[QUOTE=Frannie;1677540]Well, the content of your posts is what you are putting out there for other people to read, including some who have never been to the DR but are thinking of it. I got a PM just today from someone who is making his first trip to the DR in June. What will he make of your posts?[/QUOTE]Lets put it this way. There are dozens of individuals that regularly post in this forum. Over the years many were in accord, and even said the same things I said. About their experiences and their observations. We can't all be wrong or blind. You think I'm going to overlook those that can relate, and take the position that every person here that had a problem with the content of my posts, their opinion and assessment matters over the ones that agree, or report the same things? Of course not. And why would you take that position?
Remember, those individuals that agree or relate to my content are not the ones personalizing, in this forum or when we discuss. So that tells me something. There isn't anything wrong with the content, there is something wrong with certain individuals reading it, and making their own assessment of what the content represents to them? You of all people have a tendency to try to assign a persons position for them, and twist the content to mean something else. So at some point it's not my content that's an issue, it's your revised interpretation of it. So it's your re manufactured version of my content you are having a problem with, not mine.
There are far more individuals in this forum that have acknowledged much of the content I provided, than the select few who arent even saying I'm wrong. Or showing where my POV is incorrect. All they are doing, is what some people usually do when they can't win a debate / argument. Or their position is weak. Change the subject, deflect to something else, or claim there is something wrong with the messenger. What was the recent line? Something about me only being powerful when typing here? That sentiment speaks volumes.
Now about the individual making his 1st trip? Who knows what he'll get out of it. There are hundreds of posts to catch up on. Maybe they'll get a perspective from every one that posts here, not only from me.
[QUOTE]It doesn't sound like you mistreated this chica. You spoke to her a couple of times at the beach and then asked her to meet you, but then you didn't like her attitude, fed her, and dismissed her. Fine. Probably she was a waste of time.[/QUOTE]Thats basically it. Now if you can understand that possibility, why would we have others read the same thing you read, and ONLY assume the chica had an attitude from having multiple meetings but not being taken? It's because those individuals have a problem. It's not the content in my post.
[QUOTE]But just like you ask other posters to consider you as a real person, not just a cyberspace philosopher, you might as well also consider the point of view of the chica.[/QUOTE]I never said I didn't consider the point of view of the chica. You perhaps think I feel that way, because you obviously need that to be typed in order for you to know how I feel about it. I can't type just to please you, or keep you from assuming shit without evidence. I'm too busy focused on a particular point to know you are even thinking like that. And you arent going to ask me for clarity on what my point of view is anyway, you are going to do what you usually do which is assign someones so called feelings / pov to them. And then when I tell you that's not my position or not my whole position, you want to blame it on the content in my posts. Thats the extent of what were dealing with here.
Here it is in a nutshell. Whatever happens to chicas is going to happen to them anyway. My POV aint going to matter, because it's not my problem. When those chicas find themselves in the company of guys that feel them up, give them false hope, deliberately lead them on, they will have to deal with that. My consideration doesn't matter, it aint going to change the outcome because it's not me they have to deal with. So once again, you trying to get me to be considerate, for what? I don't know? When I am in the company of chicas I am very considerate. You can't seem to distinguish the difference between having a discussion and entertaining an idea, from assuming a persons character / POV. You should be addressing that to the guys actually taking up chicas time, and giving false hope. As far as chicas are concerned, they can see themselves as victims if they choose to. They can continue to rely on false hope if that is all they know. Thats not my problem or concern. Me having empathy won't change anything either, it's still them that have to deal with the consequences for how they choose to spend their time with a monger.
I still say, where is the chicas responsibility to herself?
