From the way you did your post, you and I think alike, dude.
I get that the impression in reading other guys posts that they focus on themselves and don't look for cues as to what is going on in the women's minds.
They go through a laundry list of what services she performed: DFK, DATY, BBBJTC, etc.. then they conclude: "She was a GFE because she went through the entire alphabet."
They are oblivious to signs that the women are not genuinely into it, z. B. moaning because they want to urge the guys on to come quickly or kissing only halfheartedly and not like they mean it.
When I don't sense she is into it too, this, for me, is bad service. She should at least maintain the illusion.
Good service is when there is no doubt in my mind that she was really into the session, fully participated and didn't hold back on anything.
I don't know what it is but I have a sixth sense for these things.
It is a higher standard that most guys use in evaluating their sessions so if you say you had mediocre sessions there, I can actually understand what you mean.
I've had enough discussions with chicks who say: "I can't come with you. I reserve that for my boyfriend."
