Angeles City

[QUOTE=Shazzam;2184559]It's like their is no logic to their thinking. [/QUOTE]Hahaha Shazzam for ISG (Phils thread) President!

[QUOTE=Shazzam;2184559]but so needy and princess like I can't go on, LOL. [/QUOTE]Sounds like half the girls I've dated. From a professional dropper: Drop her right now. End that madness and move on.

[QUOTE=Shazzam;2184559]Guys, to those living in AC with a local, what's it really like? Apart from the obvious sex on tap. Is their enough to do and keep yourself sane? I've been a few times and wondered what it would be like full time. I watch videos of a couple of western guys posting on youtube who live there and some find it boring and others have opened up little businesses with their wife.

My local GF is doing my head in. Asking the same questions every day. "when are you coming back". "I'm bored, send me money so I can go shopping", "I need to eat", "Do you still love me", "why you not talk to me when I call".

Now I live in Australia and visit 3 times a year, and she used to live down here for 5 years married to an abusive Aussie husband but she divorced and went home..[/QUOTE]After two years of fun, the answer is obvious. No one spends two years with the same woman in the Philippines unless it is true love. Time to make your commitment official and move her back down under to The Land O' Plenty with the baby to keep her company and a credit card to go shopping with, as she is likely to get bored when you are busy at work all day.

Alternatively, you can buy a house in Angeles City, in her name since as a foreigner you cannot own property with land attached. Sell all the things you have in Oz, move to the Philippines and live happily ever after running a little sari-sari store or rum shop. It beats sitting in Oz, wiring money, getting no Aussie puss, and dreaming of making your visit to Angeles City to drop your load. You will save money on three annual round trip tickets and hotels; with cheap booze and plentiful hookers in Angeles City, you will forget Oz in no time.

The final option is to continue with the status quo. Send her money to take of the baby and go shopping when she feels bored or craves Chicken Joy w / spaghettis. Pinays feel bored when they are horny and in need of a hard fucking. If you are unwilling to move here and provide it or move her back down under where she is accessible, you have to be much more open-minded and let her fuck other mongers and Pinoy boyfriends when she feels bored and horny. Many mongers have realistic and practical arrangements like this, as no Pinay is going to sit around wasting away her few good years without making babies and / or marriage with house and lot in the hopes a monger will return to service her three times a year. Feel free to PM me if this option interests you, as I am willing and able to help with your situation.

Shazzam:

It is worth reading this story to give you perspective on your situation; about how your girl friend will never be satisfied with what you do for her but rather will always be trying to expand the scope of your generosity.

I came to understand that there is an immense difference between vacationing and living in a place. I love vacationing in the PI. My pleasure begins with anticipating my next trip. I will not live there.

There is an old saying that a monger does not pay for a girl to stay with him but rather for her to leave. And so, by analogy, a vacationer in the PI has the luxury of departing the PI at the end of his stay and leaving all of that rat race behind him.

[QUOTE=NiceGuy99;2184564]Asiana is a great airline.

If you're thinking of mongering, skip Japan.[/QUOTE]No, I wouldn't monger in Japan. I've read enough things about mongering in Japan that I have no desire to do so there. I do enjoy visiting for other things besides mongering especially the amusement parks like Disneyland, I'm a big fan of extracurricular activities besides women.

I've never flown Asiana so good to know.

[QUOTE=NakedGunz;2184575]Sounds like your playing it safe by going someplace you already know, and I agree-Japan ain't the right place. Subic is just down the road, and worth a day trip at least. Visit a bar that night and take your BF with you to Tiger park (or whatever the name is) the next day. Its a park that showcases animal shows with a drive through enclosure where the tiger jumps on the truck your in. Its on SBMA. The perfect compliment to the Phils is a trip to Thailand, or Hong Kong.

I would just do the nine days in Angeles, with side trips to Manila and Subic for a change of venue, because I hate to waste a travel day going to another country. That's an entire day of drinking and shagging wasted! God knows flying is a pain in the ass anymore.[/QUOTE]Thank you, now that I think of it, like you suggest it's probably better to just stay in A. See. The whole time and relax instead of the hassle of flying other places and whatnot. If I had a longer time off I would visit other countries but only nine days is cutting it too close.

The reason why I was thinking of Japan was not for mongering but the other attractions like Disneyland. But I think back to past years where I've spent weeks in Thailand and I seemed to be fine with not much to do but sleep during the day and monger at night.

I'll look for other things to do like you suggest like Subic. My focus would be on finding decent companionship of course.

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;2184514]You mean in US schools don't you?

I graduated high school in Canada in the early 70's and sex education consisted of definitive and factual explanations of how sex worked, how contraception worked and methods of transmission of STI's worked. (This was pre AIDS days when just about everything was curable with one course of penicillin or other antibiotic.).

I was in a small city (pop 13,000) in the Canadian prairies, think small city in the Midwest, generally conservative in outlook (by Canadian standards) but not all hung up on the Puritan ethics of sex being bad. Perhaps it was because it was a farming community where people lived a little closer to nature and the realities of life but at least in my Canadian experience nothing like the bullshit that passes for sex ed in the US occurred.[/QUOTE]I was trying to defuse the overwrought tone of discussion about STIs. These two clips were from a 2004 teen romantic comedy movie named **Mean Girls*.

In my own experience in the 60's in the states there was little of factual value offered in sex education classes. I grew up in a small rural community where a gym teacher would have been responsible to teach that stuff. Boys and girls were sex-segregated for such instruction, and the gym teachers may not have been well enough informed to offer much of factual significance. In addition to our school teachers, there were probably fewer than a dozen adults in the community with college educations, and there was a distinctive Puritanical hangup regarding sex among the adults. You should feel comparatively fortunate to have gotten the sex education you describe.

I was self-taught in such matters, from a paperback book entitled **Love Without Fear** by Eustace Chesser. My older sister brought it home from college and left it in her bedroom after her Freshman year. She was very upset to find the binding worn out when she returned a semester or two later. I recall that the book was largely non-judgmental about oral sex (which I read about with great interest--many times), but a little judgmental about saving sex for marriage. By comparison to opinions that some folks in this forum offer about the dangers of cunnilingus, it seems amazing that Dr. Chesser could have been so misinformed.

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;2184514]You mean in US schools don't you? . . . in my Canadian experience nothing like the bullshit that passes for sex ed in the US occurred.[/QUOTE]I worked in the English department of a couple of Korean universities. The foreign faculty was a mixture of Americans and Canadians and there was always tension between the two groups. The Americans blamed the tension on the Canadians and they in turn blamed it back on the Americans. Your comment illuminates the difficulty that sometimes occurs when these two nationalities talk about each other.

[QUOTE=Pompetus;2184995]I worked in the English department of a couple of Korean universities. The foreign faculty was a mixture of Americans and Canadians and there was always tension between the two groups. The Americans blamed the tension on the Canadians and they in turn blamed it back on the Americans. Your comment illuminates the difficulty that sometimes occurs when these two nationalities talk about each other.[/QUOTE]I have worked internationally a lot mostly for US companies. In my experience the tension is more of the nature of two siblings fighting over space in the back seat of the car. We generally get along well but as the much smaller population we will always take an opportunity to point out differences as we really do not like being mistaken for Americans. (Hence the flags and maple leafs on our backpacks and luggage LOL).

From Juno Beach to the aftermath of 11 Sep to Kandahar we were always with the Americans when it mattered, even if Hollywood has never acknowledged that.

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;2185005]I have worked internationally a lot mostly for US companies. In my experience the tension is more of the nature of two siblings fighting over space in the back seat of the car. We generally get along well but as the much smaller population we will always take an opportunity to point out differences as we really do not like being mistaken for Americans. (Hence the flags and maple leafs on our backpacks and luggage LOL).

From Juno Beach to the aftermath of 11 Sep to Kandahar we were always with the Americans when it mattered, even if Hollywood has never acknowledged that.[/QUOTE]I've worked with many Canadians throughout most of my professional life, and I've never once encountered any of the problems you guys describe. For the most part, we all become close friends and there was never any tension based on nationality.

GE.

[QUOTE=Shazzam;2184559]Of course, replies are welcomed but let's please keep it friendly and constructive and not smart ass or take a swing for my comments and opinions. I'm well aware not to send lots of cash etc and that extended family goes with the girls in the country, etc. I was just after some sane opinions. She's beautiful in lots of ways, but so needy and princess like I can't go on, LOL.[/QUOTE]Your last sentence is explicit as was RK's reply. Stop it.

Maybe tell her get a job? Any job but there are call centres there (near) sales jobs etc so ask her get a job as then she won't ask for cash or be bored.

CM was also fairly straight forward also.

But live AC it is soulless and boring IMHO unless you have the age, income and stamina for 24/7 shagging LOL.

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;2185005] we will always take an opportunity to point out differences as we really do not like being mistaken for Americans. . . .we were always with the Americans when it mattered, even if Hollywood has never acknowledged that.[/QUOTE]As for Hollywood, A Wipedia site lists movie stars from Canada. Americans would be surprised by some of the Hollywood actors from Canada.

When Stephen Hawking was fitted with a new voice machine he complained, probably jokingly, that it spoke with an American accent. He could just as easily have said that it spoke with a Canadian accent since Canadian speakers and American speakers are often indistinguishable. Consider for example the accents of the Canadian actors Jim Carrey, Demi Moore, and the rich baritone voices of the great Raymonds, Burr and Massey. I understand that you do not want to get lumped together with Americans. You will please forgive me if it appears that I have just done exactly that however it was not for that purpose but rather for another illustration that our similarities far exceed our differences. And for that I am truly grateful.

Perhaps that is the source of the tension which I mentioned before: Americans find similarities with Canadians while Canadians, as you mentioned, "will always take an opportunity to point out differences ".

You can't possibly know about my sex education. I received my puberty training on the mean streets of Queens, NY somewhere between LaGuardia and Idlewild airports. I attribute the guidance I received there to my achievement as an ISG member.

Finally, I felt shared pride when Alice Munro, the great short story writer from Ontario, won the Nobel Prize for literature in 2013. Such a graceful writer and with a voice that I could say was like my own.

[QUOTE=GoodEnough;2185011]I've worked with many Canadians throughout most of my professional life, and I've never once encountered any of the problems you guys describe. For the most part, we all become close friends and there was never any tension based on nationality.

GE.[/QUOTE]It is not tension per say but more of a desire to be known as a distinct nation in our own right.

There are three pairings of countries in the world where one is about 10 times the size of the other and they are joined by a common history, culture and language. Canada / USA is one, New Zealand / Australia and Uruguay / Brazil are the others.

In all cases the relationship is very similar, outsiders have a difficult time telling us apart and the smaller country is very cognizant of the risk of being overwhelmed culturally, economically and socially by the larger and takes distinct steps to avoid that outcome.

[QUOTE=Pompetus;2185167]As for Hollywood, A Wipedia site lists movie stars from Canada. Americans would be surprised by some of the Hollywood actors from Canada.

.....[/QUOTE]That is one area where we really punch above our weight class. It is an unfortunate part of reality that since the US market is 10 x the size of the Canadian one that our best and most talented have to go south to achieve the massive fame and fortune.

I do have to apologize for Justin Berber.

[QUOTE=KabulGuy;2185172]That is one area where we really punch above our weight class. It is an unfortunate part of reality that since the US market is 10 x the size of the Canadian one that our best and most talented have to go south to achieve the massive fame and fortune.

I do have to apologize for Justin Berber.[/QUOTE]Thanks for Celine.

Many from around the world try and break into what they deem as the big league $ (Hollywood). Jackie Chan for one. People go around the world to where the talent and marketplace is. I go to AC!

Sorry KG but last I checked they don't speak Portuguese in Uruguay!

SE.

Relatively new to ISG but have been living in AC on / off for the past few years. I do work here so my experiences are a little different to others. It's been refreshing to read the forum and see the ups and downs of my fellow punters.

Over the years I have had good success in Wechat with non-professional girls. But I have come unstuck twice in the past few weeks. Ladyboys that swear they are 100% female. Same story, posing as massage girls on period, so don't expect sex. Voice not loud as they have a cough. Bula bula.

First time the one came to my hotel and I was suspicious. Once you get suspicious things can't proceed in my case. I just cut my loses and send them away.

Yesterday I took the extra precaution to meet the girl at Chowking. Once again, some suspicion so sent her away.

In both cases they didn't complain or abuse me. Not even any message after. I think if they were a real girl that they would argue more and definitely have some spite about their wasted effort.

Then all of a sudden wechat will deliver a true gem. It's the gems that make the duds part of the fun. I'm sure it's like the old miners that panned for gold in the rivers. Shift a lot of sand to get the gold.

This lady was a professional lady, non-Filipino, she is in AC for working. Being a non-Filipino female in a city where every guy is here to meet Filipino must have been hard for her. Ended up meeting her late at night and had some drink at Aqua. Back to her hotel and got entertained by her. The real irony was that the reason she was interested in me was that I had asked her if she was a lady boy. As a real woman that set her a challenge to prove to me that she was a real woman.

Looking forward to contributing more.

PL.