We are not all looking for the same thing
[QUOTE=Jambo]Hmm? The first one skinny girl is just a girl from Cagayan. The second one is my ex. Several guys have been PM me asking for contact info, which I am NOT going to give as she is loose in the states and overstaying her visa. I am not going to help her get back a revenue stream. I've offered to buy her ticket home. She is young, she can try again with another smuck.
I know some guys will think, "maybe she'll be true to ME"? Just consider, she could be in chat with you, from the states, of wherever. She could be using her mom's name, and having you send funds to her address in the PI. I know she got one guy to send her money to get a Tourist Visa to the states while we were engaged and I was working on getting her K1. It helps explain her story to him how she can come meet the guy in the US. Excuse me?? Just in case you didn't know, girls from the provinces do not get tourist visas.
Maybe I should charge some $ for the contact info, help recoup my losses.[/QUOTE]Whereas I understand your disappointment over being a "smuck", on one level or other it happens to us all. You can be thankful that you are now free of her and the wiser; hopefully not to repeat the same mistake. In my case, I am not looking for a wife or a Western Union parasite. Although, I would not be above playing the game in order to get laid by your EX, I have already paid my dues elsewhere and am only along for the ride, literally.
Your reference of not divulging her identity means that none of us will get our chance to enjoy her fruits without having to suffer the same consequences as yourself. And your suggestion about recouping some of the $ you lost on that bet, does seem a bit out of place on a forum where many people willingly and without monetary consideration do share information about "available" girls. Interestingly, by showing her face, you would probably help more prospective "smucks" avoid her trap, and even be able to take her for the ride she deserves. Revenge is sweet. What would you rather see: her take another smuck for a ride or have one of us take her for a ride? But to each his own. The choice is yours.