Good spa on 176 bus route // nurse uniforms // advice needed
This is my second post on this forum.
I visited a massage parlor about a couple weeks ago which didn't look too enticing on the HitAd advertisement but turned out to be quite good. Once again I had the same problem as during my first spa visit and you can get an idea of this problem through my username. So anyway this place looked like a respectable ayurveda spot from the outside (You won't have any problems finding it, it's quite close to a main road) and the moment I entered I actually though it was only normal massages that they did here because there were lots of girls and men in the reception area and looked quite like a hospital. The nurse uniforms worn by all the girls also made it look more hospital-like. When I first entered through the open gate I actually didn't see the reception area on the ground floor and instead went straight up. (A girl on the upper floor told me there was a reception downstairs where I could choose someone). There were some fat, not so good looking, mature women with too much make-up but also a few OK looking girls. I chose the most talkative one and went upstairs. The rooms were very spacious and private with curtains instead of doors as usual. After I came back from the shower she turned the lights off and asked me whether I wanted a feeling or hard massage. TBH I didn't exactly know the difference and said that I wanted a feeling massage. She then took off my towel (nothing underneath) and asked me to lay down on whichever side I wanted. I lay on my back and she immediately started to play with my junior. She talked a lot about herself and asked me lots of questions too. She brought up her face up very close to me most of the time almost to the point of our lips touching. I felt she was trying a bit hard to be seductive but didn't actually know much about how to be seductive.
Anyway the only thing she was doing was playing with my junior and after some time I had removed the top part of her dress and her bra and was fondling her breasts which were of a good size. However I didn't yet have an erection and we had reached almost the 45 min mark! She was naturally telling me that I had to finish soon and asked me whether she was doing anything wrong and I told her that I was still new to visiting spas and maybe that was the reason. She asked whether it would work If I jerked off myself but I said I did not want to come all the way to a spa and jerk it myself! Finally I told her that it would have worked if I had some porn but that my phone battery was dead.
She said no problem and gave me her phone and said that there is enough and more data in it and told me to watch anything I wanted. So I basically went on xvideos on her phone and started watching porn while she jerked me off Only then did junior to both our huge reliefs start to wake up and in a few minutes we were done with the deed.
I took a shower, tipped her 800 and left (although a bit embarrassed at my performance). Entrance was 1000. I would certainly visit again as soon as my problem is sorted out (read below).
And now the big question!
I'm really worried as to why I can't get it up or reach climax during my spa experiences. This was my 3rd spa visit and I already posted about my 1st visit several months back. The first time I had to leave without finishing but at least I managed to get it up during the massage. But this time, junior was completely asleep for a full 45 minutes! That's just crazy! I'm usually very easily sexually aroused and I can't understand why I have this problem. I'm still a 20 YO virgin and have never yet had a GF or even a lip kiss. But it can't be because of lack of experience. I now think that it must be because I've basically been jerking off to porn since I was 13 and my body has therefore got addicted to the routine of watching porn and masturbating. Now I'm trying to stop watching porn and instead will try to masturbate without any visual aids.
Does / has any of you had this problem now / before? What did you do about it? What would be your advice? Are you also someone like me (without a GF) who watches porn to satisfy sexual urges? Does this habit make it hard to get it up during actual sex with a girl? Thanks in advance. For more details about the spa just ask and I will comment on this thread (no pm facility yet).
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Very innocent MILF with great body and attitude
First I got to know her from the famous spa's in Milkrice place.
Then later found that she is not operating there which she is now at a place in Soilyala.
That is too far for me so I said I could meet her in the morning around Yakkala so she admit to meet me before she going to her place.
We went to a decent hotel place and had a bath together.
Had normal foreplay and then went missionary and doggy. I had a load at tip of my Jr so couldn't hold much which did the pop inside the cover.
Had few minutes catching her breath and talking about things then again started the next session with lot of BBBJ and feeling had her on top of me and then pop it out on her body.
Had a bath and drop her at town.
She is so innocent and not at all you can call her a hooker. She does what ever you ask but no Anal.
Her skin is very soft and she has no tummy with all the assets are in right size.
She looks bit old and dress very casual but her hidden assets are priceless.
Paid her 6 K + 1.5 for the room.
Body- 9/10.
GFE- 8/10.
BBBJ- 8/10.
Face- 7/10.
Attitude- 8/10.
WIR= Yes.
I will only share this with Seniors hence not want to spoil her.
Porn and sexual performance
[QUOTE]Are you also someone like me (without a GF) who watches porn to satisfy sexual urges? Does this habit make it hard to get it up during actual sex with a girl?[/QUOTE]LongTimeToCum, I also watch porn, but I usually have no problem coming when I have an HJ at a massage parlour. It all depends on the attitude of the girl. If the girl has a positive attitude, I respond accordingly. However, it may be the case that porn can affect different people differently. It may be worth trying an experiment of not watching porn for a few weeks and see whether your problem improves.
Sometimes, if you are taking a long time to come you could try holding your breath. If you get on well with a particular MP girl, it may be good to see her several times as she will understand what turns you on.
Sexual restrictions in Sri Lanka
[QUOTE=Zulu1;1933414]If it hasn't dawned on you yet, let me tell you that it is quite obvious that the Spa scene is not for you. I do admit that sometimes the atmosphere and the low quality of the place and girl don't really help things along but there should be some reaction if not you should look elsewhere for your thrills.[/QUOTE]Zulu 1, I can see your point, as this poster is only 20 years old. If he was in a more liberal country he could have tried sexual experiments with girls who are his friends (not necessarily a permanent GF). This is difficult to do in Sri Lanka, so MP's seem to be the next best option.
Your are in a trouble mate!
I had this same issue. Still have sometimes. You shouldn't masturbate too hard. It will be really hard for you to change this habit. But if you don't do this now, definitely you will face issues in the future when you are having real sex. Try to reduce the masturbation interval. If you are doing several times per day, try to reduce this period until you will be able to stay for even few weeks without masturbating. If you don't limit this, you will not be able to enjoy the pleasure of having real sex in the future.
[QUOTE=LongTimeToCum;1933037]This is my second post on this forum.
I visited a massage parlor about a couple weeks ago which didn't look too enticing on the HitAd advertisement but turned out to be quite good. Once again I had the same problem as during my first spa visit and you can get an idea of this problem through my username. So anyway this place looked like a respectable ayurveda spot from the outside (You won't have any problems finding it, it's quite close to a main road) and the moment I entered I actually though it was only normal massages that they did here because there were lots of girls and men in the reception area and looked quite like a hospital. The nurse uniforms worn by all the girls also made it look more hospital-like. When I first entered through the open gate I actually didn't see the reception area on the ground floor and instead went straight up. (A girl on the upper floor told me there was a reception downstairs where I could choose someone). There were some fat, not so good looking, mature women with too much make-up but also a few OK looking girls. I chose the most talkative one and went upstairs. The rooms were very spacious and private with curtains instead of doors as usual. After I came back from the shower she turned the lights off and asked me whether I wanted a feeling or hard massage. TBH I didn't exactly know the difference and said that I wanted a feeling massage. She then took off my towel (nothing underneath) and asked me to lay down on whichever side I wanted. I lay on my back and she immediately started to play with my junior. She talked a lot about herself and asked me lots of questions too. She brought up her face up very close to me most of the time almost to the point of our lips touching. I felt she was trying a bit hard to be seductive but didn't actually know much about how to be seductive..[/QUOTE]