Remove Emotion...Mongering Alone Has Advantages
[QUOTE=Carmex]First time posting, long time reading. Was in AC just last month and am going back next week. Here is what I found:
The place was safe.
I had more sex than I could handle.
Every girl I met just wanted to have fun and fuck.
Every rumour I had ever heard about the PI was true. (and then some)
I met as many non BF girls as I did BF girls.
I haven't fucked that much since I was in High School.
Unfortunetly, after reading these posts I realize the place was not Disneyland and now my reality is shattered. It is kind of a bummer when you learn the truth. Like when you first learn there is no Santa Claus. One girl I hooked up with and exchanged emails just asked me for help (money) because her kids were sick, she was sick, couldn't work, etc. Bummed me out.
Also signed up for filipinaheart.com and now I find out that all those girls are pros and scammers. Even the sweet and innocent looking ones! Right now my buddy just backed out of going back to AC because of funds, but I still have my ticket. I am wondering if I should even go alone? Let me know guys I need some moral support.
Thanks
Carmex[/QUOTE]
I have learned a hard and painful lesson when dealing with Filipinos. Remove all emotion. Go there... fuck and go home. As for sending money...Forget it. The requests will never stop. Don't even start.
Go there... enjoy... go home or like me relocate there but still no emotion. Disney land? It feels that way because these girls need money and you have it. Western countries are Disney land to millionaires and billionaires. Smell what I am cooking?
If you are the marrying type stay away from the bars and look for one who is educated and making her own dough. In most cases her salary will be small compared to western standards and she will still feel as if she has some "debt" to her family but she won't be looking for a handout right way....
About going and or going alone. I have found traveling alone to be great. Last time I went mongering co-workers you had guys talking behind the other guys back. He is in with the "hookers" etc... Guys running out of money, some sad because they are not having any luck with the ladies, whining saying "I don't like paying for it"... ridiculous.
Filipina Heart Scammers??!!
Dear Carmex,
I beg to differ. I met online - then in person - a bunch of nice girls on Filipina Heart. You need to find a way to separate the wheat from the chaff. I did this by composing a 7 page letter being very direct about what I was looking for. About 50% of the FH girls either didn't respond or said they are not the girl I am looking for.
Those that responded were genuine.
Of the dozen I met on 4 trips, only 1 was a waste of my time ( and I only let her waste 2 hours till I left)
I have a Fiance visa in the works for a nice lady - 37 yrs old - from Negros Occidental.
Good Luck in whatever you do.
[QUOTE=Carmex]
Also signed up for filipinaheart.com and now I find out that all those girls are pros and scammers. Even the sweet and innocent looking ones! Right now my buddy just backed out of going back to AC because of funds, but I still have my ticket. I am wondering if I should even go alone? Let me know guys I need some moral support.
Thanks
Carmex[/QUOTE]
Well heres one for you...
I have a friend she used to work in Champayne and is now currently working in Bodyshop. I met her last February 2007 when she was new to he seen (3 weeks). Any way, I have seen her change from shy and not great in bed to "wowowee". She cried when I left that February (the usual) an I saw her in May 2007, August 2007, November 2007, February 2008 and April 2008. We write and we are blatenly honest. She tells me her bf and I tell her mine. She gets jealous but says she would rather know than have one of her girlfriends say they saw me and she not know. She says she has loved me for the past year. But you know what! She has NEVER asked me for moey. Not even hint it. Is this an exception to bar girls. I don't know but when I am there the sex is free and absolutely the best.