do wonder where you get the right to pass judgment on the relationships of others? These are both consenting adults, and the basis for their relationship, or the fact that they have a relationship at all is simply none of your business.
GE