Lady Boy Experience: When in doubt, don't take out.
True Story from 4 years ago: Sorry it's long overdue but I wasn't on this forum, I was using Pattaya Addicts and have since switched to ISG as I've expanded my travels beyond Thailand and also had issues becoming a trusted member with PA.
Spent about 3 months in Thailand, mostly in Bangkok, and always bragged I could spot a lady boy and never be fooled because regardless of surgery, even shaved adam's apple, you can tell a dude by the shape of the face.
Well, towards the end of the stay in Thailand, I was in Nana Plaza at one of the go go bars filled with girls, not lady boys. My my experiences mongering in SE Asia to date, my best have always been with girls, whether FL or bar girls or go go bar girls, who come on to you. My friend would always choose the hottest chick in the place and would always complain the next day about service whereas I would get my brains fcked out because I'd take the girl home that would approach me and shared some chemistry with. As I'm sitting there in a pretty dark go go bar in Nana Plaza, one of the "girls" comes straight to me, jumps in my lamp and starts making really vulgur sounds and talking dirty to me. At first I'm thinking, ok here we go, this is a winner, she's going to be a champion in the sack, not a cold fish. Then I'm thinking, despite the tits, pretty face, and tight little body, this kinda looks like a lady boy. So she's trying to get me to BF her. The go go bar is rotating sets of of girls on stage, and they are only wearing g strings, so tell her that I want to watch her dance first and ask her when she is going on stage (so I check to see if she's got a package or not). She goes on stage with the next round, and everything looks kosher. I'm relieved and BF, and just broke my one and only rule, when in doubt, don't take out. We leave, head get a cab back to my hotel and pretty much when the cab door closes and I'm seeing her in the light outside the club, sure she's a lady boy, if for no other reason that I no longer find her attractive at all, and want nothing to do with her. But I don't know what to do at this point except find out for sure. We get to my hotel room, she tries to go for my dick, I stop her and I'm like take off your clothes. She won't take off anything below the waste. I insist and she's not having it saying she's shy. Bull shit, I've already banged dozens of girls in Thailand and SE Asia, even the shy ones will get naked and lay back and take it missionary like a cold fish. So I just straight up say Thank you, I'm not interested, here's your money (we agreed on like 1500 baht I think but it was awhile ago) , just go. She took the money and was like "You want me to leave?" and seemed really surprised. I had to confirm several times and she (he) left with my money. I know other board members would have kicked her (him) out with no $$, but honestly, I was freaked out enough that it was worth paying him to leave, and have the whole thing over with. When she left I felt like I dodged a bullet (no blowjob, no handjob, I can say I've never hooked up with a dude). I headed straight to Pattaya and it took me several nights before I wasn't second guessing any of my decisions again. If you don't want to hook up with a lady boy, its easy, just stick to my rule: If there is any doubt, find someone else, it's Thailand, you can't throw a rock without hitting some young thai girl that wants to fck you for $$.