Sosua Reports

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1663579] It's not unreasonable to consider the possibility that some women hope the guy offers, and does it smoothly so she doesn't look like a puta.

Another strategy is a woman can discuss her problems with a guy. She won't ask, but she may hope that his awareness of her needs kicks in. If she regards him as her novio, then it's likely she will expect him to offer help. Eventually! The question isnt only about does she want compensation/help, the important consideration is when?[/QUOTE]I know she probably has a long game but I was still impressed because I have been dealing with too many PFP chicas and internet chicas that immediately ask for money. It was refreshing to get "the juice" after only paying for dinner and drinks like the old days before I started mongering. I just have to find my groove because dealing with civilian non pros is a lot more tricky than straight PFP.

[QUOTE=SavePros321;1663575]The one reason trying to have a relationship with "non-pro" in another country is difficult if you do not live there full time is because, just like a woman in the USA, women like to ask for money and expect you to give them money. Otherwise you are labeled as a "broke-ass ninja" (even if you've got loot) and she moves on to the next guy who will spend freely on her.

If you are only in the DR once every 3 months or so, she has 90 days to hit you up for money request multiple times during that time frame. If you have this girl as your "main chick", you will feel pressured to comply because you are basing your next time in country on being only with her, but she could decide to bail if you don't give into her demands. That's the Juju Magic non-pros hold over guys that decide to go that route. Plus, if you do send her money, you are locking yourself into only going back to that destination (I. E. The DR) to see her in order to recoup some of your investment. Meaning, you cannot just up and decide to go to Brazil or Thailand without taking a loss on your DR chica if you've sent her $300 or so.

If your main chica is educated and has a job, then that's a plus because there is a chance she may not hit you up for money (but don't be surprised if she does; even your girlfriend or wife in the USA who has a good paying job would still hit you up for money). But the ideal situation is if you are able to be there permanently, or at least every one to two months for at least 2 weeks.

The idea of "less used" pussy fascinates all of us, but it is not without its headaches.[/QUOTE]Thats why I was asking; what fantasy or performance is a dude paying for if he is not there with the woman? And, what is a guy losing or sacrificing by not complying with a monetary request? Is the loss real or imagined?

You are correct. If a dude sends money to a woman, with the expectation that the money is going towards some future benefit, he could be setting himself up for a headache. And signaling to the woman to continue to dangle the juice carrot in the mans face. "Baby, now I need money for school" When that happens, the man feels "Now I got to get back there and get compensated for what I put out. " Like the contractor, there isn't much incentive for her to complete the transaction. She's already fully paid. It's much better for her to be on the incentive side of the equation, where she performs 1st to be rewarded afterwards. It could be something small like simply showing her a good time. To paying her rent or something significant.

[QUOTE=Camaro1257;1663583]I know she probably has a long game but I was still impressed because I have been dealing with too many PFP chicas and internet chicas that immediately ask for money. It was refreshing to get "the juice" after only paying for dinner and drinks like the old days before I started mongering. I just have to find my groove because dealing with civilian non pros is a lot more tricky than straight PFP.[/QUOTE]I hear you. I too enjoy the high for the moment, of being impressed by stuff like that.

Dealing with too many PFP and internet chicas is why it may be a little harder for us to know the appropriate response for each non-pro chica we encounter. Thats nothing for us to feel bad or awkward about in those moments. Thats just the way it is. Dealing more with non pros gives us the opportunity to develop more skills and awareness with those types of women. However, like I said before. Time is the important element here. Sooner or later it's going to come out, what a womans other motivations are with us. Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with us sitting back and letting the game come to us. She'll let us know if she eventually expects something from us. I haven't met a woman yet who had a problem getting to the point when they finally want something from me. And I surely won't underestimate the capabilities of non pros eventually seeking what they want as well.

[QUOTE=Camaro1257;1663576]I plan to be doing 2-3 month stints starting next month therefore I have to find another rhythm other than paying 2 k a hit. There has got to be a better way![/QUOTE]Going without for awhile is one option. As you know, I was in the DR for 5 months. I didn't have a woman every day, sometimes no woman for 5 days. Quite often I used my time off to rebuild my reserves (leche), and save money. Secondly, over the years I always developed having regulars that I rotated every few days. That gave me the variety I liked, and I took a lessor hit from chicas that would accept less for TLN. Plus I still checked out fresh faces that came on the scene from time to time.

None of these chicas were novias, so that still leaves me free to do exactly what you want to do. Explore outside Sosua. Having regulars is cool, so that if a dude isn't fulfilled while on expedition, he always has his regulars available to take care of his needs. Now if a dude finds a chica where he doesn't have to spend money per encounter, that may suit him just fine. Until he finds something about that situation that isn't quite appealing. Like a major demand of his time. One shouldn't devalue those 2 k hits with no strings. They may still have a place in the grand scheme of things.

Or another option? We could jerk off more, and then fantasize about the girl we want to be with, and save all of that money we would have spent for a nice expedition. Boy what would life be like without a sex drive?

[QUOTE=Jtdbusiness;1663282]I've never been to Sosua, and just drove through Boca Chica. I'm in the USA and have tomorrow (Thursday) through Sunday available. Should I take a first trip to Sosua or go to Boca Chica / Santo Domingo. I've been online today and have a half dozen specific women interested in meeting me in BC / SD, but no established contacts in POP / Sosua. Which location should I go to? I'm traveling solo.[/QUOTE]Unless you are flying into Santiago or PP, I say you should stick to the area that you are familiar with. Boca Chica is no Sosua however you have hookups in Boca and you are familiar with the area. Unless you speak understandable Spanish traveling solo to Sosua from Santo Domingo I do not suggest. One of the best things about Boca Chica is its proximity to the airport it's simple for one to take baby steps. Is the best place on the south coast for p4 p. Read up a little in the Boca Chica threat because there are a lot of pitfalls in that small town. If you need contact set up hit me up I have a few friends there at the moment.

[QUOTE=Jtdbusiness;1663282]I've never been to Sosua, and just drove through Boca Chica. I'm in the USA and have tomorrow (Thursday) through Sunday available. Should I take a first trip to Sosua or go to Boca Chica / Santo Domingo. I've been online today and have a half dozen specific women interested in meeting me in BC / SD, but no established contacts in POP / Sosua. Which location should I go to? I'm traveling solo.[/QUOTE]You don't need any contacts in Sosua which is very user friendly. Skip Boca Chica as it is the armpit of the DR.

[QUOTE=Surfer500;1663629]You don't need any contacts in Sosua which is very user friendly. Skip Boca Chica as it is the armpit of the DR.[/QUOTE]I agree but he only has three days.

[QUOTE=NakedGunz;1663534]Having worked in Thailand, Phils and primarily "over there" on the other side of the world, I can DEFINITELY say you will get GFE OVER THERE. I felt safer in recently bombed Nairobi, Kenya than in Sousua. GFE from the most bootyful women you will ever meet, and there are millions in Nairobi. Pinays are the sweetest women in the world by nature. Just look at how they pose so willingly for pics while bare assed and being shagged in that forum. I got a very bad taste for Sousua. I bought one biatch a beer and she thought she owned me. I only monger in this hemisphere when I'm stuck in the states for an extended period.[/QUOTE]I used to follow that one German dude who sold the VCDs of his adventures and I have to say. Those Kenyan women were incredible! How do they compare in bed with the Sosua chicas?

[QUOTE=GrownMan1;1663506]AAin't that the damn truth. in Boca Chica I asked the bums for money before they asked me. I always remind them I gave last time now it's your turn. If you can't return the favor don't talk to me no more you are useless. They avoid you like to plague when you remind them they owe you something.[/QUOTE]That is one to remember. LOL.

[QUOTE=Grub1;1663656]That is one to remember. LOL.[/QUOTE]Keep in mind though that Grownman looks like a bum and can blend right in with the Boca Chica beggars and hustlers.

[QUOTE=Camaro1257;1663576]I plan to be doing 2-3 month stints starting next month therefore I have to find another rhythm other than paying 2 k a hit. There has got to be a better way![/QUOTE]If you are going to be down there on a regular basis or for a long term residence, just keep in mind that sex is a commodity, and just like with food, transportation, and accommodation, and it pays off big time to get properly organized.

You can get tired of renting a different car every day, changing hotel rooms every week, or running out to a fast food joint at 2. 00 am looking for something to eat. Same with women.

Judging from what you post here, I'm sure you'll have no difficulty in finding a good economical and convenient arrangement for all your needs down there.

DR is that kind of place.

Good luck! And keep the reports coming.

Cam find someone you enjoy being with but let them no that you have someone else in another town. Let her think she is the other women. She will be pleasant and work hard to be number one. Having a regular girl has some great benefits. They will cook clean and and keep your johnson busy. Dominican women are great in relationships. Popi is boss and gets all the benefits.

[QUOTE=Oakie;1663921]If you are going to be down there on a regular basis or for a long term residence, just keep in mind that sex is a commodity, and just like with food, transportation, and accommodation, and it pays off big time to get properly organized.

You can get tired of renting a different car every day, changing hotel rooms every week, or running out to a fast food joint at 2. 00 am looking for something to eat. Same with women.

Judging from what you post here, I'm sure you'll have no difficulty in finding a good economical and convenient arrangement for all your needs down there.

DR is that kind of place.

Good luck! And keep the reports coming.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for your encouragement. I am in the process of setting up some mutually beneficial relationships as a type. I am enjoying the journey but our previous conversations about "ayuda" and "Western Union" is being tested. What Wrx2005 said about chicas intentions being delayed is so true. I am starting to see the character of a few chicas I have been working for a while. Sometimes it takes a while to tell the difference between a rock and a turtle.

Another interesting phenomenon I am seeing is sometimes there is no request for money but instead request for gifts. The request can range from a bikini to an Iphone6. I am developing a strategy that includes giving gifts but nothing that exceeds my "toto budget" in the same way we set caps on what we pay our PFP chicas. I know we all differ in what we pay and are willing to give but for me I am discovering the best path to take for civilian non pros is to give but to stop short of everything that she wants. I realize I will have to pay one way or the other but I think it is important to maintain my leverage in order to make this an enjoyable dance for everybody at the party.

[QUOTE=OldKool;1663949]Cam find someone you enjoy being with but let them no that you have someone else in another town. Let her think she is the other women. She will be pleasant and work hard to be number one. Having a regular girl has some great benefits. They will cook clean and and keep your johnson busy. Dominican women are great in relationships. Popi is boss and gets all the benefits.[/QUOTE]Its funny how the mind works. I told a young lady that I have an older Puerto Rican mujer that owns a woman clothing store and takes care of me but she despises Dominican. I told her she gives me money and I give the money to you. You should have seen the devilish grin on the young chica's face. She made a motion and reference to the Puerto Rican lady sorta like giving her the finger. She really enjoyed the ideal that she was getting over. Her position was to satisfied me just and she liked it.

Does anyone know what the going rate is on the streets of Sosua?

Thanks