[QUOTE=ShandinMine;2045024]Hi,
Need some seniors' advice for my situation.
Background A couple years ago, I got quite friendly with a Thai masseuse and got hints from her as well that she liked me. However, I was not able to move forward with clear and prompt indicators to her as I was unsure about how the arrangement should work and she drifted away into another direction eventually.
Now I have a regular masseuse that I am fond of and who is giving clear hints as well. Which is where my queries to the seniors -.
1. What kind of sugar daddy arrangement would be viable / feasible? Would it be based on gifts each time I meet her or some other kind of arrangement?
2. What can be her typical expectations about going out? I would need to keep things discrete.
3. Typically the thai girls say no men allowed at their room. Is it a way to keep you at a distance and would she typically be more welcoming to be able to use her place for some alone time with her once you're her sugar daddy?
Tips are very very very welcome! Looking for few drops from the ocean of knowledge that exists here.
Thanks in advance.
-Shandi.[/QUOTE]Well buddy the sugar daddy experience is a blessing in disguise. Of course provided you get the right girl who is not an opportunist or have some other plans in her mind. I was lucky to have a girl who was a messasue in an upscale spa who developed emotional feelings for me so it was not exactly a sugar daddy but yes I used to give gifts to keep the arrangements professional.
From the economy point of view it prove to be a highly cost saving affair because the expenditure on gifts was hardly a fraction of what I would have paid to normal working girl.
The most obvious benefit of this arrangement is the kind of experience that she is willing to offer you is something that you will never forget because her intent will be to please you. So my advice is enjoy to the fullest but keep the relation professional so that there are no confusions at a later stage don't make her feel that you are her boyfriend and keep reminding that it is indeed a sugar daddy arrangement and you are fulfilling your own need and not wanting somebody else to be a major part of your life.