See the other side of the argument.
[QUOTE=WalaBoy;1887932]The reason that seniors do not talk about him is that others who are hell bent on him for the time period will defend him a lot. Guys as a monger we all went through a pase where money was not the most thing for us for the first few encounters and it makes it bad for some one to take advantage of this. Do you know that this so called person is the one who decides the price before the girl calls back. Some mongers give there number to him and then he gives it to the girl and sometimes she has to give him a free fuck for the volume of people he sends. New comers get a contact easily and then it goes on and on. No one likes to pay more for the same thing in the name of sharing information some of us are working full time in respectable jobs so we are not in a position to go mongering daily.
For the new mongers well you will get tired of it and start becoming choosy of your contacts and you will feel bad that some one cheated on you by keeping a cut at times very significantly. I really mean significantly![/QUOTE]Let's say all of the accusations are true, and us newbies are taken for a ride, what other alternative we have? All these seniors refuse to share contacts and keep them close to their chests. (reminds me of Sméagol) I personally have been shrugged off or got told off by many seniors here, just for asking information. Some seniors asks for contacts and refuse to return the favor, as if they are entitled! What other alternative we have? So we have to perform a certain ritual? Do the rain dance in front of your yards? This forum is there for sharing contacts, not for a select group to rein over!
He has helped us newbies all along. I had to plead to get a contact, and when I do, they give me the shittiest in their list with shittiest attitude and service (see my first review! If there is any truth to this, it's you seniors who are responsible for it. You crated it. I know I'm taking the risk of getting a bad rapport from both parties, but so be it. A forum can't function if there's no space for a proper discourse. Peace!
GW
You have some valid points, nut there's much more to it!
[QUOTE=WalaBoy;1888279] In a country where prostitution is illegal and raids happening all the time it is inevitable.[/QUOTE]Not to get too technical, but prostitution is not illegal in Sri Lanka, brothels and pimp activity is! Yes, as you said there are risks, and funny enough, it's MPs that get raided all the time, maybe because of your given reasons about newbies. For the smart senior monger, however, who does not have ulterior motives, sharing incognito is an easy thing.
[QUOTE=WalaBoy;1888279] As times goes on when you get the trust people will give you contacts. [/QUOTE]Not true, only contacts I have received are with the concerned individual's referral and seniors are just passing it on like candy looking for more in return.
[QUOTE=WalaBoy;1888279]Some people act as if we are obliged to give them contacts all the time they ask. They will say I am free on Saturday so please give me a contact or coming from abroad let me have some contacts and have the balls to specify there needs as well! [/QUOTE]Very true! Has happened to me too! Most seniors and newbies are like that, People are greedy and selfish by their nature, but a forum like this won't survive with such sentiments. Should I add, if you go through the history of this forum, it is at a low point now too!
[QUOTE=WalaBoy;1888279] No one has any grudge against someone enjoying the contact I gave but there have been instances where the fellow who took it is not a responsible fellow and the senior gets the blame. Some fellow gets drunk he leaks out everything. Others get caught. One fellow falls in love with the girl and keeps on calling her in the night she blames us for giving the number. Another fellow goes in and wants to fuck her without condom against her will which even can be harmful for others. And so the list goes on.[/QUOTE]I hear you!
[QUOTE=WalaBoy;1888279]Juniors stop walking in an asking for contacts just like this was tuck shop. Work yourself up try some MPS and then see you might get some gems. If someone is helping you please keep your word about his as well as her privacy which is a thing I don't see much in many these days. People come get what they want and then we loose the girl for some retard acting strangely, there was one instance where a fellow had the contact and waited in a car outside the girls place with 3 others to abduct her and **** maybe! His argument was that this will not go to police because she was anyway a hooker. [/QUOTE]Yes, I can really appreciate all the risks are associated with this, hence everyone should take precautions. I understand that.
[QUOTE=WalaBoy;1888279] But no one wants to pay for 8000 K for a girl who was just 3500 k. That is daylight robbery. For people who justify this then I can imagine there mindset as well. Most of the seniors are having full time jobs or businesses. They do it for fun and don't keep money out of it, but when someone starts to make a living out it becomes a problem. Please try to open an MP so that we can visit it too rather than doing undercut work. [/QUOTE]With all due respect mate, this is the crux of the issue, but no one forces anyone do to anything. Market is as anything as these days, supply and demand governs all over it. If someone wants to keep a hooker as their third wheel so be it, but when they walk out on you don't blame them. They are humans just like us, they do this against all social conventions and beliefs in SL, why? Because they are desperate, maybe that desperation is justified or not, but in their own world, it's well justified. Sharing with others will gain them a constant income. It's not just seniors who have respectable living here, some newbies are 'well-off' with a respectable living too, so let's not assume and resort to personal attacks. After all some newbies can afford the current market, not that I'm saying seniors can't, it's just that they are angry about these "price hikes".
Now to finish off, let me add this as well. I'm a newbie who is talking about this issue while risking all my reputation, if there's any, that is; but I haven't seen neither seniors nor the concerned individual stepping up to the plate. For all I can see, I'm having this discussion with a couple of newbies defending seniors. Let me make myself clear! I'm not doing this in Amal's favor or to my gain, heck, I risk losing everything I've gained here so far, nether I do seek validation. If you think I'm Amal's patsy, we better end our discussion there. I have no self-interest here, but I'm talking on behalf of our broader community.
It's all about the better judgement and that's what gets you anywhere in your life. So let's not harp on individuals and their activity, let's try to improve what we've got here and extend this forum's life.
Be safe!
GW