Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Robbaf]I got a friend who was messing around and put a ad on DIA stating that he is an old millionaire who is lonely and wants to give all his money away before he dies. He ask any girl who wanted to go to school, needed money for mother, father, sister, brother or cousins, or if they needed money for a carabao heart transplant, ladyboys who wanted to have implants and on and on.

His ad is so unbelievable that he thought that he would not get one message. He got 200 in 36 hours:D OIP (Only in the Philippines)

Robb[/QUOTE]

For sure all of them thought that it was 99% chance bullshit, but to copy and paste a message and hit send costs about 0.1 peso and so if you think its a more than 0.0001 % chance its true then it makes sense to hit that send. And more than 0.0001% of Americans are completely crazy for sure

[QUOTE=Robbaf]I got a friend who was messing around and put a ad on DIA stating that he is an old millionaire who is lonely and wants to give all his money away before he dies. He ask any girl who wanted to go to school, needed money for mother, father, sister, brother or cousins, or if they needed money for a carabao heart transplant, ladyboys who wanted to have implants and on and on.

His ad is so unbelievable that he thought that he would not get one message. He got 200 in 36 hours:D OIP (Only in the Philippines)

Robb[/QUOTE]Well, that post was no more unbelievable than a hot 18-year-old girl wanting to marry a 60-year-old man "for love" or claiming that "age doesn't matter." Sometimes people like to believe the fantasy, even when is unbelievable.

Ouch...

There are those of us who believe the fantasy for the fun of it (the so-called gfe), and there are those who swallow the hook, line and sinker. (fishing analogy)

Oh, wait, there are some who criticize us cranky old men for taking advantage of the poor innocent gals who demand "serious" men up to 70. Thanks Radical Guy for the smelling salts.

How's YOUR search? X



[QUOTE=Radical Guy]Well, that post was no more unbelievable than a hot 18-year-old girl wanting to marry a 60-year-old man "for love" or claiming that "age doesn't matter." Sometimes people like to believe the fantasy, even when is unbelievable.[/QUOTE]

Point taken, but some of those ladies were intelligent enought to get the joke and were hoping to meet someone with a sense of humor.

Can the original poster share some of the replies....that WOULD be interesting. X

[QUOTE=GregLondon]For sure all of them thought that it was 99% chance bullshit, but to copy and paste a message and hit send costs about 0.1 peso and so if you think its a more than 0.0001 % chance its true then it makes sense to hit that send. And more than 0.0001% of Americans are completely crazy for sure[/QUOTE]

Been in Manila for 3 weeks. I have tried the regular bar scene before, but was new to the Chat date scene. I placed an ad on DIA and started to chat. What I found was interesting, but turned out to be scary.

First of all it was easy to strike up chats with the girls. There are several types of girls on DIA.

1) Husband hunters. Just stay away.

2) Lonely girl who wants a white guy. Good sex possibiliites if you buy candy or take her to dinner. Be careful as they can get clingly.

3) Profesional girls. Pay for video chat, pay for meet, etc. Mostly scams so stay away.

4) Novice or First time Girl. Low cost. I found one who stayed the entire weekend with me for 1KP.

5) Girls with diseases. Just watch out for girls who want to keep the lights off because they are shy. Covering up it manadtorywith these girls. I met one that looked like she had herpies and another that loked like she was infested with Scabies or crabs.

Think with your big head and put the little head away.

After my last experience, there is no way I would meet another DIA girl, even if some of them are damn near free.

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[QUOTE=Kycock]Been in Manila for 3 weeks. I have tried the regular bar scene before, but was new to the Chat date scene. I placed an ad on DIA and started to chat. What I found was interesting, but turned out to be scary.

First of all it was easy to strike up chats with the girls. There are several types of girls on DIA.

1) Husband hunters. Just stay away.

2) Lonely girl who wants a white guy. Good sex possibiliites if you buy candy or take her to dinner. Be careful as they can get clingly.

3) Profesional girls. Pay for video chat, pay for meet, etc. Mostly scams so stay away.

4) Novice or First time Girl. Low cost. I found one who stayed the entire weekend with me for 1KP.

5) Girls with diseases. Just watch out for girls who want to keep the lights off because they are shy. Covering up it manadtorywith these girls. I met one that looked like she had herpies and another that loked like she was infested with Scabies or crabs.

Think with your big head and put the little head away.

After my last experience, there is no way I would meet another DIA girl, even if some of them are damn near free.

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Was in a hotel in London the other day and with nothing better to do (was damn cold!) thought would start a chat with one of my prospects for next weeks Manila trip.

Well my friend was online and on cam with a friend by her side also chatting. They were at home and drinking Red Horse.

Thats a strong beer for most Filipinas so I knew there would be some fun.

Sure enough, after I prompt them to turn the music on they get dancing.

Then my friends friend starts to show some cleavage.

After a while she removes her top and dances in her bra. Then her shorts.

This was fun to watch, then my friend gets jealous. Filipinas will always get jealous.

So she leaves the room. The dancing friend now starts asking me " if I like her". I said I don't know her. She says " if you like me, I will take bra and panties off" I reply " sure honey. I like you" I really like you LOL". And shes there buck naked.

Now my friend comes back and theres clearly an argument.

Naked girl runs off and my friend is pissed at me for encouraging girl to get naked.

I tell her the friend has nice boobs. She says " mine are better". And she gets top off to prove it.

I said her friend had a big ass. " she then drops her shorts to show hers is cuter.

Well what else are you supposed to do when cold in a London hotel.

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[QUOTE=Kycock]Been in Manila for 3 weeks. I have tried the regular bar scene before, but was new to the Chat date scene. I placed an ad on DIA and started to chat. What I found was interesting, but turned out to be scary.

First of all it was easy to strike up chats with the girls. There are several types of girls on DIA.

1) Husband hunters. Just stay away.

2) Lonely girl who wants a white guy. Good sex possibiliites if you buy candy or take her to dinner. Be careful as they can get clingly.

3) Profesional girls. Pay for video chat, pay for meet, etc. Mostly scams so stay away.

4) Novice or First time Girl. Low cost. I found one who stayed the entire weekend with me for 1KP.

5) Girls with diseases. Just watch out for girls who want to keep the lights off because they are shy. Covering up it manadtorywith these girls. I met one that looked like she had herpies and another that loked like she was infested with Scabies or crabs.

Think with your big head and put the little head away.

After my last experience, there is no way I would meet another DIA girl, even if some of them are damn near free.

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No problem if you want to stay away from DIA - the less competition the better LOL, but in my view you are missing the most interesting type. The sideline girl. These are girls who are students, have a regular job or are one of the army of unemployed in the phils. Remember the site does not allow girls to offer sex for money so they can't say this and also they don't want to get a bad reputation amongst their friends and family. So they will write stuff about meeting Mr Wonderful for a long term relationship. In reality most girls understand that it may be years if ever that Mr Wonderful turns up and in the meantime they are ALWAYS short of cash. For these girls the odd 500p / 1000P from a 3 hour/all night session is a very welcome contribution to their rent or savings for their next cell phone.

Younger girls in this situation will generally be far more appreciative of you taking them to Jollybees, fucking them (preferably not at Jollybees) and slipping then 500P as "taxi money" keep the change than you taking them to a fancy Westernised restaurant and spendinmg the same money on them. if you are targeting the 35+ divorcee market it may be different.

GregfugginLondon.....!!!!!!!!

Some of us want to open the door.

You seem to want to open the door and lead the friggin clueless into our bedrooms - well...her bedrooms.

Get a life wanker!

Don't read anything below this. It's rubbish!

[QUOTE=GregLondon]No problem if you want to stay away from DIA - the less competition the better LOL, but in my view you are missing the most interesting type. The sideline girl. These are girls who are students, have a regular job or are one of the army of unemployed in the phils. Remember the site does not allow girls to offer sex for money so they can't say this and also they don't want to get a bad reputation amongst their friends and family. So they will write stuff about meeting Mr Wonderful for a long term relationship. In reality most girls understand that it may be years if ever that Mr Wonderful turns up and in the meantime they are ALWAYS short of cash. For these girls the odd 500p / 1000P from a 3 hour/all night session is a very welcome contribution to their rent or savings for their next cell phone.

Younger girls in this situation will generally be far more appreciative of you taking them to Jollybees, fucking them (preferably not at Jollybees) and slipping then 500P as "taxi money" keep the change than you taking them to a fancy Westernised restaurant and spendinmg the same money on them. if you are targeting the 35+ divorcee market it may be different.[/QUOTE]

Was gonna make a relevant post, but I think I will wait until the most recent wave of baiting passes.

I'm bored myself with the la café or bar scene from AC so I was thinking going to DIA to try a new flavor.

However, I'm worried about a few things.

How to pick up, I mean those girls who advertise they are looking for someone to marry in the west, I wonder at which point I should bring up that it's likely not going to happen and that I'm willing to provide a contribution! (not easy to bring up).

Preferably before the deed as I don't want for the girl to feel abused.

[QUOTE=X Man]GregfugginLondon.....!!!!!!!!

Some of us want to open the door.

You seem to want to open the door and lead the friggin clueless into our bedrooms - well...her bedrooms.

Don't read anything below this. It's rubbish![/QUOTE]

You have a reasonable point X Man, if not very diplomatically put. In my defence I reckon there must be around 10m target Phils girls, around 500,000 signed up to DIA and around 50,000 active members so there are quite a few to go around, even if a few of the clueless do up their game. That said the cuter girls on DIA are getting pretty snowed with emails so maybe XM is right that the door should be left ajar rather than wide open.

dimple_cutez

i want a guy that is serious,reall,understanding,,loving,kind,and can love me with in his senserity and can accept me for what i am and not for who i am.and i dont like someone whose just aftering for a sex and i hate liars and for those guys that are just playing games sorry i dont want us to hurt me again..its hard to be hurt .i know its hard to find our halfs in our lives but someday i believe that they will come in the right time....enjoy searching and dont play with love

*** wow, was that one sentence? And does anyone really understand what she means when she writes, "can accept me for what i am and not for who i am." Whenever I hear the "what I am" phrase, I immediately look for signs of maleness.

X

My own exp. is that the online gal targets don't work well in AC and MNL is a problem simply because of traffic.

I usually give a miss to the ones who specifically suggest marriage.

As for being honest, just be honest! "I'm looking for friends...tour guides...etc."

Afterwards, "I'm only in country for a week (or three) and no matter how much I care for you....I'll be gone / we'll be seperated..."

As for "contribution", just suggest that "I'll pay your taxi fare...". Or, "I'm on holiday and don't want to fuss about with money so please take this $$$ and you take care of OUR expenses today."

I recommend something VERY simple for a first meeting....mall food court for example. It can only get better if you do it that way.

I'm sure many folks here will have different strategies. This is what works for me. I have four now who still communicate with me after migrating to the West, so I apparently haven't created any lifelong enemies.

X









[QUOTE=Escort Fan]I'm bored myself with the la café or bar scene from AC so I was thinking going to DIA to try a new flavor.

However, I'm worried about a few things.

How to pick up, I mean those girls who advertise they are looking for someone to marry in the west, I wonder at which point I should bring up that it's likely not going to happen and that I'm willing to provide a contribution! (not easy to bring up).

Preferably before the deed as I don't want for the girl to feel abused.[/QUOTE]

Its embarrassing how long I have been doing the pen pal thing. Since I was in college like 30 years ago! Cherry Blossoms came out in magazine format then, and I wrote letters.

Well about 20 years ago, still before the Internet, I flew from my duty station in Japan to Davao to meet a pen friend. All very nice, but nothing came of it. I didn't touch her (thankfully!) Ok I broke her kissing cherry, that's all!

Ok fast forward to this week. I am chatting on cam with a girl who lived in Davao and she says, "wait, did you date my sister ***? I think so" And she proceeds to relate details of that encounter 20 years ago! I did keep a little photo album of that trip, and found it and showed it to the girl. And there, in one of the family line-up pics, she says "oh that's me, the 3yo sucking my thumb" haha.

She said that when she was in college her sister let her read the letters I wrote to her. Later she starts giving me a little shit in the name of her sister like "why didn't I write to her" and "you know she stopped writing to all other friends" and then "you know she is still single, only one child and not too fat" haha

Unfortunately, younger sister does not seem to have inherited the fairly large tits her older sister had. shame.

Man, they like keep dossiers on you. Perhaps even an Intelligence network.