An Update to Nana Car Park
This is an update to the developments I related in [URL=http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=650348&postcount=144]Nana Car Park - A Lot of Sex[/URL]
Evil
Never underestimate the power of the Internet. On another board, I got a message from a guy who said he thought he knew who Da was (that isn't the name she goes by in real life) and where she was then working (a straight job, she wasn't doing P4P anymore). In my story, I didn't describe her in much detail and hundreds of TGs have done P4P on an occasional basis, but he said this girl had told him about a farang who took her to Bumrungrad when she had a stomach problem. That's what rang the bell for him. She had mentioned it to him a long time ago in a very matter-of-fact way, so he hadn't had any reason dwell on it.
It turned out Da was actually a friend of his girlfriend, so now we had several degrees of separation involved. But after numerous messages back and forth, which he gave to his GF who relayed them to Da, all of us concluded that she was indeed the girl I had encountered that night on Sukhumvit Road.
At that point, I would have been happy to leave things as they were. My curiosity had been satisfied, there was no reason to attempt to meet her in person. In fact, there was a far more compelling reason NOT to meet her - her new boyfriend. But her friend, the girlfriend of the guy who PMed me, worked very hard to arrange a reunion between Da and myself. Whether it was a sense of romance on her part or if there were more crass considerations (Da not burning all her bridges), I don't know.
Anyway, I refused all suggestions about a face-to-face meeting, but messaged the guy to tell his girlfriend that Da, if she wished, could phone me while I was in Bangkok in November/December of 2007. I gave him my throw-away LOS cell number. We did speak and she was OK. She was in a relationship with a farang who has set her up in a small business. They more or less lived together, but he was often away from Thailand. Under the circumstances, it wouldn't have been a good idea for us to have met in person.
We talked instead for awhile on the phone. We had lost contact so suddenly because her boyfriend had insisted she break all contacts with her old life, which meant no more phone calls or emails to former clients. That was a reasonable request and it’s commendable she lived up to it - at least in my case.
She asked me a lot of questions about what I had been doing and offered to set me up with any number of her friends, especially if I were interested in marriage. I thanked her kindly, but said that I wasn't planning on getting married again. We wished each well and said good-bye. It was about as good an ending as I could have anticipated ... except, it wasn’t quite over.
Two days before I left for my March trip to LOS, I got an email from Da, asking when I’d next visit Bangkok. That was a bit spooky. I wondered whether it was karma in action or pure coincidence. After thinking about it a few minutes, I decided that the farang who had contacted me about Da, the boyfriend of her friend, had probably read on a LOS board that I would soon be back and told her.
I called her towards the end of my two-week trip. I had neither the time nor the inclination to meet her, but was interested to hear what she had to say. He sponsor had dumped her. So far, she was still making a go of the business he’d given her, but she didn’t know if that would last. In light of her changed circumstances, she was once again entertaining old customers, but trying to avoid new ones. She expressed some disappointment that I “had no time” for her. While it would have been nice to have seen again, my inner voice told me it wouldn’t be a good idea.
Again we said good-bye on an amicable note. I’m beginning to wonder not if I'll see her again but when.
What's the dirtiest thing you've done at Eden?
I'm brainstorming for my next trip and want to figure out the sickest stuff I can get away with at Eden club. I have only been there once and had a pretty straightforward 3-some - with AR during blowjob and some anal action. I'm thinking next time I might try to find some ladies willing to receive GS after I pop my cork. Does anybody else have ideas to take advantage of the liberal rules at this unique bar?