Medellin Reports

You are right of course, but for some reason this discussion happens again and again on this forum. I really don't get what is interesting about splitting hairs between pros, non pros, semi pros, semi hoes, it's absurd. Looks, performance, and personal preference / enjoyment, and the price paid, that is info I find useful. I have no problem with guys coming on here and talking about how charming they are but it gets boring.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2015107]I do not understand how you have to have game to pay a chick. Maybe to haggle a reduced rate, but certainly not to rent a pussy. If they liked you that much you would not have had to pay them. And don't give the excuse about helping out because they are poor, showed you a good time, etc. You gave them as much dick as they gave you pussy (fair exchange), but had they not given you pussy would you still be as eager to "help out" financially? I meet plenty of chicks that do all the things you say those chicks did, yet I do not have to give them money. It is just called normal dating.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2015107]I do not understand how you have to have game to pay a chick. Maybe to haggle a reduced rate, but certainly not to rent a pussy. If they liked you that much you would not have had to pay them. And don't give the excuse about helping out because they are poor, showed you a good time, etc. You gave them as much dick as they gave you pussy (fair exchange), but had they not given you pussy would you still be as eager to "help out" financially? I meet plenty of chicks that do all the things you say those chicks did, yet I do not have to give them money. It is just called normal dating.[/QUOTE]I think he might be confused about the Seeking Arrangement website. A sugar baby is someone expecting and requiring a long term financial commitment, prior to any physical exchange. She ain't giving it up until the check clears. The majority on SA, at least in Medellin, are prepagos who found a way to make more money.

If she's living in an estrato 2 barrio, she's at best a 50 k chica. No Colombian with the money to drop 300 k is going to pay that in her neighborhood, when he can get an estrato 5 chica for the same price. She might be a knockout, sweet and be awesome in bed, but her local price tag is the discount rack at Wal-Mart.

So she saves her pesos and lists on SA. She gets a gringo not only paying her a week's earning per day, he also takes her places she could never afford. It's the Colombian version of "Pretty Woman. ".

It's his money, he had a great time. Good for him. The "genuine non prepagos" had a great time and 2 days later they were truly enjoying themselves with another gringo who had incredible game. In the meantime, they were doing locals each day at 50 k a pop.

The reason why they won't name a price is because 9 out of 10 gringos using SA will pay them more than they would dare ask. They want to impress the chica with a lot of cash and the chica wants to pretend she's never done this before.

Enjoy Medellin in whatever way you can.

Holy crap, you paint a raw picture of the situation. But it's all true. It's really a whatever the market will bear scenario. The chica is worth whatever someone is willing to pay. I'm an unsentimental slob, so I get no value or thrill out of knowing I met a girl on a website with elegant graphics. I enjoy the girls for themselves. On the other hand, I don't look down on nice looking girls because they are working in 50 K casas or even strolling on the outskirts of Plaza Botero. If they look good then I'm impressed. All other things are equal for me.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2015155]I think he might be confused about the Seeking Arrangement website. A sugar baby is someone expecting and requiring a long term financial commitment, prior to any physical exchange. She ain't giving it up until the check clears. The majority on SA, at least in Medellin, are prepagos who found a way to make more money.

If she's living in an estrato 2 barrio, she's at best a 50 k chica. No Colombian with the money to drop 300 k is going to pay that in her neighborhood, when he can get an estrato 5 chica for the same price. She might be a knockout, sweet and be awesome in bed, but her local price tag is the discount rack at Wal-Mart.

So she saves her pesos and lists on SA. She gets a gringo not only paying her a week's earning per day, he also takes her places she could never afford. It's the Colombian version of "Pretty Woman. "..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PepolesBuddy;2014828] The key though gents is to have game. If you have no game, stick with Prepagos. But if you have game and are willing to put in the elbow grease, then the experience will be unforgettable..[/QUOTE]Did any accompany you to the airport and cry when you boarded the plane? Just wanted to make sure you got your 300K worth.

[QUOTE=Chicafan;2012652] I think they are just live-for-the-day people that tend to waste money on crap then get desperate. It's baffling.[/QUOTE]I live here and our amigo's conclusion sums up the Paisa mindset.

Only good energy!

[QUOTE=Paulie97;2015187]Did any accompany you to the airport and cry when you boarded the plane? Just wanted to make sure you got your 300K worth.[/QUOTE]That is more of a Brazil / Thailand thing. Never seen it in Colombia.

Relevant to the discussion on P4P vs conventional date.

Another Colombia 'ah ha' moment is the very term prepago rather than the dozens of other terms used around the world. Apart from mobile phones, I've not hear this pre-pay term used elsewhere in any language. Please correct me if you know of elsewhere. Just the using the term prepago, there is an implied acknowledgement. You'll pay "before" or you will eventually pay. Sure there is also a date and drop approach. If that's your thing, have fun.

Additionally, if you approach things as a gentleman, often the non full-time prepagos don't even treat time together as a transaction with asking for payment upfront, nor any upsell. Clockwatching occurs, most certainly in casas and high volume agencies. It creates a better illusion for either or both. If that's what you're looking for, it's' available. Colombiana passion comes in many flavors.

In this site, you'll read countless stories of "planned for an hour or two, but it ended up as a TLN" or "we ended up meeting another day just to hang out".

That's a healthy thing when both parties realize that it is an illusion.

There is a phrase in Colombia - "the need creates the solution" - which I've heard more than a few times to describe why so many women choose this route to money. I find it a refreshing look at things without placing judgement or blame.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2015257]That is more of a Brazil / Thailand thing. Never seen it in Colombia.[/QUOTE]I was being facetious. Somehow my winkie didn't make it through the screener. But sorry to hear that those looking for tears will have to head much further south or east. Lolol.

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XjMNOouIb0k[/URL]

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2015257]That is more of a Brazil / Thailand thing. Never seen it in Colombia.[/QUOTE]You are young <g> . It happened to me leaving from the Cartagena airport. And she's a regular at Reloy.

(you should see me now how I inflate myself like a peacock) (yes, it must be once in a lifetime experience).

[QUOTE=BlackPage;2015361]You are young <g> . It happened to me leaving from the Cartagena airport. And she's a regular at Reloy.

(you should see me now how I inflate myself like a peacock) (yes, it must be once in a lifetime experience).[/QUOTE]I would have started clapping. Maybe give her one of those fake academy award trophies. "Excelente! Excelente!

Hello gentlemen,

I will be arriving in Medellin on Monday as a last minute detour. I read the forum, but still am a bit confused, so I hope you guys can help me out a bit. I am fairly familiar with Cartagena, but I doubt the scene is exactly the same. I read about the mansion, I thought it was a club, but now from my understanding it's a hotel? Is there anything similar to LDV? Also can anyone recommend something couple friendly. I will be sure to post my report when I return.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2015257]That is more of a Brazil / Thailand thing. Never seen it in Colombia.[/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure he was teasing PeoplesBuddy!!

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2015112] I have no problem with guys coming on here and talking about how charming they are but it gets boring.[/QUOTE]Before my first trip to MDE last July, I read about 2 years of posts / pages in chronological order after being advised to RTFF! And it was very good advice BTW!! Anyway, my point is, self glossing runs rampant on this thread. Some mongers are very impressed with their game & will let you know it!!

El Mechanico.

Actually the 25 year old college student did without the crying LOL. Other than the GFE sex twice a day, all day / night fun dates, and overnighters. What was really special for me was how they opened up their lives to me. The college girl was proud to show me off at her university, friends, and family. As well as the other chica that lived in the commune Robledo campinha. They both showed me gems in salvenetta / envigado / itagui / Robledo campiña. Basically local barrios. Now I do agree going to the commune was stupid and I'm not doing that again. In all fairness I didn't know it was a commune until the college chica told me. But I thought it was clean, hilly, and had great character. I also smoked the strongest weed I've ever had in my life "cripa" or creepy weed LOL. I felt like a BF / lover / millionaire / baller and I must say it was an awesome feeling.

Now I don't want you to think that these 2 chicas fell from the sky. Trust me I had to put in my fair share of elbow grease. I messaged about 60 chicas, video chatted with 20, and met up with 6 for a date / interview And yes only fucked 2. I don't have sex with someone unless there's mutual chemistry and that they make me feel safe / comfortable. In other words, with chicas that are clean and disease free. And won't rob me or set me up LOL. I hear crazy stories of how prepagos drug, rob, or set up tourist to be robbed all the time.

Anyways to all the haters remember. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

[QUOTE=ElMechanico;2015413]Before my first trip to MDE last July, I read about 2 years of posts / pages in chronological order after being advised to RTFF! And it was very good advice BTW!! Anyway, my point is, self glossing runs rampant on this thread. Some mongers are very impressed with their game & will let you know it!!

El Mechanico.[/QUOTE]I don't like to brag, but women just can't take their eyes off of me when I'm pulling out the money to pay them.