Wisdom is borne through experience!
Bottom line is this, and it is painful to talk about but I bet most of us have had this happen! BUT, my first time down in Tijuana as a monger I ended out at a nice strip club, Amnesia which is on 9th and Revolucion. Sat down, and of course the girls came running. I'm thinking "nice." I end out with one that I wanted to take back to the hotel. She played with that and me until her shift ended. I blew $150. 00 in drinks for that little brat, and then she ducked me. Hell, I didn't even know how much I was paying for her drinks. That ended that shit real quick. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
I went back the next night to redeem myself. I popped a Cialis so I had a hard on when I walked in, sat down with a bottle of water, and the first girl that came up was the same one from the night before! I gave her a nice "get the fuck out of her" look, and just waited and watched. I picked the girl I wanted, negotiated $100. 00 for two hours at my hotel after her shift ended, and banged her three times in those two hours and woke up sober and feeling like I had a great night instead of feeling like I got burned. I never made that initial mistake again. I realized right at that moment when it hit me that I got schemed "ok, this is a dirty business, then I'm keeping it business." Like a business, I kept overhead down and got the best product I could at the best price I could. Like I say. Keep it in perspective.
Another eye opener in that "learning period" I met a girl the same way, two hour session after shift ended at my hotel, which I preferred for privacy reasons. We talk a bit, and I tell her she can sleep there if she wants. Wake up the next morning, we fuck again, take a shower, and go have breakfast. I go to part ways and she hits me up for another $100. 00! I told her no, that I paid for her room and breakfast. The girl, really angrily, says "my time has value." I shot right back at her "yep; and so does mine. Goodbye." Lesson number two in the "business" you never get something for nothing in Mexico. I had my times when I dated stripper girls down there and got free pussy, but in some way or another I was always paying.
Also; I fell into the "I like her " roll once, thankfully for a short time. Met a girl at Porky's in Mexicali. She was a real honey and had been drinking. Spent the night partying in the club with her and I thought "god, she's cool. I want to get to know her." Next thing I knew she was gone. She didn't hit my pocket bad, but I went back to Yuma and couldn't get her out of my mind. I thought "she really liked me and that was really a good time." I get off work that next Friday and go running back to Porkys. I see her, trot up to her (ok, bit of an exaggeration but I felt like trotting up to her) and low and behold she couldn't remember me! That was lesson number three in the "business." NEVER think they give a shit about you. It's all money man.
After that I owned my emotions and my dollars and only dished out what I wanted from the two! Now; I have bought many buckets of beer and sat and partied with the girls, but I wasn't paying ficha fee either. For me, fichas and VIP dances are a waste of money. In fact; I mongered for 6-years until I ended out marrying. I NEVER paid for a private dance, EVER! Big joke in my book. If I'm going to have those tits in my face, or that ass in my face, I'm wanting the full monty. I was just in Gau Gau in Mexicali two weeks ago and watched a guy drop $100. 00 in five private dances with a chick! I thought "you could have fucked her for $80. 00!" Crazy. Guy is just fascinated with her tits, her snatch, yet never got much of either. Illogical in my book.
I eventually got it down to a science. I could tell if the girls were tight, loose, performers, swindlers, or bored. I would study every girl in the place; not when they were with clients, but when they were talking with their friends and the other girls. If I saw them mocking a client or rolling their eyes, I dumped them immediately. The ones that sat bored on their cellphones I never got near. They have boyfriends they text all night, and are cock-blocking dead fucks. I promise, they give no BBJ, no dining on the bearded clam, nothing intimate, period. But, I learned the hard way too.
[QUOTE=D Cups;1302882]I never buy drinks either. For me or the girl. Find the girl you want and do the deed. Then go get a cheap beer and taco before or after.[/QUOTE]
LOL! You win! Tijuana it is!
[QUOTE=Party God;1305578]Agreed! Let's also remember if LE catches you mongering in California (since it isn't allowed) a 6 month jail sentence impossable (though I don't know how common it is) ; not to mention the shame of who is bound to find out! Don't want to risk becoming someones puta in the slammer! Rather go where it is safer, they are hotter (on average) , cheaper, and it is officially tolerated.[/QUOTE]You won me over with the puta comment! For me guys; I lived in Mexico when I did my mongering so it was very cost effective. Now, I'm in Tucson and it literally would be $500. 00 to go to Tijuana now, and $300. 00 minimum to San Luis or Mexicali, so I see this issue through different financial lenses than you guys in Cali. No doubt if I was in LA or San Diego I would be in Tijuana twice a week when the wife wasn't putting out. Nogales is an hour away here, but pricey. I dropped by a club a few weeks ago and they wanted $160. 00 to take a girl in a little "room" they built in the back. I laughed so hard I spit my beer out. There were some skanky women I could have got BBj for $40. 00, but as mentioned in numerous other posts I married a stripper from Mexicali who is 17 years younger than me and still better looking than most girls in that club, and I get serviced regulary by a little hard body. But I do miss the ganing of mongering!