Sending money..think twice.
Hi guys
Just thought I would add some of my observations about the girls and sending money. I am here in Angeles where I live..
Over the past year I have had the pleasure of meeting numerous ladies from students, bar girls to single mothers.
One thing that appears to be quite common is girls with not only one foreign bf sending money but many of them have several if not three guys sending money.
I even know of a student here where the bf (much older) living with her and generously supporting her. Unfortunately for him she has a younger Filipino bf and the part I find incredulous, is that she even had the balls to bring the guy home to a party and enjoy the man's hospitality. This character gives this girl tens of thousands of pesos a week. Now this girl openly brags to all her classmates about her activities.
In my own townhouse complex there are half a dozen girls here supported by foreign cash and I can tell you that very few of them are missing their so called foreign bfs.
Most of them are busy chatting away on yahoo and msn with multiple guys...this information they tell me direct. They are not shy about what they are up to, they rather enjoy telling you.
Now I don't mean to paint all girls with the same brush, I have also met some extremely kind and sweet girls.
Just my observations that others may find useful.
Sending or Providing Money --- Think Twice
[QUOTE=Frank4220]Hi guys.Just thought I would add some of my observations about the girls and sending money. One thing that appears to be quite commrvations that others may find useful.[/QUOTE]
Frank 4220,
Thank you for your observations. All useful for my continuing education.
The bad girls/ladies are extremely bad. Especially those who deceive their male supporters. Apparently many are incorrigible liars. When this behaviour is first experienced personally by a supporter it is an unpleasant awakening, disappointing and even distressing depending on the level of supporter involvement. Unfortunately it makes a man wary or even suspicious of all ladies.In the end a supporter (or husband) can never be certain what the lady may be doing when apart from her man. However, I have very little knowledge or experience on which to base my thinking. Even so, a theory is beginning to emerge out of the fog.
ET
Interesting post by Bill Buxton.
[QUOTE=Bill Buxton]When a gal knows you have taken all outside offers off the shelf they do change. When a gal knows you will be hers and not sharing you with the next flavor of the hr things change. The reason so many do what they do is because of US mostly. They lie, connive, and do what they have to do just to get by. Nobody wants to look the fool not us not them.
They know the game and play it like we do. The only difference is we are the ones complaining about what they do to us. They try and keep us happy with whatever skills they have developed ether in bed or out. The look listen and size up the situation and most times they get dumped. Sure bar gals tell us anything to get a buck but what do we tell um to get some a//?
When a guy finds a good gal and settles down he will have in most cases a great situation. They are mostly loyal and yes "jealous" but you will see a different person all together. What guy or gal would be happy to see the one they are staying with running around with others. What planet are you from to think anyone would like that foolishness. I went through many and found a good one so to speak and would never change a thing now.
Sure I get that funny feelin when I see some hot little spinner smile at me. But also I know I have a great gal at home also. "I am just more careful where and what I do now for sure". When the time is right you all will see that the gals are worth more than just a time or two in the rack.
B. B.
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I found your report to be interesting, thank you.
Having said that, a few days ago, I posted a transcript from a chat I had on Yahoo with a girl I met on FH. Here is a link to it: [url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=919997&postcount=1809[/url]
Basically, I met a girl on FH, and chatted with her on FH. We started chatting quite a bit, and she was telling me she only chats with me, etc. She then says she doesn't have much load on her pre-pay internet or whatever, hinting that I should send her money, and then finally outright saying so, saying it's $50 per month.
Well, later, when she's supposedly 'offline', I see her status as online on her FH profile. I figure she was chatting a bunch of guys up, so I messaged her with an alias Yahoo account. She adds me right away, and we chat, and the transcript from the link above is what happened.
Well, the next day, as my real self, I was messaging her telling her that my 'friend' had told me that she was 'cheating' on me, and she denied it of course. I then told her that my 'friend' claimed to message her on YM, and she denied that saying it wasn't true. She got angry and said that I'm breaking her heart and that she's crying, and she turns on her cam, and I actually see her crying on cam. She's either really sensitive, or a fucking good actress; I'm thinking the latter.
Then I told her, "well, my friend has a pic of you from your cam". She didn't believe it, so I told her I would send the picture. I then sent her the picture, which was clearly her. She denied that was her. LOL
She then asks me what my friend's name on Yahoo is, and I said I didn't know, that since he was my friend, he was just looking out for me and probably used a fake one. Now, at the same time, I'm signed into the alias account with a separate computer, and I'm having conversations with her as both myself and my 'friend'.
Finally, she messages my 'friend' (me, of course) asking who I am, and what my name is on FH. I then call her on her lies, and tell her she's a lying ***** and that she fucked up. I told her something along the lines of, "wow, he really liked you, how could you do this to him"...
Then the girl messages me on my 'real' account and finally fesses up and says she's sorry about what she did, and that she really did like me, and that she understands if I never talk to her again. She also says she will never ask me for money again, and that she wants me to give her a second chance.
Now, I told her I wasn't sure if I would be willing to give her another chance. All I did was tell her that I would be willing to meet her when I visit Davao. She said she'd be willing to make the trip to see me, with money out of her own pocket. I've also told her my 'friend', the one who 'outed' her, lives in Davao. Of course, there is no friend as it was all me.
She said she's still willing to meet my 'friend', even though she thinks he'll hate her a lot. I then told her that he's retired there now, living with his Filipina wife, and that he's an ex-gov't spy. She believes it too, considering 'he' was able to catch her on her lies. I told her that my 'friend' has told me to stay away from her and that she's a bad girl, but she says she's not going to be like that anymore, because she 'really likes me'. I told her my 'friend' may end up giving her some sort of test without her knowing it, like spying on her or hacking her computer, and she told me she doesn't care, because she knows she will pass the test (she knows my imaginary 'friend' in Davao has her number, address, and e-mail, which I got when she wanted me to send money via Western Union).
So, after this incident, this girl keeps messaging me all the time, and she knows full well I'm not going to give her any money.
Could it be possible that she really does like me? Maybe, like you said, she thinks that I'm 'serious' and that she doesn't need to mess around anymore? That this could be 'real'? I don't see what her motivation is anymore.
Oh, and a lot of things she told me is true, such as where she went to school and that she's a nurse (I found her Friendster and saw the hospital pics with her in uniform). I also saw some comments on her Friendster page in Tagalog or whatever language that mentions 'Korean' with words like 'beauty', which has me thinking she might have a Korean father (from the start, I felt she looked Korean, which is why, as a Korean myself, was attracted to her looks).
Maybe some of you guys have better insight.
BTW, I would post entire transcripts and whatnot, but it's just too long.
