[QUOTE=JjBee62;2043361]But, there is always the question of her motive. Does she just try to socialize with you every time, or does she try to push you to fuck her? Is she constantly trying to get you to treat her like a novia, or does she just want to have fun?[/QUOTE]She's 21 and doesn't know what the fuck she wants to do like a lot of 21 year olds. Like many young Paisas she sees what it's like to have a foreign friend to party with so she always keeps in touch and comes out for fun when I'm in town. I think she has already told the friends she brings out with her that I'm off limits to them. Then you have the usual bullshit: "pero ella mujer mala" whenever I ask about one of her big butt friends.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2043361]If she treats you like a friend, she probably has told her family all about you and they want to meet the nice gringo friend. If she treats you like a boyfriend, she has probably told her family you are her boyfriend and they want to meet you.[/QUOTE]Yes, because I told her there was no way in hell I'm having a serious relationship right now.
[QUOTE]The weird part is in your head. What you need to figure out is how the girl sees you. Are you just a fun friend? Are you a potential sugardaddy? Are you boyfriend or husband material?[/QUOTE]I don't think she even knows. She usually has something important to tell me when I'm in town and I do my best to avoid that fucking conversation. These twenty something year old Paisas are mostly the same. 1,000+ facebook friends. Snapping photos like mad when I take them somewhere nice they couldn't possibly afford. Constantly trying to tag themselves in any photos I post in fb. But damn do they dress up and look great in the photos. I'll take them to a club with 30-50 k drinks in El Poblado and they will literally sit there for the first ten minutes snapping photos and sending them everywhere. It's hilarious.
Still I'm interested in seeing the farm and her family. Meeting Colombians my age tends to go pretty well for me and gives me a mature conversation that doesn't involve listening to some young woman talk about how badly she wants to move to the US, or how I should really take her on a vacation.