You guys dont know how lucky you are
Having spent most of my life in LA and several years in China and Italy, now residing in Kunming, I visited Hong Kong for some medical consultations and to change my visa. I stayed for three nights in a guest house in Kowloon and had quite a bit of time to walk the streets and sample the ladies of Kowloon. I managed to find some of those websites for 141 ladies and visited 37 Dundas once. From the point of view of a short time visitor, I find HK a just incredible and inexpensive place to enjoy sexual activity with women. You can spend an entire night with a 141 girl in a clean room for less than the cost of a hotel room by yourself. The 37 Dundas place allows you to have two girls for what you would pay for one in a similar place in Beijing. You guys have it great.
First time in HK impressions
hi guys,
this will be my first post, and i'm just going to introduce myself after reading the forum (mostly the asia ones) and maybe even contribute some. firstly, i was born in hong kong but raised overseas. i return to hong kong every so often, its actually quite boring for me, never had anything to do in hk. but then, i turned 18 last year. and what was i going to do? even from a young age i had always known hong kong to be famous for the working ladies and the red light districts.
so, on to my experiences. the last time i went back to hk was last year during christmas time. what i was interested was the 141, i can read chinese so i had gone to some chinese language forums to talk to people about that, but then i realized when i actually had the opportunity to go that i didn't have the guts to go through with at at all. i was also wary of the sauna's as i knew that prostitution is illegal in hk so i believed all sauna's were legitimate. i was taken on tours to tsim sha tsui, but i lived the closest to wan chai. one day i just happened to walk down lockhart rd and see all these signs. what were they? i thought they were strip clubs, so one night, after going to one of the regular bars on lockhart, sitting there and watching a football match (arsenal, urgh), i thought, fuck it, lets go. that's where my adventure of foolishness and awkwardness begins.
firstly, i am not very tolerant of alcohol and having been pestered by the beer girl to order some chi and also having a few beers myself i think (not my drink), i was a little bit woozy. i walked over to one of the places that i was so interested in, one of the ones at the end of the street closest to the mtr exit (can't for my life remember the name, i will try and find it) and said to the old asian lady out the front "i can go in right?" she was all "oh yeah, yeah". i walked in, pushing through the red drapes, expecting a biggish club full of guys and hot girls and what i considered to be debauchery as a child. well, it wasn't. i was the only one in there (i don't remember what day it was, it was a weekday, but it was about 10pm), surrounded by a bunch of thai girls.
i was mildly shocked, 1. because i had actually gone in, 2. the place wasn't at all what i thought it would be like, 3. the girls were not as beautiful as i thought they would be. i went and sat down at the bar (there were sofas opposite it, but i thought it would look most casual if i ordered a drink. also they may have been leading me there), and ordered a drink. instantly 2 girls, one more attractive than the other, hit me up and asked for drinks. i was like "yeah alright", the old lady at the bar showed me the price of the drinks. $200?!?! each?!?!? i was too nervous to care then, i just wanted to look like i wasn't nervous. then they asked me to buy a drink for their friends as well, i answered yeah just a bit too quickly, without even seeing her (i'm pretty sure i didn't end up seeing her at all).
in a state of nervous and drunken confusion (i am quite shy with strangers, trying to work on it), i started talking to the two girls with me while two others were dancing on the bar in just their underwear (was not that interesting...), we talked about a lot of stuff, including my home country (i'm not so comfortable speaking cantonese, although i can. it's like an edison complex), and i had an embarassing episode where at one point they thought i was **** when i told them my birthday. i showed them my passport out of nerves i guess, and that was it. another girl came up to me at one point and just grabbed my crotch. i was not ready to have any reaction then, also i was wearing tight jeans, it was slightly awkward as she felt around trying to find something.
i tried to convince the hotter one to take me out for a "good time" and they told me it was going to be something ridiculous like 2000, and even then sex was not guaranteed or something. good for me, i had no money left. i declined (they didn't want me anyway, they spoke in cantonese which i pretended not to understand. i'm good looking but as i understand these girls have something against younger guys, especially as young as i am) and prepared to pay the bill. somehow they had managed to get me to pay for another drink for each of them, and i ended up paying over 1 grand without having had any action at all, barely felt them up because i was so nervous, one of them was trying to get me to touch them though, holding my hand and moving it around their body. it was the less hot one...
so i paid the fee, and stumbled out of the bar dazed and confused and feeling like i'd been ripped off (which i now know i had). i contemplated going to another place but as i did not have much money left and afraid of a similar experience, i quickly took the mtr back to where i was living.
wow. as i was writing that i felt dumber and dumber, especially after reading the forum extensively. that was the first and only time i have made any contact with the adult industry, i know that experiences can be quite different now, but i think i learned a lesson and i will be less nervous next time i go, which i have no idea when it will be. hope you guys had a good laugh from that, i look back at it today and feel it was probably the most awkward night of my life (not even losing my virginity was that nerve-wracking).
so i just need to know something from my experience. what did i do wrong? well i know what i did wrong, i paid them, but what in particular that i did made them try to rip me off like that? how do people generally behave in the strip bars to get what they want? i have read about experiences you guys have had, but i'd like some tips, as i would like to take it slow and graduate from say easiest and least awkward (i.e. bar and clubbing scene) to the more awkward and difficult (141 and sauna massage). i hope that was an adequate report, showing how newcomers can screw things up horribly.
happy hunting guys.
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Re: First time in HK impressions
Yunis,
As per Ami's post, try the bars in Wan Chai he mentioned, they're great. Best time to go is after 9-10pm, not much will be happenig before that. Doesn't matter if it's week day, or weekend. Go in, grab a beer, relax, and observe. I'm new to Hong Kong, and I learned a lot just by doing that.
Good luck!