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[QUOTE=StubbornMule;2867236]I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]Just look at older men who are attractive. DiCaprio throws women away after they turn 26. Pacino is 80 and just got his 29 year old girlfriend pregnant. Monika Lewsinsky was in her early 20's when she sucked Bill Clinton off. Basically some men age with their wives but I would argue that they're settling. The evidence suggests that men who are able to, generally trade in their wives for younger models.

[QUOTE=StubbornMule;2867236]I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]If you both truly love each other, as your relationship (and yourselves) matures, physical beauty is replaced by something else. You each become attractive to the other for different reasons. Only the most shallow and self-absorbed people never experience this.

When I married my late wife I thought she was very attractive. Over the decades her looks faded, but her inner beauty grew. It sounds corny, but it was very true.

Now I have Mexican GFs of 50,49, early 40's, 30, and 25. And a Thai GF of 61. I appreciate each of them for their uniqueness. They all have varying levels of physical beauty, but I find that isn't the most important thing in a relationship. Much better to have a kind and sweet 7 than a psycho-***** 10.

[QUOTE=StubbornMule;2867236]I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]I'm in my mid-50's and women my age are grandmothers. If I date them, I run the risk of being attracted to their daughters who are in their 20's and 30's. IMHO, marriage is something one should do if one wants a family with kids. But just be aware that living together is tough and a majority of marriages end after 7 years according to statistics, so keeping her a wife for 30 years (20 to 50) requires a lot of effort. But hey if a 20 year old is willing to marry my 55 year old ass, I'll give it a try!

[QUOTE=StubbornMule;2867236]I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]It's extremely rare for me to find a woman in her 50's to be attractive. And when I do, it's usually somebody on TV LOL! That said, I have a colleague in her 50's who is hot and who I would fuck in a heartbeat! Otherwise, it's also exclusively women in their 20's and 30's for me too. And I've never had to adjust because, after becoming a committed monger, I've been able to just keep fucking hotties in their 20's and 30's, and I'm happy with that. I decided a long time ago for my own personal reasons that marriage (and all of the challenges that come with it) wasn't for me. Like you say, I calculated that marriage, for a variety of reasons (including but certainly not shallowly limited to how one's spouse might look 30 years later), was a very bad deal. Jackie888 mentions some of the pitfalls of marriage, but that's only the tip of the iceberg really.

So, despite societal expectations and pressure I decided not to go there, and to instead focus on my education, establishing a career, and earning and saving money. Then when I discovered the world of mongering where I could have as much sex as I could both handle and afford, well then that sealed it. That's all she wrote! Speaking of societal expectations, I remember when I landed my first professional job. It was coming right out of university, and one of the female professors stated that now that I was going to be employed, I needed to get married because, in her view, every gainfully employed man needed to be supporting dependents. Really? Uh, I don't think so! Well, I didn't always deflect the weight of the pressure that easily, but by the time I decided to become a pro monger many years ago, that did it for good. Monger for life!

[QUOTE=StubbornMule;2867236]I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]There must be something to marriage as throughout human history billions of people have tried it.

This link was posted in another thread by another monger. Have a look at it, even if it's just the first 10 minutes. The guy is so on point! Listening to it, I say to society that I know [B]nothing[/B] is wrong with me. I agree with a lot of what he says, and with respect to the the institution of marriage acted accordingly based on what I knew would work best for me and the life I wanted to live. Check it out:

[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5z8-9Op2nM&t=47s&ab_channel=SoftWhiteUnderbelly[/URL]

[QUOTE=StubbornMule;2867236] I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? [/QUOTE]HELL NO! Tom Leykis said it best "The cure for Erectile dysfunction is banging YOUNGER WOMEN".

No, I'm not attracted to 50's or 60's chicks. If I was, I would never have to monger. The amount of old broads that hit on me is horrifying. There is something called post nut clarity. It happens after fucking young attractive girls too. It's almost like after 3 or 4 bangs, she all of a sudden becomes unattractive to me. An old woman doesn't even get me to the starting line to experience it.

[QUOTE=SlickVick0303;2866327]Sorry Vets don't want to get slammed for this seemingly which is better post, but I legitimately want to put this out there as someone who has been to both Tijuana (many many times) and Medellin (just once).
[/QUOTE]Even flying in from the East Coast 3 times or so a year, the overriding factors for me are language barrier and convenience. A high percentage of service workers, including a good enough percentage of the chicas, speak passable English. This includes food and retail service workers out and about Tijuana. The USA Dollar is also pretty much universally accepted everywhere in Tijuana and the good ole USA Is literally within walking distance of Zona Norte.

That all amounts to a level of comfort that, at least for me, makes Tijuana preferable to Medellin and the other destinations outside the USA You can look at quality (which is subjective) and cost of chicas in those other destinations but, IMO, the gap isn't that wide and at least for me doesn't come close to making up for the decreased convenience.

For you (being 90% fluent in Spanish as you mentioned) and several others on this board, language barrier I guess isn't really a big issue given your fluency in Spanish. So can see why those other destinations might be more desirable for guys like you. But a large percentage of gringos who go to Zona Norte don't speak a lick of Spanish and don't have the time to fly to another continent in another part of the world.

I'd guesstimate that I know 2,000-2,500 Spanish words and can read / speak / understand very basic stuff, but wouldn't be comfortable (relative to my comfort level in Tijuana) pursuing chicas in a country where another language is spoken exclusively. Am working on improving the Spanish though, LOL.

Tijuana is convenient and probably the safest among the 3 places. You can stay in a hotel in La Zona, pop 3, 4 hot street girls or bar girls and escorts a day easily. HK has a big selection of girls every night. If you speak decent Spanish, spend couple nights buying fichas for your favorite girls in HK, you may bag a few hot girl friends. Many HK girls are not hardened sharks. You will find a few very nice, sweet and hot young girls. This MO works for my wingmen. They party with girls in hotel room, have long sessions of hot, sometime BB, sex with girls they met once or twice in HK, a lot more personal than typical bar girls sex. A wingman has been visiting many HK girls in their hometowns, hot sex, BF treatment, GFEs, home cooked meals, parties with locals ect all gratis.

Botero Plaza in Medellin has hundreds street girls in day time, almost all are hotter than the crazy and ugly freaks in Parque Lleras. I am not an expert in Colombia, but why would anyone want to fuck those ugly girls around P Lleras? But Botero Plaza shuts down at might. You can hang out at Gusto or other clubs, but they are a long drive from Parque Lleras and start late. There are significant risks for petty crimes. Puta thieves practice thousands times and will find ways to steal your wallet, passport, phone. Would be a very big problem for you.

Cartagena had lots of street girls, some young and hot Vennies, near the clock tower and in front of clubs in the old town. They have been raided a few times, not sure if they are still there. You have to take girls to hotels away from the old town with bad traffic, waste of time. Again crime risks.

Bogota's Santa Fe district has lots of hot young girls with half a dozen strip clubs working early morning to late at night. You can stay in the Candleria old town and enjoy the Latin culture not yet Americanized like Tijuana. Again be careful of petty crimes.

Park Lleras is a very poor choice. You can do better in all other locations.

[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2867604]No, I'm not attracted to 50's or 60's chicks. If I was, I would never have to monger. The amount of old broads that hit on me is horrifying. There is something called post nut clarity. It happens after fucking young attractive girls too. It's almost like after 3 or 4 bangs, she all of a sudden becomes unattractive to me. An old woman doesn't even get me to the starting line to experience it.[/QUOTE]You need to watch grandma porn. Watch enough porn you can get into anything just about. Certainly older woman and even fat woman. If I'm drinking ill fuck fat woman if it's free and they have good breath.

[QUOTE=StubbornMule;2867236]I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]As I get closer to 50 I now find older woman attractive, if, they are in shape. And have long hair, in other words not man's haircut like most older woman who have hair thinning issues. I have a friend 72 asain I am very attracted to her she won't let me touch her. Yeah she's got wrinkles but she's got no fat is pretty and dresses like a rich woman it turns me on. The problem is finding woman over 55 in usa with nice hair and being in gym shape or thin, is very hard. White woman have bad hairless by that age. Latino woman don't have hairless but they are less likely to be into physical fitness. If you go on tinder in San Diego there's endless amount of 55 yo white woman with in shape bodies I know everyone of you would bang.

[QUOTE=Dogers69;2867871]As I get closer to 50 I now find older woman attractive, if, they are in shape. And have long hair, in other words not man's haircut like most older woman who have hair thinning issues. I have a friend 72 asain I am very attracted to her she won't let me touch her. Yeah she's got wrinkles but she's got no fat is pretty and dresses like a rich woman it turns me on. The problem is finding woman over 55 in usa with nice hair and being in gym shape or thin, is very hard. White woman have bad hairless by that age. Latino woman don't have hairless but they are less likely to be into physical fitness. If you go on tinder in San Diego there's endless amount of 55 yo white woman with in shape bodies I know everyone of you would bang.[/QUOTE]I like the exact same thing I liked when I was 20. There is basically no difference. I rarely find a woman over 35 attractive. If I did, she would basically have to be a freak of nature. I actually wish I could find older women attractive, but no amount of "granny porn" is going to make it happen, LOL.

[QUOTE=GentileBear;2867577]HELL NO! Tom Leykis said it best "The cure for Erectile dysfunction is banging YOUNGER WOMEN".[/QUOTE]Amen to that.

I recommend taking 'Blue line' trolley, park at Palm. Boycott the parking mafia who want $22 van / truck every 8 hour increment. Takes about an extra 15 minutes. Each way. You'll also see some interesting people;).

100 people crossing in with me, Thank god! 95% stage left. 3 young ladies with American passports at the counter (based on looks alone headed for weekend work at Hong Kong) One of them was stunning about 22-24 max, taller version of Selena Gomez with blonde highlights. The inner 'save a Ho' in me, thinks myself or one of you fellers could offer her a better lifestyle. Maybe not LOL.

Taxi Mafia (Gringo tax) - now pushing $10 to get to Hong Kong. I made poor choice of saying drop off Hong Kong, making rookie mistakes. Some even want $5 per person in car load. Got a guy to go for $7 but then he argued for more on drop off. The old bait and switch. Off putting start. $5 going back was easily accepted.

Arrived at 3:30 pm. Strolled the back alley and side streets. Filled with afternoon delight ladies of all style, looks, shapes, and ages.

Tropical Bar around 4 pm. Had a nice vibe and $3 beers makes a nice chill "AB" like warm up spot. Lot's of ladies waiting for customers about 30 mainly cute and chubby mama's, but a few (1-3) of mid-level HK category. Most had a friendly vibe / personality and eager to chat. I circled back later when the crowd arrived sporting their brightest Dulce and Cabana wear and of course the vibe changes like always when the ratio of buyers outnumbers sellers.

Chicago around 4:30 pm. Seems like a pre-party time, bit of a strange vibe. There were a long line of ladies to the left 9-10.+ a few more scattered around the club. 1-2 spinners sitting in the line up that caught my attention. But the ladies didn't seem very friendly perhaps they were still warming up and waiting for the large crowds to arrive. There was a really cute waitress I spotted as I exited who did look very tasty and friendly. Returned around 9:30 and it was packed and live similar to old time AB. Lot's of foreign South American flavor fake everything and plastic surgery look. There was a superstar dancing on stage. Sort of a brunette Shakira with curly hair, light skinned, short petite sexy chica. If I were to do it again I would be there around 6-7 pm and well rested to put in my bid.

Hong Kong (5 pm) was filled with its normal large selection of all shapes sizes and ages. I got hooked by a lady that goes by Cherry, long and slender Thailandia style. She told me 21 but in reality more like 25-26. She was cool, sexy, and flirty in the club. Friendly vibe and entertained my broken Spanish a tad uptight at times as expected. Upstairs the BJ was decent and short followed by mish, next her slim waist in doggy is all I needed. Although a bit pro-cedural, I would double back again if needed to have that prime time visual.

Settled back downstairs to relax the legs and caught the bubble bath showgirls getting extremely freaky. Nothing new, except one was fisting herself quite easily. God dam! Had not seen that en vivo. Similar to a car wreck, I want to turn away from that vision of a baby head entering and exiting, but something makes me keep watching. Maybe it's the big smile on her face? I couldn't help to think, wow, that chica definitely needs a MASSIVE dong just to hit a side wall. To the lucky or unlucky guy hung like a horse. Go find her and have the time of your life;).

DG club (behind Tropical).

In short I would say. Skip this place. Definitely don't arrive Solo Cholo. It might be a fun spot but only if you are with a group or minimum wingman. Messero would not take "no" for an answer and was sending over budget bar ladies one at a time. I settled on one of the hotter girls very sharky in the club- bought her a drink and she gave me a nice 5 minute lap dance, pounded her drink and was like "next". Messero was nearby ready to take her empty cup. The place might have potential but know what you're getting. Budget ladies / sharky environment probably for the local crowd. Gringo's get lap dances on the meter.

[QUOTE=Phordphan;2867344] Much better to have a kind and sweet 7 than a psycho-***** 10.[/QUOTE]Yup 9's and 10's are a pain in the ass after you bust a few nuts with them. The pretty ones always have too man options with other thirsty men.