Avoiding disappointment and frustration
I have to agree. A lot of guys come down here having over planned and over invested a lot of energy into unknowns. I did it too. It's a swing reaction. Overcompensating for being starved and not wanting to waste a moment while here on the ground. Guys self sabotage by simply being too hungry and awkwardly fucking up the whole vibe with a chica who might normally be very cool.
Your plan should be.
Go to a casa first. The best way to quickly clear your heads! Plenty of choices. Very economical. Disappointment factor is low although you may spend a few hours walking around until you find someone you like. (far less than the hours and hours of chatting and self delusion) But you will put yourself at ease and in a clearer mindset for other adventures.
Set up dates with vetted chicas. Plenty of solid reviews here. Find one who catches your eye and try to be clear about what you want to do with her. You will be surprised how receptive and accommodating the girls can be. Do not fool yourself that you are tapping into some undiscovered diamond mine. None of them are new to the scene. You are the one who is new.
Facebook: If you want to save yourself hours of online chatting, hoping for an unknown to show, $150 plus taxi money, work smart and set up multiple coffee / lunch dates with girls at a nearby bar or coffee shop. Double book because you know flake factor is high! Tell them you are very busy or have a commitment later that day, so if they are going to be late, you cannot wait. You can make your negotiations prior but the worst case if they show up 100 cheeseburgers more than their photos LOL, you give them cab money if you don't see sparks. Best case, take them back to your place and romparound for hours.
And of course, there are plenty of guys down here like myself with a lot of experience, who like to hang out, check out places you might not want to go alone and in a friendly way can help you avoid a lot of frustration and keep your train on its tracks chugging along smoothly. Kind of like a personal trainer at your gym. You just get a lot more out of your time.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1965315]Medellin is great. You must be doing something wrong. You did countless hours of bullshit so-called internet preparation (Tinder, lying to hoes, etc) to have a shitty time? Better look at the man in the mirror. Maybe they are seeing something in you that you don't know they are seeing. Why would you bring a chick back without getting a price first? Then give her 50 fucking K to leave? You can get a session downtown for less than that. Cartagena is way more expensive than Medellin. Prepare yourself for even more of a shit show if you saw Medellin that way.[/QUOTE]
Medellin during the Christmas to New Year week
Is there any mongering activity during the Christmas to New Year Week in Medellin? Or is it a total shutdown during this week? Anyone know of any clubs or casas or other mongering spots that remain open during this week? Will hotel Mansion be open and have any girls during this Week?
I am assuming Dec. 24 and 25 will probably be a total shutdown. But do some places open from Dec. 26?
Please share your experiences / knowledge of time during this week.