Bo, freelancer at the I-Bar
I followed the advice given on this forum by the other members and went to Ruby Club on Soi 6 in the early afternoon. There were more guys than girls. Only one girl was bangable, but some other punter who came after me was quick to offer her a lady drink and barfine her, so I just drank my beer and left. At least I got a better feel for the place, in case I want to explore further. Thanks for all the advice you gave me, the key is to be relaxed about it and let it flow.
Then I defaulted back to more standard methods, and at night after a go-go bar I went to the I-Bar. As I was walking around, some girl catches me by the elbow and tells me to talk to her friend. That was pretty direct! Turns out her friend, whose name was Bo, had seen me the night before and liked me. We went out to a short-time hotel, and I discovered that she really liked me, for some reason. She gave me a great time in bed. I banged her for a long time in all sorts of positions. It was extremely satisfying.
This reminded me of the old adage that it's not the monger who chooses the hooker, it's the girl who chooses who she wants to be paid by. At least that's the recipe to avoid starfish experience and mediocre service. Of course now if I go to the I-Bar again I will have to explain to her why as a rule I like to sample different girls and I avoid repeating. Or, who knows, she may convince me to break my rule for once!