My Tinder Games in Ukraine
Hey fellas,
First of all I am not into Tinder game for last couple years.
Why? Well, once I became confident in my Russian and Ukrainian, I started enjoying live conversations and flirting offline.
But I did enjoy Tinder for a certain period of my life and found there some of the best sex partners ever. For me the key to Tinder game is LYING and Role Playing. I will explain now and it's up for you to decide how moral or immoral this is.
Preparation: I would rent an apartment with good view. It may be small or in an old house, but it must have good smell, good bathroom and awesome view.
First: age.
I would always add extra 7 years to my age and state it in "Bio" and post 2-3 pictures of me in some exotic warm places around the globe, ideally on the boat / yacht. The trick here is to look awesome at my stated age and to look rich and adventures but not crazy rich. (no Bugatti and shiny bling bling).
So my description would be smth like:
Dave, 50 years.
Looking for a local lady to show me Kiev.
Drinks, food and fun is on me.
Second: filtering.
First I choose the hottest profiles, then I start conversations, then I dumb those who have worst English skills. Then it all depends on how good you can pretend and arise interest in women.
So I am left few chicks who are hot and speak English, I don't mind if they send me "sex for money offers".
I play like I don't need sex that bad, I just want to see Kyiv / Lviv and have some good time walking, talking and eating. The hardest thing comes during real life meeting. I would say I need 30-60 minutes to understand if there may be some sex chemistry between me and a girl I found on Tinder.
During first 30-60 minutes I am trying to ask more questions, so the girl keeps talking. That's why you need women with good English. I would ask questions about girls life, but these questions must be "neutral". In other words, asking "Did you have a happy childhood" is not ok. Asking something like "What was your favourite cartoon when you were a kid" is ok. So I'm trying to touch only pleasant strings of memories.
When I see (usually I feel that) that I can not find a connection, I pretend that someone calls me and I need to go to some place and I insist that I want to pay the girls taxi and give her some extra (400-500 UAH as a rule).
When I see some connection, I keep asking questions and start giving small doses of information about myself. I do try to look super open minded but not talkative to the way where you give a girl lecture about 20 last years of your life.
And in these doses of information I lie a lot. And its up to you what you want to lie about. The aim of it is to make the girl think of you as some super interesting, adventurous guy who has super interesting life and definitely has some cool secrets.
As a rule my lie is based on real life events of me and my friends where I would add "special effects" and supersize certain things. I never state how much money I make, I never state prices (like last summer I paid $200 for 10 g of coce in Bogota). I only tell stories that do show I have enough money. I also show I speak few foreign languages (even though I know only few words) but trust me women love that.
I had times where I would walk for few hour talking to a girl, then we go eat, drink smth and then I invite her to my apartment to try some exotic drink / food (that I would buy in duty free).
And then we would have sex. This does need serious skills that come with practice. It is a bit easier for me cause I really travelled a lot, saw different cultures and studied psychology for 6 years and played in a school theatre-.
Hope I'm not the only one crazy to pretend here. Would be happy to read other stories.
Nice reports Rog123 and Ivan Buyan
You guys hit the nail on the head on how to get most out of Kiev. My approach is almost identical to Ivan's but I am bit more direct. They know why a 50 year old is contacting a pretty 20 something girl. I don't do cafes with girls. I invite them to my apartment. Part of the reason is time. My goal is 3 a day and I don't always meet that goal. Can't afford to lose time.