Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

And what percentage of the DIA girls you have dated end up fucking you on the first date? (do you state your desire for sex before the date or just date the girls you think are nice?)

Frankly, I think that any DIA girl who comes to your room intends to have sex with you. But, I have an experience of only 1 girl. I think I need to get back to Manila!


[QUOTE=FreebieFan]And I would say thats pretty much how I do it with the exception that

A) I try to avoid the security guards as much as possible

B) I let mine onto the balocony so they can see the 30th floor view, and usually stand behind pointing out the sights that turns into hug from behind

C) usually initiate a lonbg making out session on the sofa then carry the lady into the bedroom where the book also has the obligatory two conddoms, plus the G spot vibrator, and some KY " just in case".

Otherwise have done your scenario multiple times![/QUOTE]

lol...exactly man. I don't live in the Phils, can only visit, thus I don't have half a day to spend turning a date into some kind of drawn out romance, only to not get laid in the end after all. If I lived there I would no doubt be more into the relationship scene but when just visiting I prefer to get right the point...put out or get out...lol! The majority of Filipinas I've been with prefer a more direct, aggressive approach too, and I'm not talking about bar girls or freelancers...I'm refering to chicks I've lined up before visits.


[QUOTE=Betong]I knew there was a reason I never bothered with DIA: life is too short!

Charlie Sheen always seems to get credit these days for the line about paying them to go away, but it's been around a lot longer than he has.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]That is an interesting point. Why do you think that 50% of the girls on DIA work or worked in a bar? My own completely random estimate would be more like 5%.[/QUOTE]
I have used DIA for the last three years and I have met a lot of girls and if you ask them, they will tell you. Go online at 2 to 4 am Philippine time and see how many are online. I would guess at that time about 90% just finished working and didn't get barfined. Last Saturday I met a girl at Silver Dollar in Cebu and she told me that she is working to find a boyfriend and I asked her why she didn't try online and she told me that she has a ad on DIA, but too many guys chat/message her and say they are coming to visit, but never show up.

Robb

[QUOTE=Yella Man]Try Tagged. You can search any region in the philippines. I've been chatting with a few I've met there but I quickly become bored with that line of pursuit because it's so time consuming. I prefer just meeting women when I'm out and about in the Philippines.

YM[/QUOTE]
Correct YM on Tagged. Only problem that I found is after so many they read the comments left on your page and ask who is that:( and why do you have 500 girl friends on tagged:)

Robb:D

[QUOTE=Forest]And what percentage of the DIA girls you have dated end up fucking you on the first date? (do you state your desire for sex before the date or just date the girls you think are nice?)

Frankly, I think that any DIA girl who comes to your room intends to have sex with you. But, I have an experience of only 1 girl. I think I need to get back to Manila![/QUOTE]I think its probably about 99%. I never talk about sex with them (so they think I'm a decent guy.). Anyone who walks through my door always has sex.

Quite often after a few drinks or dinner I will suggest we go to my place and in 99% of times theres almost no reaction. Its like they expected it. And if I have a bad vibe about taking them to my place then I take them to Sogo motel. Same difference.

[QUOTE=Robbaf]she told me that she has a ad on DIA, but too many guys chat/message her and say they are coming to visit, but never show up.[/QUOTE]

Which is just perfect for guys like me that do come into MNL for work as most the girls I've gotten have NEVER meet a guy or had a guy show up in person and my success ratio of nailing them is spot on.

[QUOTE=Robbaf]Correct YM on Tagged. Only problem that I found is after so many they read the comments left on your page and ask who is that:( and why do you have 500 girl friends on tagged:)

Robb:D[/QUOTE]Or they try contacting your friends and ask " how well do you know him ? ".

That one gets tricky, especailly when you are nailing all of them. LOL

[QUOTE=Gaijin Gigolo]The majority of Filipinas I've been with prefer a more direct, aggressive approach too, and I'm not talking about bar girls or freelancers...I'm refering to chicks I've lined up before visits.[/QUOTE]I think the culture teaches them to be passive, and to go along with a man when he's confident and firm. (Much like Japan, where I grew up.) The aggressive thing isn't my natural style at all, but I've found that whenever I take charge, not only do they go along with it but they even seem to appreciate it. Saves a lot of time too!

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]Which is just perfect for guys like me that do come into MNL for work as most the girls I've gotten have NEVER meet a guy or had a guy show up in person and my success ratio of nailing them is spot on.[/QUOTE]

Spot on Tansak.
When they see that I am foreigner AND I live in Manila they go ape shit at the chance to actually meet a foreigner "in the real" (as they say).
I tend to lay low in Manila as I have a profile there.
But my trips to Cebu have to be carefully choreographed to ensure that Girl A doesn't overlap with B, C or D and that's not even considering the repeats that have to be factored in as well LOL
It's a hard life sometimes juggling work and pleasure

My success rate in terms of sex with a girl who agrees to come to my room is quite a bit lower than the 99% quoted by others. Id say maybe 70%. Maybe it's my lack of charm or frightening physical appearance, but it could also be that if possible I prefer to make the initial meeting at my hotel room rather than a mall, restaurant or public place. Clearly you would expect a higher rate from girls you have dined and who have subsequently agreed to return to your hotel/pad than girls who have agreed to meet in the hotel lobby and come straight to your room.

It has to be said that getting alot of success n DIA and the other sites can indeed be a time consuming occupation. Guys with a short holiday and a job which leads then to attach a high opportunity cost to their time may well decide to give it a half hearted attempt and if they don't luck out then fall back on the bar scene. If you are retired and have more free time then it can be alot of fun with loads of wild and wacky experiences.

For example I thought i had finally struck out last night after 5 weeks in the Phils when i just didnt fancy the girl from DIA who showed up, though she was more than willing, so i made an excuse about feeling guilty about cheating on my GF and gave her a generous taxi tip, so I thought i would spend my first night alone. The situation was rescued when there was some banging on my door at 3.30am and a couple of my previous DIA friends staggered in drunk and asked if they could stay the night so I ended up with an exceptionally beautiful 20 year old student and a big boobed and raunchy 18 year old. I did them both before we fell asleep,in the morning they wanted to take some bikini shots around the pool (some of my girls keep their swim wear in my room so I can usually rustle up a couple of bikinis). Thus we ended up having fun in the pool followed by a soapy threesome in the shower, with one of them keeping me company and satisfied until another girl arrives later today.

Unlike some of the guys here I deliberately try to encourage the girls to get to know each other (intimately) so that I don't have to worry about Girl A finding im out with B , C and D etc.

It works well for me at least.

[QUOTE=GregLondon]My success rate in terms of sex with a girl who agrees to come to my room is quite a bit lower than the 99% quoted by others. Id say maybe 70%. Maybe it's my lack of charm or frightening physical appearance, but it could also be that if possible I prefer to make the initial meeting at my hotel room rather than a mall, restaurant or public place. Clearly you would expect a higher rate from girls you have dined and who have subsequently agreed to return to your hotel/pad than girls who have agreed to meet in the hotel lobby and come straight to your room.[/QUOTE]

I would expect the opposite, only reason they should go to room is to go to straight to bed. I come out and pretty much tell them what the rules are.

I came straight out and told the girl meeting me next week on my layover that I have a rule that ladies are only allowed to wear panties on in the room so when she enters the room she needs to take off everything but her panties, her panties can stay on while we get to know each other :D

She immediately knew what her duties would be and the little 18 year old is coming over... if she bails on me, like you I have option 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 etc.... to go to..

[QUOTE=Tansak KTV]I would expect the opposite, only reason they should go to room is to go to straight to bed. I come out and pretty much tell them what the rules are.

I came straight out and told the girl meeting me next week on my layover that I have a rule that ladies are only allowed to wear panties on in the room so when she enters the room she needs to take off everything but her panties, her panties can stay on while we get to know each other :D

She immediately knew what her duties would be and the little 18 year old is coming over... if she bails on me, like you I have option 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 etc.... to go to..[/QUOTE]

I think it's a common mistake of guys to apply too much logical analysis to Pinay decision making. I'm counting amongst the 30% girls who I didn't make a try for as either they are less attractive than in photos/cam or LBs etc. Others are naive virgin types who really just want to meet a foreign guy and see what happens but who are not ready toi lose their cherry - and i don't usually apply much persuasion in such cases as i dont want to deal with that.

geniaesteban at DIA

Geriatric hooter heaven!

In Tagged you can easily HIDE BOX to the right of "friends". Options are DISPLAY 5 - 10 - 15 etc, or HIDE BOX.

You can also counter the girls asking, since they may have hundreds of friends themselves (I saw one with 30-40000 friends)

[QUOTE=Robbaf]Correct YM on Tagged. Only problem that I found is after so many they read the comments left on your page and ask who is that:( and why do you have 500 girl friends on tagged:)

Robb:D[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Robbaf]I have used DIA for the last three years and I have met a lot of girls and if you ask them, they will tell you. Go online at 2 to 4 am Philippine time and see how many are online. I would guess at that time about 90% just finished working and didn't get barfined. Last Saturday I met a girl at Silver Dollar in Cebu and she told me that she is working to find a boyfriend and I asked her why she didn't try online and she told me that she has a ad on DIA, but too many guys chat/message her and say they are coming to visit, but never show up.

Robb[/QUOTE]
I have had some girls complaining that their so called BFriends did not show up in spite of repeated calls , messages and sometimes sending money. I think it has everything to do with the country. Once you land in Phi you are in a smorgasboard of available pussies, you are afraid to get stuck with one.
Some maybe afraid trying to get DIA girl to bed is waste of time and energy. I have been guilty of that also. I promised a 18 year old in Cebu that I will spend few days with her but failed to go there. The main reason was although she was willing to stay with me and have sex, she mentioned she wants me to meet her family.
So there are many reasons why many do not make the trip or even when they are there do not make the effort to meet the girls they chat with.
However it is lot of fun to chat with them anyway.