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[QUOTE=Mike De H]And Boy! Are you going to miss it.[/QUOTE]Like I said, we all have 2 buckets. Money bucket not full, while shit bucket just about at the top. P4P is a [u]hobby[/u], not a lifestyle.
The luster of dxb wore off LONG ago.
[QUOTE=Joe Banana]Bravo, thanks for your report. What is the 'snake and where is it please?[/QUOTE]Rattlesnake, Metropolitian Hotel, SZR. Does make a change, but debate if it's REALLY worth the trip from downtown. I really don't care that much for the band, bar has a poor layout (as far as being able to see, move around). But it does have a mix of the usual countries, sometimes unusual ones (even bumped into some Thais there once), and it does not seem to draw that much LE attention. Drinks are cheaper than the average. During the winter, spring, does have a nice outside area in front where you can catch some fresh air. Pool tables upstairs. I'll visit if I don't feel like going downtown.
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Jules Bar report
I was in Dubai mid December and went to Jules. Quite a mix of people. I've been looking for a cute one from the eastern bloc for a while now, but didn't see one there that night. The quality was kind of low that night. I noticed a somewhat cute little PRC girl in the corner giving me the eye. I walked by her once and then again. As I didn't see what I was looking for, and feeling the need rising, I went over and talked to her. We worked out 800dhs for LT.
So, after the walk of shame back to the hotel, "Hey, Ralph...See you later, Joe" (Damn, my timing is as good as it usually is. I'm going to hear about it when I get back to work. Crap. NP, though. Not like I'm the first, last, nor even in the minority by a long shot.), I arrive back at the room. She takes a moment to clean up after a few minutes of small talk (she is from Shanghai, her mother thinks she is in Canada learning English, although she is taking courses in Dubai) and it is right to work. A bbbj to start. Although her English is good, her French is better. After about 15 minutes of this, I warned her that I'm not going to last any longer, but she just keeps going. "Sorry about that, but I did warn you!". She wasn't upset about it, though. Off to the bathroom for a quick cleanup and back into bed for round two, no respite for me. More BBBJ and then she wraps me up and we go at it FS for quite a while. She is rather tiny and I can't get full penetration, but we have fun just the same. That goes on for quite some time until I finally release and need a break.
We're lying in bed and she won't leave me alone. Her hand is already making me interested again, but it is 1:30am and I want some sleep. So, we snuggle up, for what I hope is a restful night. I'd been up since 5am the day before after all. But her hand is still holding on to me. I roll over. A short time later her hand is back. I snooze for a bit, but it is no good. I can't stand it anymore. I roll onto my back and without a word she starts to give me a HJ. Well, I don't have the energy for much more, so that is fine by me. Once finished we clean up and back to bed, for what I hope is some sleep. An hour later though, her hand is back and making me wonder whether I've died and gone to heaven, or have just arrived in hell? Another HJ and I'm finished for the night. I ignore here hand and finally go to sleep for a couple of hours. I wake up about 8:30am. Her hand is still in place and she is ready for more. We go at it for about an hour, I'm finished. I need sleep badly and she needs to go. I get her number (I'm a glutton for punishment! Hehe!), give her 100dhs for a tip and send her on her way.
I can honestly say that I've never had Mr. Happy 'abused' so much in so short a time. Nor have I ever seen a girl so cock hungry as this one was. Hopefully, when I get back to Dubai she'll answer her phone for a return engagement. Maybe by then I'll be recovered enough to follow it through!
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Happy New Year 2007
I'd like to wish all my fellow mongers a very happy and sexy 2007. May we find pussy whenever our dick goes out hunting and never return to our hotels or home unscored.
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December in Dubai
I visited Dubai mid Dec and have been remiss in submitting a report, but better late than never. First of all, thanks for all the advice on the board and to those who graciously answered the few questions I had. I had planned this trip in Nov for two reasons. Obviously for the pussy and secondly I had to find a trip sufficiently long enough to generate enough miles to retain top tier status on Air Canada. Dubai satisfied both requirements.
Left my home town in Canada about 5pm Wed and arrived via Toronto in Frankfurt 11am. Business class all the way to Frankfurt, but only had an economy ticket to Dubai, simply viewed as necessary suffering to get to the ultimate goal. As luck had it, my seat was double-booked and the asshole looking to remove me from my seat was loud and rude to the stew. I remained calm, handed my boarding pass and star alliance gold card to the stew and was rewarded with an upgrade to business.
Arrived in Dubai at 10:45pm, breezed through customs and was in the hotel (Sofitel) by 11:45. Quick shower and out the door to the Hyatt’s Premier Club. I’d been here on my only other visit 2.5 years ago. The place was absolutely packed and there was a lineup to get in. Passed myself off as a Hyatt guest with my Hyatt club card and was immediately shown in. Battled my way to the bar, ordered a double Bacardi / cola and started hunting. I spoke to few ladies, but continued to circulate for an hour checking out the possibilities. Almost fucked up as 2am approached and the place was thinning out, thought the best may have escaped. Just then, bumped into a Miss S at the bar. Long blonde hair, 5’8” from Kiev. She immediately wanted 2000 Dhms for the night. Sorry, babe, I’ve read the forum. Came down to 1500, but I was hesitant. Could she go lower? At this point it was a bit of a game as 1000 or 1500 in my eyes is still so incredibly cheap given I was in Vienna a week before. (400 Euros / hr at the Babylon club). At that point, her “sister” (Miss M) joins the conversation. Blond as well and equally stunning. The offer was made, 3000 for both. I countered with 2500 for both. They agreed if they could sleep in and I ordered breakfast. DEAL!
Arrived at the hotel with these blond stunners. There is no question that the Sofitel is girl friendly as we were all greeted politely and there could be no doubt in anyone’s mind why these babes were with me. Totally lucked out with these two. Both girls were willing to suck and fuck all night (with a break for pizza and wine!). Had to be close to 6:30am before we packed it in. Felt comfortable with them in the room as anything of value was earlier placed in the safe or was locked down. None of us rose before 1pm. Had them both in the shower and treated them to lunch downstairs. After they left I went back to bed until 5pm. (Got their numbers before they left).
Friday night, after a late dinner I had to check out the infamous Cyclone. As I’ve read, it’s a must do at least once. Arrived about 11pm and headed for CIS country (to the right). My first impressions were a bit disappointing as the number of stunners were low, but it was early. Did hook up with this gorgeous brunette for a bit, but she wanted 2000 and wasn’t coming down. Early!! Before 1am I had the numbers of two ladies that would be most interested in hooking up Sat afternoon. About 1:30am, I had settled on another Miss M, tall blond from Estonia. Same deal as before, 1200 for the night and breakfast. Great lady and crazy in bed. One problem. She’s a squirter and when she gets revved up, she basically ruins the bed. We ended up sleeping on the end of the bed as there was a bloody lake forming near the top. Talk about a DNA bouillabaisse! Reserved the mornings shag for the shower where it was a bit safer. After she left, had room service come in and change the sheets. Thank god the windows opened, had to air the place out!
Called one of the Cyclone babes about 1pm and arranged for her to join me for 3 hours Sat afternoon. Tall redhead this time from St. Pete’s. Good time and pleasant enough for a 3 hour interlude (500 Dhms), but wouldn’t repeat. Not after the performances of the last group.
My plane was leaving Dubai at 3:30am so I figured I had to make the best of my last evening. Considered going out on the hunt again, but with limited time decided to call Miss S from the 1st night. Took me an hour to finally reach her and enquired about her and her friend joining me for 4 hours (9pm-1am). She agreed, I slept, showered and went for dinner downstairs. During dinner she called and says her friend can’t come, but she will come alone. No problem! Another call 8pm. Would I be interested in another of her friends, tall brunette. Felt I was pushing my luck, but agreed after the description and a promise that the friend would leave with only cab fare if I wasn’t interested. Win-win situation, so why not. Both arrived about 9:15pm and the friend (Miss A) was a knockout. Taller than Miss S by at least 3 inches. Anyway, 4 hours of absolutely non-stop action, with a quick room service break thrown in. Girls left at 1am, I had a quick shower, grabbed the pre-packed bags and got my ass to the airport where I toasted my good fortune by purchasing the upgrade to FRankfurt.
In summary, great time, and no problems thanks to the help on the board. Did I overpay a bit, perhaps, but the trip went off like clockwork. Will definitely be back. And I made Air Canada’s top tier again to boot.
Stirling
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Stirling effort
Don't you just love it when a plan comes together?
Nice FR matey, and I agree with you about the cyclone, you have to look harder for the CIS stunners than before.
Are they going elsewhere or is the gene-pool getting shallow?
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Short FR
[b]TGIT, Astoria Hotel, 2:45 - 3:30pm[/b]
New Year's [u]day[/u], given that there were a number of bowl games on tv, only one thing to do: Banana's for their large supreme pizza. While waiting, popped into TGIT. As expected, sparse: punters (and wg's) NOT in attendence, no doubt recovering at home from the previous night's festivities. 1 african, a couple of CIS (young/hard looking), majority PRC's, and older PRC's at that.
Number of familiar faces; [b]JSF[/b], you'll remember FiFi and JoJo. FF ALWAYS with the smile and happy greeting. Happy to say, JJ now a pro, no longer clingy, QUICKLY gauges [i]temperature[/i]. Did spot 1 PRC on my to-do list; I had called her last Thursday, during my phone troll... If only she hadn't lived in Deira, could have popped her from that queue... Added another new face, cute, with phone number to the to-do list. She, first time TGIT visitor, encouraged by her friends to check out TGIT, not impressed with the customer mix...
Anyway, I simply had a drink, then left to pick up a pizza. Certainly no stunners, but if [b]I[/b] had been in the mood for some afternoon [i]exercise[/i], there certainly were possibilities, even if few and far between.
[b]Rattlesnake, Metropolitan Hotel, 9:15 - 11:00[/b]
Games over, decided to step out, look for Miss Cappy. Early on, very sparse, mainly african wg's, with a few chinese (says more about management's misguided entrance policy than anything else).
Later on, some CIS arrived; 1 familiar OLDER face, with some likewise aged [i]sisters[/i]. Certainly no walk of shame there, easily blend in as an older spouse. I was wondering exactly who her target [i]audience[/i] was, what her [i]attributes[/i] were, and how successfully delivered... Certainly has been around for awhile, so must be some [i]attraction[/i]...
Later on, place filled up a bit, but still relatively sparse. No Cappy. Now number of africans matched by the PRC's, CIS around. Couple of PRC's I was [i]familiar[/i] with, 1 tall, LONG hair, attractive. Bit surprised to see 1 top-of-the-line Imperial girl, Cyclone chorus material, visiting. She did stand out, and would, any place except Cyclone. At least 1 other PRC, older, intriguing in a mature sort of way... not the usual bg trolling for clients (I'm assuming she was a wg rather than a spouse waiting for hubby). Like the older CIS, I wonder who pulls them, and why, given so many younger, better looking girls around. Must be some attraction...
[QUOTE=Stirling]In summary, great time, and no problems thanks to the help on the board. Did I overpay a bit, perhaps, but the trip went off like clockwork. [/QUOTE]Bit of homework, some advance study, and easy to have a good time.
Cyclone is a must see, at least once. Has always been expensive, but damn there are some fine looking women in there, and this IS the Middle East.
Have always said a good price is what HER experience is worth to YOU THAT night. How much fun is it to come home with stories along the lines of "I wouldn't pay THAT; I saved so much money..."
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Iranian Ladies
Does anyone know where I can find nice Iranian ladies in Dubai?
Need your help!
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Pilipinas by the Dozen!!
Hi Folks,
Happy New Mongering Year to one and all.
Interesting times had over the holiday period, mainly based around Imperial and Seaview for want of better places to have fun.(I know there are, but although my budget is good, principles are not to pay any more than necessary for similar commodities)
New Years Eve was fairly well organised in both venues, although the charges in Imperial were somewhat excessive. Entrance fee was 100 Dhms before and 200 Dhms after 10 pm, with two drinks included then all drinks at 40 dhms thereafter, consequently I gave it a miss and went to Seaview instead.
The 100 dhms entrance fee included one drink and a Chicken and Fries type Buffet. All tables were fully booked and the place fairly well full, but not overcrowded, with drink prices normal throughout.
Plenty of girls, at 10.30 they outnumbered the 'customers' by at least 4 to 1 and even later on into the New Year there were still plenty of mainly PRC and Kaz going spare.
Met up with some friends and introduced my Baby with the Big Boobs to a few newcomers - eyes on stalks all round as usual.
A good night was had by all, especially the guy that threw up all over the gents at just before 1 am. Full marks to the clean-up crew.
Went to Imperial last night (Tuesday 3rd)for a quick recce, just in case there was any new stock since my last visit.
Most of the usual WG's still there, with a few new, but older PRC and one or two CIS looking good.
The lone baby Pilipina came in around 10.15 and took up her usual post, txting on phone as ever.
Very attractive and highly recommended she is too, will go for 500 after midnight, but always leaves to go home early - 6 am at best.
Saw a couple of previous PRC 'friends' and was tempted to take one of them again, but I had other plans.
At 10.30 I left for pre-arranged Birthday bash at Seaview, walking in to an almost empty bar, around ten customers with a choice of 30 or so mainly PRC girls.
Picked up with Baby Big Boobs and her 'sister' and settled to watch and listen to the band, excellent as ever.
The Kaz ladies arrived shortly afterwards and took up the bar position as usual, along with a few Africans drifting in, all in all it made for lots of ladies and virtually no men.
Shortly after 11, the arrival of 2 lone Pilipinas, both new, caught my attention. Standing near to us, I was able to observe the fact that at no time did any guys bother with them, nor did they seem to be interested in business. That is usually the way with PI, the guys must make the approaches.
At midnight my eyes were further opened by arrival of at least 8 more PI babes, only 2 of whom I recognised from previous visits to the Seaview.
Once again no approaches were made from either direction, it was a baby PI fest and nobody was taking their pick!!
Just as I was leaving at around 1 am with the Big Boobed Baby in two, a further 2 more PI arrived, both of whom I know (biblically). That made a total of 12 Pilipina babes of all shapes and one size (small), and lots of smiles all round, but still no takers from the odd unoccupied guys around.
Had a quick chat with the last 2 arrivals to find that the reason they were so late is that they had been having a good time at the Rock City in the Highland - must pay a visit there asap and let you guys know the situation. (If anyone has info, please share.)
So there it is, the Seaview scores again, lots of PRC, a few CIS, a few Africans and the biggest collection of PI Wg's I have seen in one place outside of Manila so far. Oh and, of course, IMHO the best band in Dubai.
Keep up the posts,
Cya FF
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Striling
Good report. But i ahve always said in my few reports, that i would pay that bit extra to get that better service, and it looks like you got it. You could of got a 200 dhms lower but in the end you had a good do. With cyclone not as busy these day and with regal not as good as it was, Where are all the rusinas going these days, apart from the obvius. Is there any new p;laces on the horizon???
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just a quick 1
Does any 1 know whether the fairmont or le meiridains are gf?
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Sorry dont answer the q. 11 brovo's masterful excellent ROD, hotels has clearded it up.Cheers bravo you are a legend, i must of walked past or bumped into you a 100 times.
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Batting .750
[b]Rattlesnake, Wednesday, 9:30 - 11:30[/b]
Late night at work, so stopped by the 'Snake. Arriving, early, the usual african majority, with a sprinking of PRC's. Still sparse at 10:30, but around 11:00, a large influx of PRC's and CIS, some very tempting.[list][*]Moonlighting PRC, legit day job. Far from a stunner, but cute, nicely shy, reasonable english, and enough hint of a legit rack that I will pay to see it unfettered; took her number.
[*]Familiar face; have seen this PRC many times, a number of places; the last time, with her New Year Eve's date at the atm as he stocked up. Always nice to get the discreet acknowledgement from the girl as you pass. Never any time to pull, but I WILL have to change that. Confirmed I did have her number (refreshed the face/name association).
[*]Another Cyclone chorus girl, with the CR, taking a low key detour for the evening. Have seen her at the 'Snake before, every now and again. Cyclone fine, but some LE presence outside, causing the girls some anxiety. Got her number; for sure, another ceiling buster, but once that line has been crossed, just gets easier (like punting itself).
[*]Just getting ready to leave, another girl who could work the Cyclone chorus appeared, petite, cute face, nice rack. Stepped up once more, but this time, a swing and a miss - got her name, but that was IT - the 1 word answer. OK, I'm a quick judge of [i]climate[/i], and this was [i]tundra[/i]. Concerned about frostbite, quickly moved on.[/list]
But for a weeknight, I was impressed. Band still grates; dj and the trance music much nicer. Still not quite worth a special trip, but if you're passing on SZR, might be worth a quick look, especially past 11. While there are some obvious regulars there, I would not necessarily count on seeing [i]her[/i] there on any given night.
[QUOTE=Tony #1]Sorry dont answer the q. 11 brovo's masterful excellent ROD, hotels has clearded it up.Cheers bravo you are a legend, i must of walked past or bumped into you a 100 times.[/QUOTE]You never know. But it's all the [u]visitors[/u] who DID write about their hotel experiences that deserve the credit - I just parsed out the existing info.
What makes it nice is when someone USES the available info...
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Iranian ladies
[QUOTE=Eel]Does anyone know where I can find nice Iranian ladies in Dubai?
Need your help![/QUOTE]You might try Royalton Hotel in Deira. Its near the Makhtoum Hospital. They have 3 or 4 bars and the one on the second floor usually has good looking Iranians (at least thats the way it was a month ago). The place starts warming up after 11 pm.
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Dubai Delights
Guys arriving Dubai this Sunday, can you regular guys in Emirates advice and shed some light where one can get ladies in this lovely place.
Is it possible to pick them from Malls etc or only at night clubs.
Thanks in advance.
If any one has any contact no they can throw here, much oblidged, def. gona need company once in hotel.
Cheers
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Learn from MY mistakes
You know it's NOT a good sign when you're posting at 3:45AM...
[b]Rattlesnake, Thursday, 11:00 - 11:30[/b]
Given the arrival times I'd witnessed earlier this week, decided I'd go a bit later (for me, anyway). Arriving, 'Snake was crowded, poor M/F ratio. Given the layout, difficult to see. Many africans (with the usual GRABBING hands), number of CIS, PRC's... unfortunately, none of the PRC's I'd seen earlier in the week. Now, it being Thursday, I did NOT expect to see the Cyclone refugees, but certainly some of the others...
Haven't been to Cyclone for a couple of months, but am sure if I walked in THERE, would see a number of the same faces. York in its heyday - always a set of familiar faces for me to choose from. Imperial, the same. Certainly Seaview, I know I can COUNT on a 1/2 dozen [i]potentials[/i] to be there, besides new faces. Maybe I just don't frequent the Snake enough to recognize the regulars; maybe the regulars don't appeal to me, so don't register. Anyway, looking grim.
Saw 1 that I couldn't remember if she was on the to-do list or the done-not-remarkable list. Regardless, given the crowd, difficult to maneuver close to her, and she did not move in my direction, so perhaps it was the latter list... Did see Miss Friday, whose option has not been renewed yet, though I will say she was the best looking girl in there (for me, anyway). Later, several sms's and a missed call from her, wanting to know why I was now disinterested and had not called her.
Well, I was [i]busy[/i]. Deciding there was no future at the 'Snake, decided to cut my loses and head to Seaview for the band's 2nd set. Like I said, can always count on a number of [i]options[/i] to be in residence. 1/2 way across the patio, I see Miss Familiar Face and her running partner, the same 2 who had wanted a double last night. Running partner literally grabs me in a hug, making the same offer. Miss Familiar simply says, "I go your house." She is cute... I stalled a bit... certainly for off-peak, a certainty, but on a Thursday... You know, once you have your mind set on checking out a venue... and there were some KNOWN quality selections at Seaview.
Wiggled free from the hug, truthfully saying I was not interested in a double. Her "2 ladies, same price 1 lady", from experience, is NOT 2-for-1, but 2*1. I said I was just going to go on home, sleep (not specifying any [i]intermediate[/i] steps...)
Miss Familiar repeated her request to go with me, but I declined. They walked towards the 'Snake, I took a step towards the car. But then decided, if not now, when? (Never said I was quick on decisions.) Might as well scratch 1 off the to-do list. I was there, she was there... Caught up with them at the 'Snake's door, just as they were digging into their purses for their id's (and entrance fee). Asked for a price quote; should have heard the 1st alarm bell when she questioned "all night?" as if this was NOT the norm. Her "how much you pay?" not working for me, but her "500" acceptable - I really wasn't that interested in haggling over a 100. 500 acceptable, and since it was her ASKING price, figured it should ensure me a good time (ha, ha, right...). Both wanted to go, but when I made it clear it was Miss Familiar, and ONLY Miss Familiar, the other girl backed off, bid us farewell, and headed into 'Snake. We headed home.
Back home, in the bedroom, while getting undressed, it was "pay money first". Whoa, Nellie. That WAS a surprise, given, like I said, I've seen her in a number of venues ('Snake, TGIT...) My "I ALWAYS pay in morning" not working; she giving me the "this 1st time, I not know you...", which, strangely :) enough, did not seem to register when I reversed its direction. The obvious "I'm a businesswoman..." statement should have been a STRONG clue that GFE it won't be...
Started pulling my clothes back on, saying we'd simply go back to the bar (now 12:30). She was "don't be angry, don't be angry"... Should have followed my first instinct, but then reconsidered, she did seem to have potential, and was friendly. Fine, back to the living room, grabbing the wallet, unfortunately WITHOUT the presence of mind to follow my own advice - pay half down, half later. Got the 500 bill, back to the bedroom, on the table. She was again with the "don't be angry", but not exactly conducive to a fun time.
OK, a minor hickup. In to take a shower; returning, she had pocketed the money. Fine, just another alarm beginning to sound. Now it was "you have condom?, you have condom? I have condom in purse..." A simple Yes did NOT quiet the [b]insistent[/b] question, so pulled out the BOX to show her I was well-stocked. Not so much I'm worried about YOU, babe, but I take the steps to protect MYSELF. Round 1, oral, bbbj, but request to not CIM... My bad, I had not specified menu, interested in HER experience, WHATEVER that might be. Now, I was learning...
She had claimed to "know massage", and asked if I had experienced "foot massage". Her massage, body AND feet, all of 20 minutes (previous Miss T, 20 minutes was for ONE FOOT...) Now, round 2... you can fake the foreplay moans, but if the body is not responding, not that difficult to tell... her attitude more of a "I'll lay her until you're ready..." But I'm persistent (aka stubborn), and eventually, there would be no need for any artificial lube. Not quite the GFE, but... it just seemed we were out-of-sync SLIGHTLY, you know, timing off... Couldn't quite figure it out, as she had seemed so promising...
Now, to sleep. Would be interesting to see her attitude to a morning wake-up... Instead, time for the final scene: "I'm cold; my feet cold, you have a/c on?" No, a/c is not on; I can't help your circulation problems. Actually went and got her another blanket. "I'm cold..." I asked if she wanted some socks, (made me laugh - one of the FEW times - when she said, "you want sex?" ). Pulled out some wool socks... not really a surprise when she declined... "I'm cold, maybe I no sleep tonight; maybe if I no sleep, you no sleep..."
OK, I can see the handwriting on the wall... "You want go home?" WHAT a [i]surprise[/i]: "You no be angry, OK?" Fat chance, babe. Angry at myself for not seeing this coming, not taking her back to the bar when things started to go off-track, not thinking of the [i]installment[/i] payment plan. "Get up, get dressed, NOW." "Maybe I sick, I no want you to get sick, too cold here, I go home..." You got THAT right...
It was not that out-and-out rip, the "my gf need key" so I can go pull another customer rip, but more the wish to cut our time short, get back to her own place...
Judging the now FRIGID climate, she started to back-track, saying perhaps she could sleep here, that it was MY request for her to leave, that I should not get angry..." (Note: [b]NO[/b] reason for her to fear for her personal safety with ME; the money had been given to her, it was hers, [b]NO[/b] attempt by me to unilaterally [i]adjust[/i] payment - just a guarantee of no REPEAT business). After all, she was correct, it was MY decision that she was now leaving...
"You take me home?" Yea, perhaps in some alternate, parallel universe... Told her she could take a taxi... Now, I'm not the TOTAL asshole; I just don't throw her out the door to fend for herself. I walk her to the end of the street, pointing the 20 meters to the MAIN road, "taxi, no problem." And, because it was now 2:30, I did keep her in sight until a [u]taxi[/u] stopped, rather than a private car... To her credit, she did not add insult to injury by asking for any taxi money...
Lessons re-learned:[list][*]Just because you THINK it should be a good time, it won't necessarily be so. When the chemistry is missing...
[*]While a BEAMING smile can be an indication of a [u]willing[/u] partner, no guarantees; sometimes, it's just advertising.
[*]Sometimes, things DON'T turn around, staying off-track, out-of-sync.
[*]While requests for "Pay Before" may be legit (from her point of view), take the ST now, LT in morning payment plan... If THAT is unacceptable, then:
[*]Learn to listen to your first reaction... sometimes, that IS the wisest decision.
[*]Remember that a number of SMALL warning signs can point to BIG problems later...[/list]Angry? No. Actually, a bit disappointed, as she was one of those I really thought had potential, not as a starter, but certainly as a relief pitcher. Not value for money, but it was MY decision to ask her to leave, sooner rather than later. She was right, I would not get a good night's sleep if she stayed.
Just seemed ironic: Friday's Cyclone chorus girl, who I thought might be problematic, was a better time than I expected, no problems whatsoever, and responsive. This girl, who I obviously bet would be a good time (by acquiescing to pay before), was NOT. We just didn't get along (no doubt, back at her apt, she must be telling her roommates about the CRAZY punter...)
Oh well, now I know - 500 the price of this night's [i]education[/i], and I did get one off the to-do list. After all, there is always tomorrow...